The man said that he would be friends for a year first and slowly understand the meaning of rejectio

Updated on society 2024-07-05
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's not a refusal, maybe you don't want to have a direct boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and then you feel that if it's not suitable later, you have to break up, and you may not like the feeling of breaking up. I hope you can learn more about it first, and then further determine the relationship, such people are more emotional, and they are more dedicated.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, I usually want to understand sincerely and sincerely, and it is generally not a refusal, and there must be a process for two people to get along.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, women in love are really very clingy, because as long as a woman likes a man, it seems that she will become much gentler than before, and she will become much more clingy than before.

    No matter what you do? She doesn't seem to be able to do without the person she likes, and she wants to stay with the person she likes anytime and anywhere, pestering him to do a lot of things. So if a woman really likes you, then she must be clingy, because she simply can't control herself to approach you.

    Only when she doesn't like you anymore will she not pester you, because she doesn't want to see you anymore at all, and instead of pestering you, it is better to do something else.

    At this time, she no longer has a little place for you in her heart, even if you treat her well, you will not be able to go back to the past.

    In fact, when you like someone, you will hope that he will become better, and then you will ask the other party in many aspects, but you will hope that the other party will become better and better.

    Especially for a woman, the person she likes must be the best in her heart, but excellent is not enough, she has to continue to be motivated and continue to learn, because there is no end to learning, and only by continuing to study will she not be derailed from society and will become more and more successful.

    So when a woman falls in love with a man, she will be very demanding of the man, not because you are not good, but because she wants you to become better and better.

    And when she doesn't like you anymore, what you become will have nothing to do with her, and she will no longer ask you for anything.

    Love is not something that can be obtained in a day, love is a process that needs to be accumulated slowly, and only when love accumulates to a certain extent, love will be generated.

    It's the same if you don't love, people's hearts will not be cold for a day, people only have to be disappointed again and again, and feel the other party's indifference to themselves again and again, will they slowly lose their love and let go slowly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It shows that this guy doesn't like you very much, and he doesn't really fall in love with you, so it will take a year to see if he can really fall in love with you, so that it won't hurt you or embarrass each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What is the premise of the man's words? Did he bring up the topic first, or did you give him a liking for it? If you express your affection, what he means is not to rush to determine the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship first, you can get along as friends first, and then talk about it after you understand it.

    It should not know you well enough, but it doesn't hate you, so it will be a bit abrupt and imprudent if you agree directly, but if you refuse directly, you will lose a chance to understand you and even fear losing your friend. So he will say this, so don't worry, just get along with him naturally, give each other a chance to get to know each other better, and even if you suddenly find out that he is not suitable for you, you will not be embarrassed to be friends, I think this man is actually quite rational and will come to things. I wish you the right half of the match!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To put it bluntly, it is interesting to you, and it is not embarrassing to contact in the name of a friend. You won't be too disgusted, this is to put a long line to catch a big fish, if you don't hate this person, then look everywhere, but....No matter what identity you get along with, you can't spend money on him, and keep a safe distance during the contact, even if he confesses to you, don't be in a hurry to be together, cool down first, this can test his sincerity to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe they use you as a spare tire and raise fish.

    If I really like you, I can't wait to chase you, and I can't wait to show you favor every day.

    He said that he should be a friend for a year, I'm sorry, girl, you treat him as an ordinary friend, you can go to the next one, the next one is more well-behaved.

    And this kind of saying about being a friend is usually an expression of rejection, a euphemism, but he is obviously treating you as a spare tire.

    You can choose for yourself, don't be obsessed with him anyway, it's not worth it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What this man means is that you don't have a deep understanding of each other yet, so you can be friends first and learn what each other is like through daily interactions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good to understand between men and women first, it's good for everyone to pat and pat tow, understand what kind of character the other party is, it's not too late to get married, there's nothing to be embarrassed about, if you get along and be husband and wife in the future, there's nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The man said that he would be friends for a year first, and it would not be embarrassing to get to know him slowly, because men don't want to determine the relationship so early, and want to understand each other like a friend to see if the relationship can be determined within a year.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The purpose of saying this is that he is afraid that if he rejects you directly, the friendship between you will be broken, he doesn't like you, but he wants to be friends with you, so he said this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    By being friends first, you can let the other person know the real side of the other person in detail, and then determine the relationship, so as not to get angry later.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't want to get close to you now, just a normal friend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The blind date man said this sentence in two ways. One meaning is to reject you tactfully. There is also a meaning that he wants to spend some time with each other to try it, and if it is suitable, it will be together, and if it is not suitable, forget it.

    You'll have to look at his other behaviors, and if he doesn't contact you after talking to you about the topic, then it's actually a rejection of you.

    On the other hand, if he has been quite positive in contacting you, it means that he wants to get along with you. Therefore, you can't just use this sentence to guess the meaning behind it, you have to judge it in combination with his subsequent behavior.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The blind date man means that he didn't like you as a person.

    That's why I want to be friends with you.

    Or rather. The feeling you gave him was not so much love at first sight, not so strong, but you felt that your conditions were not bad, and it was a pity to give up.

    So I thought about saying, first understand and then see.

    Personally, I think maybe the man has such a mentality, he may have other blind dates and don't want to give up on you, but maybe the next blind date will be better.

    So this side hangs on your side and goes on a blind date with others, if there are many blind dates that are not as good as you, then they will be with you.

    It depends on your personal thoughts, if you think he is suitable for marriage and together, then you can tell him directly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is normal, it is impossible to say that you want to be a couple as soon as you meet, of course, you must understand each other for a period of time before you say it, and only after understanding each other will you know if you are suitable for each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's normal, I'm afraid that the other party is not suitable, so I put forward this, this man is very stable and mature, and it is worth dating.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Give a performance, understand the machine. Have you seen people's hearts for a long time! After all, it must be someone who wants to spend a lifetime together, be careful!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Get used to you first, or you're a stock.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Pretty much doesn't feel anything about you! But it's good to get to know each other and avoid flash marriages.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shows that this boy is very stable and does not rise and fall.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It should be time to consider a different person on a blind date.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's normal to date for a while first.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I guess I don't feel much for you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Look at it, why does this love word have a friend word?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The girl chases the boy, the boy does not reject you, and hopes to start with friends, which also shows that everyone has a chance, so you take your time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This person is more honest and tells the truth, that is, he accepts you as a friend, and the relationship needs to be cultivated slowly.

    It's not a refusal, it's a consent!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's a refusal, which shows that she really just wants to be ordinary friends with you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Use you as a spare tire... If I liked you, I would have been ecstatic, but I didn't feel for you and felt rejected, but it was a pity to say that I started as a friend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then try it slowly, the chance is better than the chance, and now it means that there is still a chance.

    Go on more dates and hug him more.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not a refusal, it's just that you are a spare tire, if there is a good one, just say that we are not suitable, if not, we will not be single.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I want to be a lover with you who is not responsible.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can understand it as a rejection of the object that is present and where you are.

    But there is no direct refusal, it can also be understood that he gave you a chance, if after a period of time, he is willing to be with you if he passes your inspection, if he is not qualified, he still does not agree.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not a refusal. You can be proactive.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's not the kind of love at first sight, you have to get to know it slowly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Pain is inevitable.

    Asking others to say whatever they want may not work.

    The most important thing is to see the facts for yourself.

    The most painful thing is that others can't share it and can't help you, so you can only get through the healing period on your own.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, it probably doesn't feel that big for you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Be careful, don't let him take advantage of you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The pursuit should not be confessed first, it should be attracted first.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    At least not very much like you for now.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't like you like this, and I've been rejected too.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Take your time, maybe we'll be together.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No, if you refuse, it will be made clear, men are not like women.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I don't like you very much, and I can't choose from it, and I don't have a suitable candidate, so I'm afraid of missing you. What you have to do is to improve yourself and attract him, but pay attention to your own safety.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I just want to treat you as a spare tire, and I don't refuse or accept it!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There's nothing wrong with that. What a man means is that two people start as friends, get along for a while and get to know each other again, see if they are suitable for each other, and continue to develop if two people get along, and separate if they don't get along.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I didn't refuse, I used to like a girl, I was very naïve at that time, I only knew how to study, I said that I would wait until the college entrance examination was over, and then she would ignore me, and now I really regret it, it depends on that person's personality.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Men use friendship in exchange for love, women use friendship to reject love, mourn children.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    He may think that you didn't understand it deeply enough, and you need to get in touch more, and see if it's appropriate to get along.

    I'm going to talk to you about this matter with the heart of a male insider.,First of all, I like to take the initiative.,I want to take the initiative to fight for the people I like.。 Suddenly, a woman confessed to me, and she was actually very happy, but I didn't think I knew enough about it, and I wasn't particularly satisfied with the type, so I better be friends first.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In fact, he did not mean to refuse.

    What you mean, he just wants to get back to you through a slow understanding, and then answer.

    to decide you. Whether you want to deal with the object or something, he doesn't know enough about you. You don't know her very well, but you don't feel very good about you now, you can start slowly from friends, and then slowly get to know her before deciding whether you want it or not.

    Become each other's couple or something. This is not the meaning of rejecting you, this is the meaning of starting with friends first, slowly getting to know each other, and there is still a chance to be together.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    The boy copied it from you.

    Say, start with a friend. It expresses two meanings. First, you still hope that he didn't reject you, second, he really doesn't know enough about you, he will decide whether to continue dating you after investigation and contact, such a boy is rational and cautious about feelings, you will feel very happy when you associate with a boy like you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Cherish the fate of being friends, and finally come together through mutual understanding, trust, and tolerance, and work hard.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Give you a chance, boys never think too many women.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    The third-party agent of your customer service is.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If it's more embarrassing now, you should still get along for a longer time, as long as it's a little longer, the two of you will be very familiar with each other for a longer time.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Boys say to make friends and get along slowly, either they really don't understand you, or they don't like you.

    In this case, if you want to talk to him, just talk more about daily life, just chat normally, observe his preferences, and find a common language. You can hold it a little bit, don't go all at once, just keep a little bit of mystery. If you are embarrassed and can't continue to talk, quickly find a topic, or simply say that you won't talk about it in advance, so as not to put the other party in an embarrassing situation all the time.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Women chase men into yarns, in fact, the communication after the failure of the confession is very embarrassing. But if this guy really doesn't like you, just give up, say anything to make a friend, don't like it, don't like it.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    The boy who confessed to the boy said to make a friend first and then get along slowly, the boy's words are not sure what the feeling is for you, it may be confessed by you, and then the words feel a little sudden, in fact, many boys have not experienced it, and they are confessed by girls, so they have always been caught off guard, so they are ordinary friends, and if they get along well, as for whether they will treat you as a spare tire later, it is not necessarily.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    In this case, it is recommended not to associate with the other party anymore, after all, the other party does not really like yourself, and it is not good for you to always take the initiative like this, it is better to give up and let the two people return to an ordinary relationship.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    It mainly depends on your own, whether you really like it, if you are sincere, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, you can deal with it, and if you can't, you can't do it!

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