What are the manifestations of a girl who tests a boy and wants to determine the boy s sincerity?

In fact, in the process of chasing girls, girls can not only passively accept your pursuit of perfection, she will also pass some tests to determine whether your love for her is sincere. If you don't follow his test, then that's the end of your relationship; If you can follow his test, then she will slowly open up to herself. Let's share with you what are the main performances of girls and boys?

She wants to make sure you are sincere.

Add you, or let a friend add you WeChat, tease you, see what you reflect, whether you will make some code behavior, say some more coded words......This requires the boy to have enough self-control and judgment ability, and he doesn't have to be caught by a girl with braids, so she won't believe you at all, and it's basically no fun to catch her.

Naturally, if you have passed this test for girls, she will feel that you are a trustworthy person, at least at the human level, she will feel that she has passed the level, so that she will not test you like that in the subsequent relationship.

Another way for girls to test boys is to pretend that there are other boys besides you who are pursuing her, and she does this to see how much you care about her. If you listen to a girl say this and act very concerned and angry, then the girl thinks that you care about it and are sincere to her. If you don't have any main performance and are indifferent, then the girl thinks that you don't care much about her.

Another way for girls to test boys is to use separate tests, which is a form that many girls in love also use. The purpose is to see if you say that the breakup will scare the boy's boyfriend, and I just want to make the boy's boyfriend obey himself after that. If you encounter this situation, don't be in a hurry, see if the breakup that the girl said is really a separation or just a test of you, if it is a test, then don't fall for his tricks, don't show too much concern or go rashly to stay.

Otherwise, you will be frequently threatened by girls in the future.

In fact, the reason why girls have the main performance of boys in the above test is because of the lack of security of girls.

is worried that the boy's love for her is not sincere, and she is worried that the boy will not cherish the girl when he chases the girl, so she will use a series of tests to make it clear that the boy is sincere to her. When you meet such a girl, the boy must learn to distinguish, otherwise you can mistakenly think that the girl does not like your test, then I will lose her completely.

He will spoil you very much. He will give you many gifts. He will give you something very precious. He will feel sorry for you. He will become very inferior. He would work very hard to earn money. He will approve of you as a person.

Then you may deliberately have more intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex to see if the boy will be jealous, or do something to arouse the boy's concern.

They will test each other with breakups, they will pretend that there are boys pursuing them, and they will use other girls to test each other.

Here's how boys generally test girls:

1. Chat with you from time to time.

Surely many friends may have such a feeling, that is, it seems that when a boy first pursues a girl, the usual means are to chat with each other from time to time, no matter what is wrong, he will always send messages to the other party, in fact, this is a manifestation of boys tempting girls. Because many times if you are willing to continue chatting with him and always reply to his messages seriously, in his eyes it means that you are tacitly acquiescing that he can chase you.

So, as a girl, if you think this guy is also a pretty good person, you can reply to the other person's message and let the other person know that you are interesting to him. If you don't like the other person, you can politely decline the other person, and be sure that the other person will understand what you mean.

2. Ask you out to play.

In addition to chatting with you from time to time, one of the things that guys will do is take the initiative to ask you out to play. Because many times, if you just use social software to chat, it is just a way for ordinary friends to communicate with him, and it does not prove whether you are willing to accept him and have a further understanding with him.

At this time, the boy usually takes the initiative to ask the girl for a date, see what the girl's attitude is, if the other party agrees, in the boy's opinion, you are willing to have further contact with him, so you will agree to go out with him alone. Therefore, girls must distinguish the signals of good boys, and if you don't like them, you must remember to reject him, so as not to misunderstand what the other party means by you.

3. Have physical contact with you.

When you have known each other for a long time, this guy may actually have occasional physical contact with you, which does not mean that he is taking advantage of you or something, he will only occasionally find opportunities to have physical contact with you, for example, when crossing the street, take your hand for safety reasons, but let go after crossing the street, or use some other opportunities to have physical contact with you.

When you don't object to his physical contact, he won't make any further moves, because the reason why he wants to hold your hand is just to be able to understand your mind, not to take advantage of you.

4. Occasionally make excuses to ask you out.

Boys generally appear more active in the face of the girl they like, such as dating her. Even if he doesn't behave very obviously in the early stage, he will make excuses to ask you out when he has the opportunity, and the reasons are generally very nonsensical, for example, there was a good movie recently, I just have two tickets here, and it's too boring to watch alone (so I don't have any other friends to date?). It's too obvious).

Therefore, whether you agree to him or not basically determines the response to him.

5. Everything will tell you.

There are many behaviors of men to test you, if he tells you everything, even if it is a particularly hard thing, he will tell you, which means that he tests your reaction to see if you are interested in his private life, or have too much concern for him, so men will have no reservations about you if they like you, and women should also understand properly.

Summary. It also shows his inferiority complex from the side, and he feels that he is not worthy of you, so he keeps testing your attitude.

What does it mean that a boy is always tempting a girl in various ways?

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Whether he is testing your attitude towards him or your attitude towards other men, it shows that he is not confident in himself.

It also shows his inferiority complex from the side, and he feels that he is not worthy of you, so he keeps testing your attitude.

If he is testing your attitude towards his social circle, it may be testing your bottom line.

In short, no matter what reason he tempts you, it comes from his own lack of self-confidence. You can tell him that you care about him and that he doesn't have to worry.

Summary. How do girls test whether boys are sincere to him, and how to test them in general.

Therefore, the key to sincerity lies in daily interaction, and time and encounters can be seen slowly.

In fact, girls are insecure, and if you want to determine whether the other party is sincere, first of all, you need to see if he likes to look at you when he speaks.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he will definitely look you in the eye when he speaks, because he longs to see your reaction at the first time.

Boys test girls.

If a male student tempts a girl, see if she knows you well enough. For example, if you like the dishes that Zheng Huan eats, or whether your girlfriend can take care of you and care about your health when you are sick.

For example, if your girlfriend knows your preferences, or if the two people have different interests and hobbies, let's take Pei Dan as an example, you love to watch the World Cup, although your girlfriend is not interested in this aspect, but Chi Yu is willing to accompany you because you like it, this kind of girl must be very fond of her boyfriend with liquid friends.

To see a person's sincerity to another person is not to see what he says, but more importantly to see what he or she does.

Do you have any problems with your girlfriend now, or if you have anything on your mind, you can tell me about it.

May I ask, boys send messages or call** with girls, will choose not to pick up pants, do not reply to filial piety, this way to test boys, there is a cautious and simple time to reply to the message, to answer**.

I think there is this way you said, but it also depends on the situation, if you want to test the other party's tolerance to your relatives, or when the girl ignores the man's life, you want to see if the man is actively trying to get in touch with his girlfriend, and you can also see whether the man has a girlfriend in his heart. And if your boyfriend really has something urgent to discuss with you, then it's a different matter.

Excuse me, what does it mean that the girl took the initiative to call the boy and her parents to eat together?

Okay, I should want to see how the man's parents are and how they get along.

Girls and boys have reached a stage of dating, and it is also like understanding some of the situation of the man's family, personality, and circle, so that you can also have a more comprehensive understanding.

I had dinner at home a few times together, and after work, the boy and the girl said that they would eat out tonight, and the girl asked to call the boy's parents, which means something.

It shows that the girl and the man's parents get along more harmoniously than the clan, and they get along, and it is also possible that the boy is eating outside, and the woman takes into account the emotions of the man's parents, and hopes that the uncle and aunt can go outside together to relax and relax.