Can t I let go of my previous feelings?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe it's the first love that is unforgettable. This is the normal psychology of human beings. First love is unforgettable and beautiful.

    Why? It's not because he/she is beautiful or handsome, or because what he or she can't get is good, but because when people first fall in love, they are extremely innocent in their hearts, and they have no selfish thoughts, and they only know how to love each other with everything they have. And the love in the future will not be so pure and flawless.

    Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. She is what we crave. Most of the people who fall in love for the first time don't understand love, so there are many failures in the first love and few successes.

    You should find an unmarried one to get married, because everyone likes the original. And in love, it's better to find someone who has been in love. Because people who have experienced love know what love is and how to love.

    Follow-up: You're absolutely right.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Feelings, how many people can afford to let go, no one said that the end of a relationship, can come out in style, after all, love so will not be able to let go, the following is the analysis of the reasons for this situation.

    1. What you can't let go of is a kind of giving, called "I'm too wronged".

    When it comes to a breakup, the person who suffers the most is often the one who gives the most. Only with love can there be giving, and if you don't love, the once giving, is a pain, or even a shame. I once thought that I could live for a lifetime, but the other party was going to get off halfway, and the desolation of being thrown halfway will make you Chuntong doubt the past, and the huge grievances will make you doubt the so-called love.

    People who give too much are always reluctant and are always disappointed. It's too aggrieved, so I can't let it go.

    2. What I can't let go of is a mood, called "I'm unwilling to pick up my acres".

    We have to admit that no one is willing to break up when a relationship comes to an end. Whether it is the one who is disappointed or the one who is disappointed, no matter how many reasons there are, it is inevitable that there will be some unwillingness in the heart. After all, when they were together, they all tried to change each other, even if they didn't get better, at least they made each other improve, even if it was a plaid shirt worn on the body, it could remind people of the scene when they were together.

    When a relationship ends, what we can't let go of is a mood. I was unwilling to let go, and I had to let go.

    3. What you can't let go of is a kind of memory, called "once too beautiful".

    There is a kind of breakup called helplessness. Obviously in love, but because of various lives have to be separated, the beauty of the past has become a shackle of memories, the more I think about it, the more heartache I feel. When love becomes the past and is stationed in the bottom of the heart, the too beautiful past has become a memory that you can't let go, even if it is the tears that you have shed together, it will make you think that it is the most beautiful tears in this life.

    Once too beautiful, unforgettable for a lifetime, how can you say that you can let it go? The so-called "can't let go of a relationship" is actually a ...... that I can't bear to let go of the heart that I have loved and hurt

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