Recently, I always feel that I have more and more shortcomings.

That's great, you know yourself well now!

Merit? Your strength is that you know yourself!

Oh, that's the case, then first of all, congratulations, because you can look at yourself with a normal heart, most people can't see their own faults, like me, so, you are very lucky, you can find your own shortcomings to better perfect yourself, but you can't find your own shortcomings, then face life with confidence.

Agree with the opinion upstairs, you have the advantage of being able to find your own shortcomings and be self-aware. Dealing with people and things is to go through experience to do well, after a sting and a wisdom.

It's a good thing that you will progress later.

Thinking too much buddy. Don't be too confident, but don't be too confident.

Ordinary heart. That's what my grandfather told me. It's always in my heart.

Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **?

Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no soul.

I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

There are shortcomings, what are you afraid of, face them bravely, and slowly correct them, people are gradually changing, if you don't find it, there will be no correction, there will be no progress,

When some people look at themselves, they don't say a few good things, and they can say a lot of bad things. Sometimes I hate myself and want to be someone else.

Feeling that they have no strengths, only weaknesses, and a very low self-esteem, why do they hate themselves?

That's because they made up their minds to "don't like yourself".

To achieve this, they look only at their own shortcomings and not at their strengths.

Just stare at your shortcomings, hate yourself, and try not to get involved in any relationships.

That's it. In this way, you can escape in relationships, even if people reject you, you will think in your heart: because I have such a flaw to be rejected, as long as I don't have this flaw, I will be liked.

Inferiority complex is actually a feeling, not an objective thing, and the reason why you have an inferiority complex is because you feel that you are worth more than the circle of friends.

The value of those people.

Be low. For others, you only see how good others are;

As for yourself, you only see how bad you are.

This is a kind of comparison with others, that is, a subjective "inferiority complex" that arises in interpersonal relationships. If there are no comparable people, then there are no advantages and disadvantages at all, so this is not an objective fact, but a subjective perception.

The sense of value is valuable only by comparison. Of course, if you look at it the other way, the value will change.

So, if you think you have low self-esteem, then from another point of view, you will not have low self-esteem.

Because it's all subjective.

Subjectivity has the advantage of being able to re-choose a different perspective to look at things.

The only way to break this cycle.

Just don't compete and compare with others.

But it's not like you're in the world, you have to compare, you have to compare with yourself.

Everyone will be different, you may not be good at what others are good at, and in the same way, what you do well others may not do well.

So it's pointless to compare yourself to others, and doing so will only deepen your inferiority complex.

Everyone has an inferiority complex, but a sound inferiority complex does not come from comparing with others, but from comparing with the "ideal self".

The value of human beings lies in constantly surpassing themselves.

1. Most of the people who like to speak ill of people behind their backs are mediocre people.

It takes time to say bad things about people behind your back, and you are also envious of shouting that you need to find someone to talk to, and it is often not beneficial to yourself. Really powerful people, such as experts in the work, or top people in the business, and those who are serious in the work, they always feel that the time is not enough, so they often do not waste time and speak ill of others. From this point of view, people who like to speak ill of people behind their backs are mediocre people with low style on the whole, which also fully reflects the principle of "things gather by like, and people are divided by groups".

Second, people who like to speak ill of people behind their backs are generally narrow-minded in their hearts.

People who like to speak ill of others behind their backs are often narrow-minded in their hearts, and they can't see others surpassing themselves or others being better than themselves. Therefore, they often speak ill of others behind their backs. This kind of person is also very jealous.

Seeing that others are better than you, or doing a good job, and making achievements; or someone else's family is happy and married; Or the children are better than their own ......will be jealous and red-eyed, in short, they can't tolerate the happiness of others. Seeing that others surpassed him a little, Zheng Paiyu immediately became psychologically unbalanced, so he always tried to vent, and saying bad things about others behind his back or talking about other people's shortcomings became the best way for Teman to vent. In their eyes, even the strengths of others will become weaknesses, and no matter how good others behave, they are selfish.

Their psychological "pink eye" has reached an "advanced stage".

Hello, seeing your question, I remembered the previous me, I used to feel that I was relatively poor, and I was very unaccomplished affirmation, this one is stuck in the bottleneck period of progress, in fact, it is very good that you can think like this, which shows that you are self-motivated.

In this regard, you should calm down, don't think too much about things that affect your emotions, and think about what is wrong with you, and correct it.

1.Be confident in yourself, self-suggest every day, believe in yourself, it's not bad, it's important to have a flat mind, and see your strengths.

2.Don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions, reject negative comments and evaluations, don't be influenced by them, take positive advice, and be cautious in making friends.

3.Think about the reason for being angry, what is the reason, getting along with people is to pay attention to empathy, pay attention to expression, treat people with courtesy, you must have good friends.

4.Relax, don't dwell on bad things, and if you feel uncomfortable, you must vent it.

5.Listen to good opinions, don't listen to bad ones, people who say they can't do it are not normal thinkers themselves, stay away from him, and can't affect themselves.

6.Generally, there is no difference in everyone's IQ, don't be misled by some people's words, you must know yourself clearly, learn things carefully, don't be anxious, accumulate over time, and you will be successful. Have an optimistic heart, be open, don't worry, be bold and outgoing, the boss needs someone who can express it, trust me, come on!

Hello! Since you can feel that these are your own shortcomings, you can slowly get rid of them, because those shortcomings will bring you a lot of disadvantages. The most fearful thing is that some people don't know that these are their own shortcomings, so they will have to pay a painful price to wake up.

I'm sure you'll change it for the better!

When you are angry, stay calm, don't get carried away by anger, and think from the perspective of others.

Use the advantages to cover up the shortcomings, find more to discover your own advantages, find the shortcomings to write down and correct them in time, and reward yourself in time after changing one of the shortcomings, so that you can have the enthusiasm to change the shortcomings.

If you know that you have a lot of shortcomings, you should try to correct them, at least slowly change them.

No one forces you to get rid of your shortcomings, who dares to say that you don't have shortcomings, so don't worry too much about it, think more about your strengths.

Everyone may have their own strengths and weaknesses, but in life, we tend to find ourselves with more shortcomings. And it is precisely the exposure of these shortcomings that makes us always lack self-confidence and the courage to live, and sometimes we want to hide in a corner and cry secretly. At the same time, we often think:

Don't be so angry about it. However, when I really encountered it, I was still very angry and cared super about other people's gossip.

It doesn't matter, everyone will feel bad at some point in their lives.

Shortcomings, in fact, everyone has more or less shortcomings. Nothing in the world is perfect. There are flaws in good jade, and there is no 100% purity in pure **.

So, even more so people. From what you described, you do have an inferiority complex. Thinking all day long, as long as there is a slight change in the things in you, you will be suspicious and think in a bad direction.

Also, you always care about what others think, and you don't have any confidence in yourself. People have to live in self-confidence. In this way, we will have the motivation to look forward and have a positive spirit.

You're more excited, and when you encounter a little thing, you get angry. It's hard to make friends that way. Even if you make friends, they will leave you because they can't stand your temper.

Actually, everything is fine if you want to open it. People are calculating, and they will not have true friends. No one is perfect, and others say that I can't do it, so I have to accept it with an open mind.

Work hard, and one day pull out the dark clouds and see the rainbow. There are a lot of things that can only be achieved by one's own efforts. You don't know a lot of things, it's up to you.

You have to work hard to learn. Reduced disadvantages,

It is a person who will have shortcomings, and there is no perfect person.

First of all, don't forget, no one is perfect, right? It's a good thing to realize that you have shortcomings, and that's one of your strengths. In terms of learning, you should realize that learning is for yourself, eliminate distractions, and learn wholeheartedly; Regarding your usual performance, you have to have courage, believe in yourself, and encourage yourself to take the initiative.

And about the image, you have to pay attention to it, but don't spend too much time dressing up. I wish you to get rid of your shortcomings soon!!

At least you know your shortcomings, so you can see that you have strengths, so don't be so frustrated.

Take your time, the more you experience, the more you will understand.

It is recommended that you look for your own strengths again. Read more inspirational books.

First question:

Communicate more with the people around you, slowly integrate into their team, and share their happiness.

Second question:

Hands-on ability can be cultivated slowly, starting with small things, and perseverance will get better and better.

Third: personal hygiene must be done well, because it is the main factor that dominates the first impression of others, you can tidy up more, anyway, it doesn't take much time, you will feel refreshed, energetic, and more confident.

Hope it helps the landlord!

What a person is most afraid of is not knowing what shortcomings he has, you can find out your own shortcomings, indicating that you have corrected half of the shortcomings, I believe that in the years to come, you can change all your current shortcomings through your own efforts, personality communication is not good, you will read out more voices, find more children than themselves to speak, has gradually become bold, do not be afraid, slowly correct is, do not pay attention to hygiene, you know yourself, indicating that you love clean, you will definitely be able to change in the future.