More and more post 90s and post 00s think that they are socially controlled , and social control

Social phobia is still relatively scary, and there are some serious people who simply have no way to communicate with strangers normally, and these people can't integrate into the collective, so they can't adapt to the new society. <>

1. There's no way to make new friends. Today's post-90s and post-00s generations mature earlier due to their early exposure to the Internet, and they are more intelligent and more afraid of being hurt by others. Most of these children are only children in the family, and they have been pampered by their parents since childhood, so they can't accept the fact that they may be hurt by others in society, so they are very afraid of this society in their hearts.

These people with social phobia have a hard time fitting into a new group because they are afraid that the crowd will find it difficult to make new friends, which will make their social circle narrower and narrower. Now everyone lives a very realistic life, and no one wants to take the initiative to talk to others. So these socially phobic people hide themselves in a small room and are reluctant to go outside.

No one will take the initiative to help them out, their lives will become more and more lonely and boring, and in the end they will even have no friends. <>

Second, it is difficult to succeed. The most important thing in today's society is talents, especially when the post-90s and post-00s graduates, they have high academic qualifications, and their creativity and imagination are extremely rich. But if you want to become a successful person, you must have your own team, because the power of one person is too small, and it will soon be surpassed by others.

But these people with social phobia, it is difficult for them to form a team with others, they are all working on their own, and it is difficult for such people to succeed no matter how talented they are. People who create phobias often have low self-esteem in their hearts, they always feel that others have malice towards them, and they always feel that they can't fit into the new collective, so they choose to escape. <>

Now the post-90s and post-00s have social phobia, most of the reasons are because they have been spoiled by their parents since childhood, and when they grow up, they have a mobile phone to accompany them every day, so they give up going out to socialize, and slowly become social phobia.

It's really scary, society is a very scary thing, it can make people very depressed, and they can't live themselves.

I don't think it's scary. Just as no two leaves in the world are exactly the same, the differences that exist between people seem to me to be understandable. Social fear is indeed a relatively common phenomenon nowadays, but I think as long as it does not affect normal life and does not affect other people, then there is no need to worry.

To share a word, why is only laughter youth? That's how I looked, that's how I lost my life, you can't deny my youth because of this! Not everyone can be active and lively, try to live your way and find fun, and that's enough.

"Social control" is actually not very scary, as long as we recognize ourselves, and we also have to respect others, and we should not easily challenge others, as long as you are serious about yourself.

"Social control" is not terrible, what is terrible is that contemporary young people are addicted to this state, and "social control" needs to be appropriate.