After the age of forty, in what ways are husbands and wives colder, but they have a better relations

Be cold to the opposite sex around each other, only in this way will the other party feel that you care, and he will not have a fluke mentality to betray your feelings. Be cold about venting each other's emotions.

Don't interfere too much in each other's private space, so that you can live a better life and avoid some quarrels that affect the relationship between the two parties.

In the face of some disagreements on issues, we must pay attention to this aspect so as to avoid destroying feelings.

Pay attention to the other party's feelings, often share the things encountered, the other party should be sincere and communicate frequently, understand the other party's thoughts, and share the burden with the lover to solve problems for him. Talk about early elimination.

If you don't notice the shouting attitude, you must ignore communication, you must communicate when you encounter problems, tolerate each other more, understand each other at the source of failure, and don't ignore the 4 things of seepage rent, so as to make the relationship between two people better.

We must learn to continue self-growth, communicate with each other, pay attention to each other's inner feelings, do not say something hurtful to Cong Cong and the other party, and must establish a sense of mutual trust.

Personally, I think that it is not because they have become a middle-aged couple with less and less affection at the age of forty, but that a couple with less and less affection has entered the middle-aged stage of forty years old. This concept is very important and must be clearly distinguished. Why do you want to distinguish this, the reason is very simple, because time does not make feelings fade, what really causes feelings to fade is that people get along with each other to make each other's feelings weaker and weaker, and even wear out the last residual warmth of feelings.

Most 40-year-old middle-aged couples, frankly speaking, are not willing to change the status quo, and their attitude towards marriage is more of a "resignation" to maintain the status quo and continue to live. Why is this happening? Because most 40-year-old middle-aged couples are no longer willing to give more, they believe that even if they give more, they will not get the corresponding response and gratitude.

Similarly, when the other party occasionally gives more, he will also feel taken for granted, because the other party has "owed" too much to him over the years.

It is precisely because of this deep grievance that when the other party intends to pay more, hoping that the other party will see and respond, so as to change the status quo of the husband and wife. Usually they are disappointed because the other person seems to have no response, does not thank or refuse, and even takes it for granted. When seeing this scene, the party who pays will not continue to pay stupidly, because they feel that the other party is not worth paying at all.

Slowly, when people reach middle age, husband and wife will no longer try to change each other, because the other party will not thank each other for everything they have paid in the change, and the other party is not worthy of or worthy of paying more.

So you will find that it is not that the relationship between the husband and wife has faded until the age of 40, but that the relationship between the husband and wife has long been weakened, and there is not much so-called affection and love between each other, everything is just a habit, so they are used to making do with each other until the age of forty.

If you want to change everything, you can only communicate openly and honestly, give together, respond together, and change together. Otherwise, life will go on like this, or until one party can't stand it anymore and chooses to end up in divorce.

It may not be that their feelings are becoming more and more flat, but that their feelings have been sublimated, and these feelings have been integrated into the bits and pieces of ordinary life.

I think that because by the time I am 40 years old, two people have been married for 20 years, so they are already very familiar with each other, and the relationship will become more and more flat.

Maybe it's because everyone knows each other too well, so I'm a little tired of it.

It's bland, because the relationship will be like this, and after the sweet period, there will definitely be a dull period.

The life of husband and wife after the age of 40 is basically separated, and the communication between the two people will not be very intimate, nor will there be a lot, and it looks very dull.

The relationship between husband and wife will become dull, but they will also be inseparable from each other, because they have become accustomed to each other's existence and have become relatives.