Can loving someone really care about the past?

It is impossible to really love without minding, after all, the past affects the present and even the future. There are some things that you better not ask, and it is better not to say them. You can't stand it if you say it in detail, and if you say it vaguely, you always have question marks in your heart.

Of course, I think that the present and the future are more important than the past, and the past cannot be changed, so I wish you good luck if you correct your mentality.

Everyone has their own secrets, and some secrets can only be known by themselves. If you say it, you may have hurt the people around you. If you love someone, if you care a lot about his or her past, then both parties may have disagreements, contradictions, and even hurt because of some bad things in the past.

Smart people don't do that, and everyone is enjoying the good time together.

What he loves is his present, and let him pass the past, unless he himself doesn't want the past to be the past!

If you really love someone, you can really not care about his past.

The reason why the eyes are in front of them is that they want to look forward, and if they are always obsessed with the past, they will not be happy. The past has passed, it is useless to think about it, the future has not yet come, it cannot be grasped, only the present is worth cherishing.

Yes. After all, what is more than the past

What else do you want to do so much?

If you really love him.

Don't care about anything

Yes, as long as it is true love, it will not care about the past, people live in the present and the future, and will not always miss the past.

Since you have fallen in love with someone, you must be in love with this person for all. It is generally impossible to refer to Wang's past. Otherwise, you will not fall in love wholeheartedly, love needs to be tolerated and explained, only in this way can you really fall in love with someone.

There's a good saying: I care about your past, but I don't want to know anything about your past!

If you really love someone, you don't care about the other person, whether it is in the past or in the future. It's just that many things can't be forced, so we retreat to the next best thing, selectively make ourselves less concerned about the other person's past, just don't care so much, can we really do it less caring?

What has never been experienced, the promise made at the beginning, many times is just a kind of groundless blind confidence!

The so-called love, the most important thing is acceptance, that is, to forget each other's past, that is: I don't mind what kind of past you have, I don't mind your so-called black history, what I care about is the present, and the future we will have together. It's just that when fantasy and reality collide, anyone can helplessly see their own narrow side, and can't help but condemn me in my heart for not being tolerant enough, and on the other hand, questioning:

Am I not loving him enough?

No, no, no, I believe that most people's love is thick and sincere, and there is no need to question yourself. It's just that growth itself is a fantasy, reality shines into fantasy, breaking illusions, hesitation, hesitation, and then the process of being truly firm, so my advice to friends who are in confusion is:

1. At the beginning, saying that you understand and pretend not to mind must be a manifestation of true love, there is no doubt about it;

2. As long as you don't hurt the other party, then let the other party know your past as little as possible, as well as many details of the past, after all, it's one thing to know, but it's another thing to witness the whole process of things and not care about it.

3. If it's the other party's past, you don't have anything to do to investigate the other party's past, it's okay to block yourself, it's enough to support yourself, as long as you are sure that the other party loves you now, you don't care about the rest.

Finally, you have to remember: true love is not a sterile soup, the fish tank can be used, there is no need to pursue how tight the fish tank is, there is something to test the other party, but when the other party can't stand the test, he says: I see, you really don't love my ......This is really full of food!!