What should I do if I hurt the person who loves me the most?

It is impossible for people to live without mistakes, and some mistakes are made unintentionally, but whether you do it intentionally or unintentionally, and no matter how big or small the mistake is, I think you should apologize. Some injuries may seem small to you and are unintentional actions that you have made, but for the person who has been hurt, it may not be a small fault that you think will not hurt much. Your apology can restore self-esteem and dignity to the other person, and make the other person confirm that it is not their fault.

At the same time, let the other party feel your sincerity and the importance of the other party in your mind, so as to get along better. Therefore, apologizing is not only an admission of one's mistakes and revealing one's self-blame, but also a commitment by the person who made the mistake to constantly change his or her behavior. I want to resolve relationships.

In addition to arguing about who is right and who is wrong, there is a more meaningful way to apologize.

If you hurt your love, it must not be intentional, if you hurt it unintentionally, you must let the other party know your true thoughts, let him understand your heart, exchange my heart for your heart, if he also loves you and understands your unintention, as long as it is not a matter of principle and moral and other reasons, he will definitely forgive you, untie the knot, and the damage will be minimized. Of course, you also have to reflect on yourself and avoid making similar mistakes in the future. If you love deeply, you will be kind.

To err is human? There is always a time when people are young and vigorous, and at that time you may be simple and reckless, you may be ignorant and impulsive, and you may be arrogant and ,......No matter what type of young you are, in short, at some point, you have deeply hurt someone who loves you deeply. Finally, one day, you woke up.

And regret it! What to do? First, face yourself.

Recognize whether your own awakening is simple, emotionless, or whether you are surprised that you have unknowingly fallen in love with the other person. Now it's time to take concrete action to make up for the mistakes.

I thought that if I really hurt my beloved, I would put down my self-esteem, apologize unconditionally, and ask for forgiveness. Feelings are eternal to be cared for. It cannot be trampled on at will.

Human emotions are fragile. If you have no intention of doing something wrong or are negligent in your words or actions. Not being accepted and understood by the other party.

Even the evil words add up and slander. The most likely to hurt the relationship that has been established between the two parties. So communicate and communicate at the right time.

Ask for your understanding. Very necessary. So I'll apologize to my lover who hurt me.

Seek understanding. Until understood.

QQ Maniac first wishes you eternal happiness.

It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone you love the most, what is forgetting? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

Don't deliberately forget, it will only be harder, time is the best medicine, let time help you forget. Maybe there are some things that you can't forget with time, so don't forget them, treasure them in the deepest part of your heart, seal them up, and call them memories that have passed. Try to look at the past with a normal heart, how much time it really takes, and it is actually up to you to decide how much time you can face yourself anew.

No one else can help you.

Then find a way to make up for the mistakes you have made and minimize the damage.

I want to say that the person who loves me very much does not only refer to the lover alone, in addition to the lover, my parents also love me very much, from childhood to adulthood, my parents also gave me kind fatherly love and warm maternal love! So, I don't want any of them to get hurt because of me! If they are harmed, whether it is physical or mental, I will do my best to repair the injury or heal the psychological wound, and try to minimize the extent of the damage.

Even if there is even the slightest hope, I will do my best and do my best.

You should try your best to undo the damage you have caused and not let yourself regret it.

First of all, you must apologize sincerely, let the other party feel your sincerity, and then use your own practical actions to make up for your mistakes!

When I was in college, I had a girlfriend, and she fell in love with me at first sight, and at that time, her life revolved around me, and she was simply obedient. Because I always felt that she was too clingy, I was angry with her once. After two seconds I regretted it and immediately apologized to her.

I think if you really hurt the person who loves you the most, you should admit your mistake right away, that's the right way to do it.

Since you are hurt, you should know how to apologize and comfort him, so that it is better.

First be sincere, then find a way to make amends, and finally, ask for the other party's forgiveness.

Then you should do something strange to come back and save her, even if it doesn't work out in the end, but you've tried.

Even so, the other party won't blame you, but just want to get your understanding, or go and apologize.

It's already hurt, it's useless to say anything, and there's no regret medicine to take, so I can only apologize to him clearly.

Make up for it in time, and if you have a person who loves you deeply, you should cherish it well, not hurt it.

If you hurt the person you love the most and you want to make amends, then you still have to do this according to what you do, because what we need to know is that each of us attaches great importance to each other's feelings when we fall in love, and we are also very serious and responsible for our own feelings, and no one wants to be hurt a lot in love, so it will make our love particularly impure.

It will also make you slowly lose the courage to want to continueTherefore, each of us should be very serious and responsible for our love, but if we really do something in love that hurts the person we love the most, then I think we should also actively make up for itBecause once there is a crack in love, it is very difficult to smooth out, if we ignore it, then it will make this crack bigger and bigger, bigger and bigger, and it will be out of control in the end.

This will also make our love go strangeTherefore, when we hurt the person we love the most, we should actively admit our mistakes, and review the mistakes we have made, why we do these things to make the other person feel angry, this question is also something we need to considerWe have to make certain changes according to our own mistakes, so that the other party can feel our determination to change, and you have to let the other party find a sense of security in love.

and a sense of self.

To make his love seem to be a shelter for him, he can confide in some grievances in life or work in love, and he can fully understand him and help himIn this way, it will make him happier and happier in love. And we must not have our own dignity in love, because it is particularly wrong to use our dignity in front of the person we love the most.

We can all experience the pain of being betrayed and deceived by the people we love the most. Faced with such a situation, whether or not to forgive is an individualized decision, as each person has their own unique perspectives and experiences.

Personally, I feel that forgiveness is a choice, but it is not a choice that must be made. The pain and hurt of being deceived by the person you love the most and betraying your trust cannot be ignored. Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting, nor is it an act done to cater to the other person or meet society's expectations.

Some important factors can be taken into account when considering whether or not to forgive. First, consider whether the other person is genuinely remorseful and take responsibility for their actions. Forgiveness may be easier if the other person sincerely apologizes for their mistakes and is willing to take action to mend the broken relationship.

Second, the importance and history of the relationship can be considered. If the relationship is particularly important to you and you have experienced many beautiful moments together in the past, the likelihood of re-establishing trust and forgiveness may be higher.

However, the emotional and psychological needs of the individual are also very important. When considering whether or not to forgive, individuals need to fully respect their feelings and needs. If forgiveness causes more pain on oneself or serious damage to one's self-esteem, then not forgiving is also a reasonable choice.

Finally, it's worth mentioning that forgiveness doesn't mean ignoring or turning a blind eye to wrongdoing. After forgiveness, it is also necessary to establish new rules and boundaries with the other person to ensure that the possibility of a similar situation happening again is minimized. In addition, mutual efforts are needed to restore the broken trust and gradually rebuild the relationship.

In summary, whether or not to forgive the deceived person who loved the most depends on the individual's emotional and psychological needs, the other person's attitude of remorse, the importance of the relationship, and the individual's confidence in whether the relationship can restore trust after forgiveness. The most important thing is to respect your feelings before making a decision and not to be too swayed by external expectations and social norms.