What should I do if a guy likes me but doesn t want to develop a relationship with me?

Maybe a lot of women will have this experience. A man has always maintained an extremely ambiguous relationship with you. In the eyes of almost everyone around you, you are like a couple.

Only you know that in addition to ambiguity, you are still far from a lover's relationship. A lot of women don't understand this. If it's so intimate, why do guys like me but don't want to develop a lover with me?

One, he likes you a little, but not deeply.

He has a crush on you, but not particularly deeply. He likes to enjoy solitude and flirtation, but he doesn't want to be tied down by boyfriend and girlfriend. He prefers freedom and does not want to be tied down, rejected or irresponsible.

Two, he's just a green tea.

He is embarrassed to reject you directly, for fear of embarrassing you, so he says he likes you, and then he finds a reason to make you less upset, so that you can accept it calmly and think that he is not a scumbag. In fact, he just doesn't like you very much. He doesn't want to spend his time and energy on you alone.

3. He doesn't like you and just treats you as a spare tire.

If a guy really likes you, he is not willing to push you out. He just doesn't like you very much. He thinks that you don't have any attraction to him, that you don't have enough heart for you, that your desires are not that strong, and that you are more like a chicken rib to him.

Be ashamed, don't lose meat, don't lose too much. When he comes to a better opportunity, he will give up on you completely. If you meet a man like this, don't waste too much precious time on such a man.

His mind is not on you at all, and he has not thought about further development with you, so he must learn to stop losses in time.

Fourth, lack of confidence, no results.

He likes you, but he thinks there are many differences between the two of you, such as family background, family background, work, region, living habits, personality, and so on. He doesn't think it's particularly suitable, or he feels that his career is not very stable, he doesn't have much time and energy to fall in love, he doesn't have much material foundation to give to the other party, or he doesn't like you that much.

So he doesn't want anyone to disturb his normal life. He doesn't want to be tied down and he doesn't want to waste your time. In short, he is a very selfish and self-centered person who does not want to be disturbed by others.

Fifth, girls, when you meet someone you like but find various reasons to reject you, then he doesn't like you so much. Don't listen to any other excuses and reasons, these are fake. If he really likes you, he won't push you out.

He just doesn't like you and doesn't want to be with you, that's all. So, if you meet such a man, give up decisively. Don't expect anything.

At the end of the day, it's just a waste of your precious time. People who really like you want to be with you, how can they reject you again and again? To put it bluntly, the other party doesn't like you, that's all, so they won't give themselves too much drama in the end.

Letting go early is the best option.

After such a situation, girls can also try to take the initiative to confess to boys. Because if you like a boy very much, girls will also feel that they have lost their judgment. So at this time, girls should also learn to show themselves bravely, and they can bravely confess to boys.

But there are some girls who will still refuse early after confessing, and if they encounter this situation, girls must also learn to let go bravely. Maybe many girls will meet some very good objects in the process of getting along with the opposite sex. At this time, girls will also feel very excited, and they also want to be with boys.

However, in the process, many girls don't know if the boy likes them, and they don't know what the boy thinks. There are also boys who like girls very much, but they don't want to be with girls. After encountering this situation, girls can also learn to be brave enough to express their inner thoughts to boys.

In this process, girls can also show their strengths like boys. At this time, there may be some girls who are also very shy, and they dare not tell boys what they think casually. Because these girls feel that after expressing their ideas, they will be looked down upon by boys.

In fact, when this happens, girls don't have to be too shy, because even if they express themselves, they won't be looked down upon by others. If the confession is rejected, the girl can learn to say goodbye to this person bravely. Because if a boy doesn't like a girl, they won't pretend, and they won't choose the girl to be with in the process.

So at this time, girls must learn to stop losses in time and learn to give up this relationship. I believe that many girls have met the boys they like, but the boys don't like them very much. After encountering this situation, it will also make the girl's heart very tormented, and even some girls wonder if they are not beautiful enough or not good enough.

In fact, it is very normal for this situation to occur, because everyone has different requirements for the other half. Therefore, girls do not need to feel wronged, nor do they need to feel incomprehensible. When you meet someone you don't like, a girl can also learn to give up, and in the process she will meet someone better.

The guy wants to be friends with you, he doesn't want to fall in love with you, he just wants to find a confidant. If you want to fall in love with him and he refuses, you can find out if he has a girlfriend. If he doesn't have a girlfriend, you can gradually develop a relationship with him in the process of contacting him.

If he has a girlfriend, you simply treat him as an ordinary acquaintance, so that you will not be delayed in finding love.

You have to remember that your current feeling may only be a good impression of her, control your feelings, rationally solve such problems, if you find that you are truly loved, then come on and pursue, hope!

They may simply like your personality and want to be friends with you, since he doesn't want to be a lover with you, you don't want to force it, just get along as a friend.

Look you're really attracted to this man. Because some men chase women, they also have a good impression of this person at first, and after a period of contact, this woman begins to be cold to this man. It is also true that you don't want to develop intimate relationships.

You should have the right chat with the guy and you should tell him what he really thinks. The boy should also be interrogated if he is not ready, and the two of them should communicate before making the next plan.

Stay away from such people, this kind of people just treat you as a spare tire, don't get along with this kind of person.

At this time, you should tell each other, rest assured, if the two people are not together, they will become very good friends, as long as they say what they say, the other party will believe it, and the relationship between the two people will not be particularly excessive.

You should confess directly to this guy, because if two people really like each other, they will definitely not be able to be friends, so they must confess to each other.

You should choose to stay away from this person. This person just wants to use these words as a spare tire and doesn't like you very much.

You should choose to stay away from this person, this person just wants to use these words to treat you as a spare tire, not really like you.

A fierce boy likes you, but is unwilling to develop a lover with you, why is this? Maybe he appreciates you very much, feels comfortable with you, feels that you are an indispensable person in his life, and feels that with your relationship, you will never leave him. Therefore, he is unabashedly professed in his love for you, but when you are full of anticipation and think that you are going to be together, people's desire for freedom is often beyond their imagination.

Some people fall in love because they need each other more than they need to be free. Obviously, for boys who like girls but don't want to be with them, their preferences are far less important than the freedom they have in mind.

One situation is that the other person only wants to use you as a spare tire, depending on his usual circle of friends and whether he will take the initiative to do anything for you or if he will give you most of his spare time, so he will not be impatient with you. Another situation is that the other party may have other considerations, such as his current financial situation and busy work. If a man is under great financial pressure and has not even planned his future, he may also be afraid of delaying you, so he will not dare to stay with you.

It depends on whether he usually behaves well for you or not, except for her family, she is just nice to you. She is willing to give you her spare time and pay attention to you. It's just too complicated.

In this day and age, there may be too many men and women who like to be alone but not together. There are all kinds of factors that make amusement! I'd rather be alone than spoil the peace of reality!

Just want to find so-called comfort! Suffering! Torture yourself by hurting the stinging soul!

Why bother! Why? I don't agree with such an ending!

If you want to love, be generous!

Why put up with yourself! Second, for the sake of their own hair and sales future, they hope to find a girl who can help themselves and love more passionately. When they feel loved, they can suppress beauty.

Why not? The reality is often so cruel! Love is not together!

Strange who what's wrong! I don't like to call the clouds a confused life! Love is not everyone can stand in need of two words!

Dare to love! Do you understand!

If the guy likes us, but he doesn't want to develop a lover with us, in fact, I don't recommend continuing to contact the other party, even if we are friends, I think it's not a good relationship.

He is reluctant to develop as lovers with us, and he must also feel that in this relationship, ambiguity is a better way to get along, if it develops into a lover, it may bind him, so he is unwilling to develop with us as lovers, then if we continue to contact each other, in fact, we will also have luck in our own hearts, is it not as long as we contact him for a while, more contact with the mountains for a while, he will be able to accept us, when we have been holding such a mentality, When I came into contact with him, I was actually not good at laughing.

Because in this process, we all want to get positive feedback from him, but if we don't get his feedback, we will be more angry, and we may even have taken the position of girlfriend. Because he likes us, but he doesn't want to develop into lovers with us, but when we continue to contact, the woman may actually have a vague definition of the relationship. In other words, he will think that he is already his girlfriend.

But at this time, we can also empathize and think about this problem from his point of view, if we like a girl, but we don't want to develop him into a lover. If a girl claims to be a girlfriend, we will feel disgusted. Then this relationship or this relationship can't get a very good result in the end.

The girl will actually prefer to be with this boy, but the boy just likes us, but he is unwilling to develop into lovers, so this means that he has certain concerns, or in his opinion, we are not a good object, so at this time, if we insist on contacting, it may be a harm to both parties in the end.

Since I don't want to be a lover with him or before, I think our relationship can only go to the end, and it is impossible to make any new progress, and I don't need to communicate with him.

No, because such people always treat me as a spare tire and won't really be with me, which makes me feel very bad.

Yes. Because I can't be lovers, it's good to be good friends, so I still keep in touch with each other.

Eh: Read your description of him.

I think there are a few questions.

First of all, he is a very self-conscious and self-centered person.

This kind of person usually likes to do everything according to his own opinion, such as playing mahjong, he can come as he pleases, and others say it doesn't work.

It is true that he is very realistic, although life is also very realistic, but marriage is a big deal, and it will be better to choose a good partner who is suitable for you. You may not have any opinions yourself, because you like him, so you listen to him in everything.

At this time, if his opinion is right, then it doesn't matter, if it's wrong, then the result is more depressing.

Also, you say that he is not very good at work, and is a little content with the status quo, maybe this kind of life is very good, leisurely.

But do you want to make sure that's what you want?

And there is... Well, personal opinion, a 29-year-old man who feels good and generous to people and is not short of money, don't you think it's strange for him to say that he has never been in love.

Because there have been such cases in the past, that is, there is a 30-year-old man who is not bad about everything and is in a hurry to find someone to marry, and the woman feels quite satisfied, thinking that it may be because she is old and is in a hurry to get married. Later, after getting married, I found out that the man only likes men, and he got married because of the pressure of his parents, so he should be cautious and focus on it).

Besides, you're only 23 and you're still very young, so don't try it.

Think about what you want and can he give it to you? And then think again.