I hurt my very simple and kind girlfriend, what can I do to save her heart?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I hurt my very simple and kind girlfriend, it depends on the extent of the injury, what kind of mistakes I made, and the way to get my girlfriend back is different because of different mistakes. If it's just a general mistake, I believe it's okay to apologize in WeChat or apologize in person, and I believe that your kind girlfriend won't embarrass you.

    Apologizing in person or apologizing in WeChat is only suitable for making superficial mistakes. For example, not caring enough about your girlfriend, such as annoying your girlfriend in some small things, these small mistakes can be solved with an apology. I believe that as long as the apology is sincere enough, your girlfriend will forgive you.

    Because in the stage of love, the vast majority of girls pay more attention to attitude.

    2. Deep reflection.

    Girls are more emotional animals, so sometimes if a boy just apologizes blindly, women will not be satisfied, because you don't understand the fault at all, and you don't understand the point where the girl is angry. So when there is a conflict between the two of you, you must listen carefully and patiently to your girlfriend venting her anger, listen to her complaining, know that she is angry, and understand the point of her anger, only by understanding the reason why your girlfriend is angry, can you make the next correction to be able to apologize to the point. When your girlfriend finds that you can understand him, she will feel that your apology is sincere, and your deep reflection is the best reason.

    3. Give a small gift.

    Giving a small gift to your girlfriend after apologizing is the icing on the cake. When giving a gift to your girlfriend, be thoughtful, such as something she usually mentions casually but can't afford, such as something she likes very much lately, or her favorite lipstick number. Buying these things that your girlfriend usually mentions, firstly, to prove the sincerity of your apology, and secondly, to prove that you are very concerned about her needs, which will make your girlfriend feel very happy, and I believe that your simple and kind girlfriend will forgive you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can move the other party in life, you can also buy some things that the other party likes to eat, or buy a set of clothes for the other party, or you can buy some cosmetics for the other party, and apologize in your most sincere tone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At this time, you must sincerely apologize to your girlfriend, and buy a few lipsticks for your girlfriend, so that you can win back your girlfriend's heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, we must understand what the problem is. Mistakes are accumulated over time, and disappointments are cumulative, and they cannot be formed in a day or two. So it's useless for you to rush to redeem it, and it is not something that can be done overnight to redeem someone who is extremely disappointed in you.

    Therefore, we must reflect on ourselves, find our own problems, do our own mistakes, and do not refute the faults pointed out to you by the other party, and seriously correct them. In this way, we can come up with a solution and prescribe the right medicine.

    The second is to let him see your determination. When you hurt his heart, it's actually hard to make amends. Therefore, it is necessary to be doubly good to the other party when it comes to redemption.

    Find out the problem and prescribe the right medicine. We should step up the correction of what is wrong, and redouble our kindness to him, compensate and comfort the other party's heart. The more he cares, the more you will be good to him.

    In order to compensate him, you have to take care of him, send medicine when he is sick, take care of him。Correct all the mistakes you made in the past, and don't show any intention of making amends, at this time, if you show your true thoughts, then he will only think that you are very selfish. So be nice to him with a caring attitude, just a relationship, nothing else.

    He also has to make it clear that he wants to completely change his mind, and he can't put any pressure on him.

    There is also insistence, all your changes must be visible to him, and work hard for it, persevere。Don't feel that your mistakes are low-end and don't correct them, know that details are everything. The most important thing is sincerity and the determination to redeem the other party.

    If you love someone, you will definitely be willing to pay a lot for him, persevere, and the other party will eventually see your sincerity and be moved by you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't try to chase him, but promote your own value.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Be brave enough to pursue her and look to her for a better future for you.

    How to get back your ex-girlfriend, whether you can get her back or not, you have to do your best. The experience of successfully recovering love, breaking up with the public column to save your girlfriend You might as well try all the things you can think of, even if you don't have the confidence to save her, you have to try it boldly, and pursue her with the belief that she will die and be reborn.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People who truly love you will not be hurt, and no one will remember it

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Such a person should not hurt him, so he should redeem it with sincerity and sincerity!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can make it clear to her, confess your mistakes, bear your own mistakes, if you can forgive, then continue to love her, if you are not forgiven, then bless her, hope she is happy, and hope it will help you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Use your sincerity to redeem it, and one day she will see it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have hurt others, it may not be easy to redeem it, feelings are not easy to deal with, sadness is always inevitable, it depends on whether you have sincerely changed, sincerely repenting in front of your girlfriend, it should give you a chance.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Admit your mistakes, apologize, and be genuinely good to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To propose, a ring is the best promise for him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you hurt someone who loves you, you will not be hurt and no one will remember it, if you hurt someone who loves you, use your sincerity to influence her ......

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Makoeda apologizes.

    But basically, it can't be recovered, because the heartbreak is fierce, and it is the most difficult to annihilate the source.

    And you don't know what kind of life he's living now.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If she has you in her heart, you can ask her out to make it clear about the past and make it clear that you still have her in your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Child, is it a broken love? Not happy? Regarding this question, I think the first thing you need to figure out is why did your girlfriend break up with you?

    Is it because you treat her badly, or that you are having an affair with other girls outside, or that you are not motivated to be with you and she can't see your future, so she broke up? The solution to each situation is different, in general, the psychological age of girls will mature earlier than men, there are some things that you must think don't matter, but it is very important for girls, so you have to figure out the reasons for your own breakup before you can prescribe the right medicine.

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