What are some things that you don t understand until you enter society?

After entering the society, I finally understood the following things: the work within the establishment is more advantageous, the status of civil servants is the highest, and the employment environment in the society is not very good.

Marx is a very powerful philosopher, and although Musks's theory has gone through hundreds of years, it is still possible to feel a lot of truth. Only real practice can feel the reality of this society, that is, practice determines cognition, and the cruelty of reality cannot be felt in school at all.

After two or three bad jobs after graduation, I finally realized that only jobs such as graduation can provide a sense of security. Most of the jobs in society must be 996, and the salary income they can get is not much higher than the salary of the public institution, so many people choose to take the job in the establishment. <>

Civil servants are definitely the happiest group in this society, because their work income is very stable and they have a very high status in society. They also have a great future of development, and they can achieve higher social status if they are able. <>

For those who have graduated from excellent schools, it is relatively easy to find a job in society, but for those who have graduated from ordinary universities, they can feel the cruelty of this society. When you just graduate, you can only get a salary of less than 4,000 yuan, and your living expenses will account for more than half. <>

For young people, they should practice in society before they graduate, and then make the most suitable life plan for themselves. In fact, many people will understand some truths in society after graduation, but it was a little late at that timeIf we can realize it earlier, we will be able to have a greater advantage.

1. It is enough to brush the circle of friends once a day, and no matter how much you brush out a flower. And most of the time, after reading the circle of friends, I feel that nothing has changed my life, how to do it or how it is, and even feel like a waste of time.

2. True friendship does not need to be deliberately given to maintain. More than a year after graduation, there are still a few good friends, and the common point is that we haven't put any effort into this friendship, what we want to say, what we want to do, what we want to do, say what we are not used to, change it, and encourage it if there is none.

3. For the vast majority of people, career planning is a false proposition. Due to professional reasons, I have read a large number of resumes, and there are very few people who have done the same job or even the same field in ten years, and some people's industries and career spans are outrageous, such as doctors changing careers to do sales, food delivery people changing careers to operations, etc., so if you know what you want to do after graduation when you are in college, it is a great thing, if not, it doesn't matter, the devil knows what you will do in the future!

4. Be mentally prepared in advance for the growing gap between you and others. The gap here not only refers to how many streets others dump you, but also includes how many streets you dump others, of course, the former is the majority.

5. Don't worry about going back to your hometown or staying in the big city. Try to toss a coin, if you want to toss again after tossing, then the answer has come out, follow your inner thoughts, otherwise you will always feel that there are shortcomings in your future life.

6. Like you≠ always like you, like you≠ only like you. Liking is a feeling, not a commitment, don't take it too seriously.

After entering the society, I understand the following things: manage your body and appearance, the most suitable for reading when you are confused, there are good people and evil people in society, if you have a dream, you will defend it, endure the calm for a while, and take a step back to open the sky.

At work, you must strive to improve your work efficiency, you must maintain a good relationship with your boss, you must learn to attract the attention of your boss, you must seize the opportunity of promotion and salary increase, you must summarize your experience in life, and you must understand the rules in the workplace, which are all things that you can only understand after entering the society.

Abandon the student mentality, do wrong in this workplace, and no one will understand you. So you can only keep trying, and these things are only realized at a later stage.

Each of us thinks differently, and if you're a student, you're probably going to feel a little bit more relaxed, and you're going to feel like school life is really good. If you have entered the society, then you may find that the human heart is also very complicated, and the people around us are also very complicated.

Don't tell anyone everything.

Many girls are very simple, so these girls like to tell each other everything on their minds, but this behavior may also cause you to become very confused. In fact, we will also meet people we like more in life, or you trust your colleagues more, but we can't tell each other everything, because we don't know people and faces. On the surface, you may be very good with him, but the other party may not believe you, so the other party may turn around and tell another person about it.

We can't do that, because it might hurt you, and you might get very uncomfortable.

We must keep an eye on it.

Before, I especially hated those who had scheming, if you are already in the society of repentance, we must learn to keep an eye at this time, although you don't want to hurt others, but others may want to hurt you. Girls must not be so simple, and we must also restrain our edge at this time, if you especially like to show yourself, then you may be hated by others, and you may also be jealous of others, so you will be hurt.

How should we make it simpler?

We must pay attention to related issues in our daily lives, but there is no need for us to feel too nervous, because the problems we encounter are different for each of us. Therefore, everyone must be vigilant, but everyone must also be a kind person, and we should not hurt each other, because the other party did not deliberately infringe on your legitimate rights and interests.

When entering the society, don't let yourself be too simple, and you should also pay attention to the fact that people have no way to become better friends, unless they are people with the same heart or have a common goal, they must work hard when they enter the society, so that they can have a better life, and they can also let themselves have a better future.

You must do what you like to do, you must improve your expression skills, you must improve your social skills, you must not offend others, you must not take the elderly to empathize with you, and no one can consider the problem for you from your point of view.

These problems are that we must not violate the bottom line of others' auspicious reforms, we must not destroy the interests of others, we cannot influence others, we cannot disturb others when they are working, and we cannot interfere with the judgment of others.

Nothing will change because of Shouzhen's own thoughts, it's not that Yunshu He wants to make society adapt to you, but you have to adapt to society, you should adjust your mood, and don't write your emotions on your face.

First, you must know that seniors are very important, you must find someone to collect you on your behalf, second, you must abide by the time, third, you must keep your promises, you can't be untrustworthy, these are all things to know.

Be low-key. Be generous and decent. It is very important to pay attention to people's feelings.

Bosses like to draw "big pies" for their employees. In the workplace, there is a relationship between superiors and subordinates. Colleagues are in competition with themselves, so don't treat colleagues as confidants.

Have an empty cup mentality. Don't talk nonsense.

Don't pity anyone, there must be something hateful about the poor person, there must be a reason why a person will fall to the point of misery, and this reason, most of which is also self-inflicted, this is self-inflicted, no need to sympathize. Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, everything has cause and effect, we don't need to pity anyone, and I think that a person with backbone does not need others to pity him, only those who pretend to be pitiful hope that others will sympathize with him.

After entering the society, I have a deep understanding of four things.

1. Age is important.

After graduating from college, my life came to the 24th year, and I was in the prime of my youth, when I dared to try and touch, I was not afraid of failure, and I could be content with short-term mediocrity. When I encounter failure, I will tell myself: I am still young, I am not afraid.

It wasn't until I was mediocre that I came to the age of 30 and turned into the year of standing that I suddenly looked back, once I wasted another three or two years, the person was finished, and it seemed that age did not allow me to continue to do nothing.

The workplace is cruel, 35 years old is really a hurdle that cannot be crossed, how many people do not succeed in getting the first victory before this line, and then they will lose and retreat. That's all life is about. Age is too important, it is a matter of success or failure in the workplace!

Second, the body is very important.

For the workplace, the age of 30 is the age when there is no way to accept failure, trial and error, but for the body, it is even more cruel, and after the age of 35, the physical state plummets. I don't like to exercise, I have lumbar and cervical spine problems, irregular diet, stay up late, and once avoided medical treatment, leaving some problems, always thinking that I am young and fine, until I leave some irreversible damage will I feel remorse. Filial piety is too important to be healthy!

3. Family is very important.

In society, the troubles of the workplace are far less than the troubles of the family. The troubles in the workplace can be regarded as a challenge, dare to face it head-on, and do it. However, the troubles of the family, involving the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the estrangement of the three generations of the old, the middle and the young, and the handling of various relationships such as housing and education, consumed 80% of their energy.

It's really not easy to run a family. Rough one.

Fourth, money is important.

This is not to advocate the theory of money, but when entering the society, Jin Qiao Li Qian can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles, solve a lot of things, and reduce a lot of troubles. No money is really impossible! When I was young, I thought that there was no money to make, so I just had to be happy; But later I found out that when I didn't have money, I really didn't know how to earn it, I didn't know how to earn enough expenses, and I was really confused at that time, and I couldn't talk about being happy.

Only enough money can support yourself to take a breath, take a break, think about it, and dream a dream.

After entering the society, I found that in fact, not everyone wants you to live a particularly good life, and there are a lot of unspoken rules in the society, there are a lot of unfair behaviors, you need to work hard to have opportunities, and you need to have a good relationship with your leadership colleagues.

Not everyone is suitable for being a friend of the file, this matter is deeply experienced after entering the society, some people are not suitable for being friends at all, and not everyone is very kind, and some people will deliberately target you, even if you don't do anything about the source, Xinghong but he just doesn't like you.