Why is the team of unmarried and childless people getting bigger and bigger?

There are three reasons why the team of <> who do not marry and have children is getting bigger and bigger, the first is because of the high cost of marriage and children, and many young people or young people's families are not qualified to marry and have children. The second aspect is because there is no time, many people are tired enough to take care of themselves, and they are already used to living alone, and they are not used to having one more person in their lives. The third aspect is that I am not interested in getting married and having children, and I have devoted myself to work and life.

The above three reasons will be explained in detail by the cases around me.

My brother is 27 years old this year, and his parents are very close to urging him to get married, and often introduce him to girls, but my brother is not very willing to fall in love and get married. He hadn't been in a relationship since he was a kid, and for a while I even doubted his sexuality. Later, I was also a little anxious, and I also hoped that he would get married as soon as possible and stabilize it, so I asked him why he didn't accept the girl introduced by his parents.

He told me that he was not able to support a family, that he had not bought a house or a car, and that he did not want to rely on his parents' money to get married. I know this is an excuse, but this is a very real reason, because the fact is that he may not be able to get married if he doesn't buy a house or a car, and according to the customs of our hometown, the bride price is a very stressful thing for his parents and him, and the price they need to pay for it is also very large.

But I knew in my heart that he was definitely not just for this reason, and under my questioning, he told me that because he didn't have time, he didn't have time to cultivate a relationship, he didn't have time to get married, he didn't have time to have children and take care of children. Moreover, he has been single for 27 years, and he doesn't mind being single all his life, and now his mind is focused on work and life, as long as he takes care of himself every day. If he doesn't get married, his parents don't have to grit their teeth to buy him a house and a car; If he doesn't get married, he doesn't have to take on the responsibilities of a family; If he doesn't get married, he doesn't have to care about the feelings of another person.

If you want to do whatever you want, you just want to be lonely, and you don't want to break your habits. I think this is not only my brother's idea, but there are more and more young people in this society who are reluctant to get married and have children, and there are all these reasons.

In addition, the thinking of contemporary young people is no longer the thinking of the older generation, they will not feel that the meaning of life is the continuation of life, nor will they feel that getting married and having children is something that must be done in this life. More than that, they are willing to live the life they want to live alone, so the ranks of those who do not marry and have children are getting bigger and bigger.

In today's society, more and more young people are joining the army of unmarried and infertile people, and I think there are several main reasons:

First,Constraints on economic conditions, as well as the constraints of price conditions. Marx once said that "the economic base determines the superstructure". In recent years, due to prices** and the impact of the new crown epidemic on the economy, young people generally believe that the cost of living has risen, and it is good to be able to meet their needs at the moment of the epidemic, let alone raise an extra child (or children).

While the cost of personal living is rising, so is the cost of raising childrenIt has greatly changed young people's expectations of future economic conditions, causing them to tighten consumption and promote the decline in marriage and fertility rates.

The marriage rate is declining year by year.

Second,Influenced by the times, people's concepts have also undergone fundamental changes. People in agricultural societies are influenced by traditional concepts, economic conditions and social structures, and generally derive the concepts of "raising children to prevent old age" and "having more children and more blessings". Now, industrialization and informatization have promoted economic and social development, people's economy has improved, social security benefits have increased, and people's obsession with "raising children and preventing old age" has gradually dissolved.

In addition, with the encouragement of our country's national policy in the last century,The concept of "fewer children, better children, and a happy life" has gradually replaced the concept of "more children and more blessings". People are interested inThe cultivation of children also tends to be elite training, and the cost increases at the same time, which leads to the concentration of resourcesThis is also one of the reasons for the decline in fertility.

Reasons why young people marry later.

Third,The awakening of women's consciousness is also one of the important reasons(Of course, there is also a certain degree of change in the perception of men). In feudal society, women had a low social status and even had few inheritance rights, and were not allowed to rely on marriage or childbirth in exchange for means of subsistence. With the development of modern society, women have been liberated into the field of social construction, entered the higher education school, mastered the economic foundation, fought for the right of inheritance, and improved their social status in comparison.

At this time, they will think about whether the institution of marriage is beneficial to them, and they will begin to face up to the cost of childbearing, and when they realize that the cost is not proportional to the benefit, they will naturally take other ways to obtain the benefit.

Fourth,Discrimination against women in the modern workplace. As mentioned above, women are gradually entering the workforce, but many companies now have widespread gender discrimination, and even directly discourage pregnant female employees. This has exacerbated women's anxiety about being forced to quit the workplace, so more women in the workplace choose to avoid the root cause of the problem, choosing not to marry or have children in order to seek the development of their careers.

I think the root cause is society's neglect of the cost of childbearing for women (it is important to know that only women have the right to have children, and men only have the right to request children), which leads to the above reasons.

To sum up, the limitations of economic conditions, the change of concepts, the awakening of women's consciousness and gender discrimination in the workplace have all created the current situation that more young people are entering the army of non-marriage and infertility.

Recently, some people have suggested that young people working overtime and overtime will affect their marriage and childbirth, which is correct. ......However, the problem of low fertility is not only caused by young people working overtime, but also by many factors. ......Specifically, the reasons why young people do not have time to get married and have children include high work pressure, lack of time and energy to get married and have children, limited conditions to get married and have children, and many young people lack the willingness to get married and have children.

1. The high pressure of work makes many young people have no time and energy to have a baby.

One of the reasons why there are many young people who do not marry and have children is because of work. ......Due to the huge pressure of daily work and the impact of long hours of overtime, many young people do not have enough time and energy to get married and have children, which is a very real reason for the decline in fertility.

2. There are many young people who are unable to get married and have babies because of their limited conditions.

Among the young people who are not married and have children, many are due to their own limited conditions. ......Specifically, these young people have limited economic conditions and lack sufficient ability to get married and have children, and most of them are unable to get married and have children because they have no money to buy a house. ......This factor affects young people more than the pressure of work and overtime.

3. Some young people lack the willingness to get married and have children, and they are unwilling to get married or have children.

Another important reason for the decline in fertility is that some young people lack the desire to marry and have children. ......For these young people, they don't have enough intention to get married and have children, so they won't take action, and these young people will become older young people, still single when they are older. This factor is also an important factor in the decline in fertility.

Therefore, there are many reasons why young people do not get married and do not have children, and it is not just the reason for working overtime.

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Hello friends, although there are many people who are not married and infertile now, he cannot become the mainstream, which is contrary to the development of society and the continuation of human life, so the main idea of people will still be, 4 thousands of years of history and culture, slowly develop and continue.

Among the post-90s and post-00s, there are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. However, this does not mean that this will become mainstream. ......The reason why I say this is because marriage and childbirth are always the mainstream choices of young people, late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that there is no marriage and infertility, and real life will prompt young people to make the choice of marriage and children.

1. The concept of getting married and having children has always been the mainstream view in the minds of young people.

Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children, this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-95s and post-00s.

In fact, among the post-95s and post-00s young people, the vast majority still choose to get married and have children, which is their mainstream choice. ......It's just that the behavior of those young people who choose not to marry and have children is too conspicuous, so it will give people the illusion that most young people choose not to marry and have children.

2. The young people born in the 95s and 00s choose to marry and have children later, which does not mean that they will not marry and have children.

For the post-95s and post-00s, most of them did choose to marry later and have ......children laterThis makes it true that there are not many young people born in the post-95s and post-00s who get married and have children. ......But we have to be clear that late marriage and late childbearing are by no means the same as not marrying and having children. Those post-95s and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children will eventually get married and have children, which is the mainstream choice of most people.

Those who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority.

3. Real life will prompt the post-95s and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children.

Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not marrying and having children at the beginning.

But with the gradual enrichment of life experience, the minds of these people will change. ......Under the influence of their families, relatives and friends, and those around them, these post-95s and post-00s will gradually realize the necessity of getting married and having children, as well as the many benefits they bring to themselves, so that they will eventually change their minds and want to get married and have children.

It is precisely because of this reason that unmarried and infertile will never be the idea of post-95 and post-00 young people, and the vast majority of them will still choose to get married and have children.

In fact, everyone longs to live a normal life, with love, warmth and happiness. But all this is easy to achieve on the basis of no pressure and economic prosperity, and now there are too many people who are unemployed and have taken a pay cut.