I asked, should I go back when my uncle died?

Updated on society 2024-07-13
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is nothing necessary for this, if the conditions allow, it is best to go back, so as not to chew the root of the tongue behind the back of the seven aunts and eight aunts, if there is any very important reason not to go back, you can tell your parents, and your parents will also help you explain one or two, otherwise, it will be a few hundred yuan to go back, and there is no need to make a face.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Choose according to the actual situation of the individual, after all, it is the uncle who can go back or not, if the feelings are deep, it will be better to pay tribute, if there is no such deep feelings, you can not go back, after all, they are not their parents, after all, they are just uncles.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the countryside, my uncle died, and he must go home to mourn, otherwise he would be scolded to death. I need to understand the etiquette, so I still need to go back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, I am your relative, so if you are not far away and have time, I think you should go back, after all, it is your own relatives who have passed away to make such a big thing, and you still have to go when you have time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, in this case, you should be present if it is convenient for you. If it's inconvenient, communicate politely.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you need to ask about this? I definitely want to go back, he's all your relatives? My relatives have already left this world, and I must go back to help out with such a big thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on whether you have a deep relationship with your aunt and uncle. Each family has its own traditions, and if your parents ask you to go back, it's best to go back. Do it according to the family's arrangement.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dear relatives, you should go back, unless you are working in a special state department, etc.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can go, you'd better go with you. Your uncle, as your nephew and son-in-law, should go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Generally speaking, you should also go to it, but it is better to be able to say that it is in the past, so let's be flexible and grasp it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If conditions allow, you still have to go back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your uncle, your nephew and son-in-law should go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your uncle, like your nephew and son-in-law, should go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's best to go with you if you can. Your nephew.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can, you'd better go with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'd better go with you if I can.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you can just tell people that your uncle has passed away and hope that someone else will participate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, the power of the mind is incredible.

    7 days is the critical period, and the bardo body needs to help with the afterlife.

    Don't be greedy, hateful, and obsessive [the bardo body has his heart].

    If you can't do it, recite the [Mantra of Passing Away] [Jizo Sutra] [Heart Sutra] and sincerely recite it and ask the Bodhisattva to dedicate it to the deceased.

    The merits of breaking the five hardships, eating vegetarian food, and releasing life in place are dedicated to the deceased and his unjust creditors, and the heart is pure, and the ten thousand laws are pure.

    If you have prejudices and doubts, we recommend the correct correction of the Four Dharma Seals, the Twelve Causes, and the Eightfold Path, and if you still don't believe in the righteousness, please study the Buddha Sutra and you must have the consciousness of continuous progress!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My uncle has passed away, what should I do? I think uh, if you're a junior, these things aren't what you do? All you do is say take part in his commemoration, and then take care of him, and then take care of his family and so on.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can stay with your aunt as much as possible. Comfort my aunt. I can help with something.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Comfort your family, accompany your parents to the funeral, remember it, and send it off for the last time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Send flower () hoops. If you have already gone to work. You can express a separate share of money in addition to what your parents have indicated. In addition, as a relative, at your aunt's house, help with chores! For example, assisting in the reception of other outsiders who come to worship () sacrifices.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Go with your parents and see what you can do at any time, and if you can't, just ask your uncle what he can do (= =).

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can recite the "Jizo Sutra" or chant Amitabha Buddha to surpass the dead, and there is no bright and solemn Buddha in the south.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Keep your grief and follow the elders. Customs vary from region to region.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go to other people's homes and do whatever you can, help, greet guests, and do some chores before and after.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What can be done is to put down the work at hand, to comfort the family, to send off the last ride.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's time to worship! Do you need to keep filial piety there? You can also go to keep filial piety.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Look at the relationship, if the relationship is good, you need to go back; If the relationship is more ordinary, it doesn't matter if you don't go back.

    In a group of relatives, there will always be one or two "not very good at chatting", for example, if you say that your salary has been raised, he will say "I am so old and unmarried, what's the use of earning more"; When you get married and have a happy family, he will say, "Your salary can't even support your children, and getting married is also a burden."

    In the face of this kind of person who doesn't open which pot to mention, you can express your feelings straightforwardly, tell the other party that you are actually quite worried, and don't mention it again.

    If the other person is still talking, you can find an excuse to interrupt the conversation, such as "I'll pour you a glass of water", or become the questioner, not giving the other person a chance to ask questions, asking about things in the other person's life, sometimes your inquiry shows that you pay attention to him, but instead makes him feel respected and forgets about you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, I personally think that if your family doesn't need you to go, you can choose not to go, if your family needs you to go, then you can choose to go, of course, I personally have netizens who said, if it is really your uncle, if you don't go, it hurts the feelings of your relatives, it seems inappropriate not to go, after all, it is your own relatives, don't go back, can't say, if you really are like this, then it is likely to lose your loved ones, rather than this, it is better to choose to go back, what do you think? The above is my personal answer, which may be somewhat inaccurate and may be somewhat incomplete, but I hope it can help you, of course, if you think it is good, you can adopt it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I have to go back to this. There are only a few relatives in their lives, so they must go back!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When my aunt died, everyone pooled money for the funeral first.

    It depends on how many cousins and brothers you have. Is the funeral big or small? Nieces, nieces, nieces, nieces, nephews, nieces, nephews, nieces, nephews, nieces, nieces, niece A family pays 1,000 yuan.

    And then there's your aunt's nieces, nieces, nieces, and nieces. A family pays 1,000 yuan.

    My aunt's children are 10,000 per person.

    Let's get together the money first.

    Then buy filial piety clothes. Buy a coffin. Buy paper and laugh fiercely. Buy papier-mâché.

    Dai filial piety money of 10 yuan per person.

    1,000 yuan of crying money for one person.

    200 yuan for one person.

    The nieces, nieces, nieces and nieces each paid 50,100 yuan for wreaths.

    A banner is more practical than a wreath.

    After the funeral, the curtain was used as cloth. You can make clothes, quilts, or whatever.

    Wreaths are not practical and burned. It also pollutes the environment.

    The couplets of the wreath are the same. Merely. The middle section of the wreath is a laying word. It should have been written.

    Aunt died, the above paragraph: mourn the old lady of the old age.

    Medium: The niece cried and the aunt was in tears.

    The next paragraph: The foolish nephew is crying.

    Aunt died, the above paragraph: mourn the old lady of the old age.

    Medium: Niece crying, tearing aunt.

    The next paragraph: Foolish niece so-and-so weeps.

    Aunt died, the above paragraph: mourn the old lady of the aunt through the ages.

    Medium: The niece cries and tears the niece.

    The next paragraph: The foolish niece man weeps.

    Aunt died, the above paragraph: mourn the old lady of the aunt through the ages.

    Medium: The niece cries and tears the aunt.

    The next paragraph: The foolish niece wept so-and-so.

    Then buy Da Mingjing.

    Daughters and sons-in-law buy one together, nieces and nephews buy one together, nieces and nephews buy one together, and daughters and sons-in-law buy one

    Dayi Dezun Xianyu, a certain grandmother, a certain old man, a certain year.

    The foolish woman led the daughter and granddaughter to cry.

    Nieces, daughters, nephews, sons-in-law, aunts and grandmothers

    Da Yi Dezun from the grandmother of a certain old man and a certain age of the inscription.

    Foolish from the woman so-and-so led the woman from the granddaughter so-and-so wept.

    Nieces and nephews and sons-in-law (trembling up to touch aunts and grandmothers).

    Da Yi Dezun, aunt, grandmother, adult, and the inscription of a certain age.

    The foolish niece and nephew led the daughter and nephew to cry.

    Then the nieces, nieces, nieces, and nieces and nephews offered a sacrifice of 1,000 yuan.

    After the funeral, the sacrifices were shared among everyone.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Judging from the situation you described, my aunt died, and I don't need to go back, that is to say, in addition to my parents, grandparents, I have something to deal with, so I don't need to deliberately rush back. The situation is like this, pro, that is to say, in addition to their own close parents, grandparents, other relatives, such as uncles, uncles, aunts, aunts, uncles, these inconvenient times can be, do not come back is the old eggplant, if you have something to deal with in the field, it is inconvenient, no one will blame, so you don't have to worry about the fire, it is convenient to come back, it is inconvenient to say a ** greeting on the line, oh <>

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's a fact that my aunt died. I was walking on the way to see the security door, and the people who had just been unsealed were running around and wanted to buy a door. But I couldn't concentrate, my eyes were full of tears, I hid under the brim of my hat and walked forward with blurred tears, people were busy walking their own way, no one would see my tears behind the mask of the eyes, maybe even if they did, no one cared.

    Life under the epidemic has become accustomed to quietness. Get used to living your own life.

    The reason I cried was because I thought I was more lonely. This loved one, who loved me without guard, is really gone. Not coming back. I don't know what I'm thinking, I'm really sad and tears are coming down again and again, dripping on my spectacle lenses. I'm used to crying silently.

    I can't go and see you off, auntie, forgive me. Sitting on the pile of tiles at night, I seem to hear you say, "Don't be too tired." Take a good rest, your voice is so soft, like you're afraid to scare me away.

    Your words are so soft, it seems that you have thought about it for a long time and practiced it many times before it comes out. It's a pity that so far, not a word has been left. Only at night, I miss you more.

    Dear aunt, go well. I am in the strange land of Yanzhao again, running on my own road.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    <> husband's uncle died and was going to go, after all, they were relatives. The reproduction of human beings is interconnected, and each ethnic group has a system of kinship titles to indicate the relationship between family members. The title of kinship refers to the name that determines the relationship between the member of the family and the person by the person in a purely pretending to be centered on the person, and is a name and name for each other between relatives based on blood relatives and in-laws.

    It is a sign that determines the relationship between the relative and the person with the person as the axis. The kinship of the Han nationality is clearly organized, respectful and orderly: those who are older than themselves are called uncle, uncle, and uncle; There are brothers, sisters, and sisters-in-law of the same generation; The next generation has nephews and nephews.

    The kinship of the Chinese due to their in-laws is quite complex, and the various titles derived from them are also a major feature of the lack of Chinese culture. In the real society where a couple and one child were implemented before the two-child policy was liberalized, there were no other relatives except for the parents, grandparents, and maternal grandparents who were direct relatives, and the title was very simple.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. Our inheritance law clearly stipulates that your father's estate, you and your mother are the first to inherit.

    Our inheritance law clearly stipulates that your father's estate, you and your mother are the first to inherit.

    Your father's inheritance should be inherited by your mother, your mother, you and your brother, and your aunt has no right to inherit and cannot take possession of the estate, in which case you can sue the court for the return of the estate.

    It will definitely help you get justice.

    If you are satisfied, we look forward to your likes.

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