Why are there more and more people who are not married and are single?

I'm very busy at work.,The circle is not too big.,Although I'm doing the work of contacting people.,But in fact, the personality is not the kind of person who can speak well.。 Therefore, not getting married does not mean that you don't want to get married at all, but that you have no opportunity to expand the channels for your own marriage.

There are too many ways to entertain now, and you won't be bored if you live alone, watch dramas, brush your mobile phone, read books, travel, train, etc., a person can live a colorful life, so people who were originally afraid of loneliness and boredom may not get married.

After graduating from college, I was finally able to fall in love, and the more anxious I found myself, the more I forced the object of possible development to be thousands of miles away from me;

The divorce rate of people around me is quite high, and I have seen many people who have been hit by failed marriages, so once they get married, they really don't want to get divorced.

The men have no money, and the women have not found any money.

The discomfort and even fear of marriage itself, in my own family of origin, seeing that my parents' marriage is basically the standard marriage model of the older generation, in fact, there are many things that move me, but I am always very hesitant to repeat their marriage path.

The spirit is very independent and does not need to rely on others. You can fall in love seriously, sleep with him seriously, manage the relationship seriously, don't have to be his appendage, don't care about his seven aunts and eight aunts, there will be no straight male cancer mother-in-law who tries to ride on my head to oppress me, and no one will force me to have a son.

Because I don't believe in love. Are there any good men in the world ? Yes! How much is it? Many! But I don't believe I can meet it.

I'm still more reluctant to go on a blind date, and I haven't participated in it, but now my thoughts are loosening, and I don't think it's such a shameful thing, but I always feel weird, and I still think it's better and more normal to meet at a certain opportunity.

I have a house and a job, and I never thought of relying on others to support me. I didn't think about it before I had a house and a job, and I won't think about it after.

My grandparents are still alive and hope that I can personally support the elderly and send them to the end of their lives without being tied up by others.

There is no opportunity to meet new and interesting people, and after meeting new people and getting used to their old safety shells, they are not motivated enough to find each other fresh or interesting;

There are more and more young people who insist on celibacy and not get married, which can be regarded as a white head for their children for the older generation who are anxious to hold their grandchildren. So, why are many young people nowadays preferring to be single rather than married? There are many reasons for this, which can be roughly summarized as economic and spiritual reasons, and of course there are objective reasons.

Let's discuss in detail the reasons why young people would rather be single than married.

The economic reason is that these young people are not financially qualified to get married, although the society has always advocated not bride price.

Many areas are also rectifying the problem of huge bride price, but even if there is no huge bride price, marriage still requires a house and a car, and raising children after marriage also requires a large amount of expenses, which makes many young people feel unaffordable.

The spiritual reason is that many young people reject marriage, thinking that marriage is equivalent to putting a shackle on themselves, they don't like to be "kidnapped" by marriage, they like to be alone, and live a free and uncontrolled single life. This spiritual cause is generally not easily changed.

Of course, there are objective reasons, that is, these young people have poor conditions in all aspects, and there is no reason to marry them at all. If they are not liked, of course they can't get married if they don't have a suitable partner, and for them they will lose the idea of finding a partner after a long time, and would rather be single alone.

If you have more comments or suggestions on the topic of "many young people would rather be single than get married, why is this", welcome to actively comment and participate in the topic interaction and **, and talk about the reasons why you and the people around you would rather be single than get married.

Because today's young people don't like to settle, they all hope that they can be better before they meet the right person, and now the social pressure is very high, and many people can't stand the pressure of getting married.

Because there are many people who think that getting married is a troublesome thing, this situation will occur.

Because I can't get mixed up anymore.

The unmarried people around me don't regret taking too much, they all want to get married but it is difficult to find a particularly suitable other half, at least the elderly couple. The idea of unmarriage does not arise in a moment, it may have something to do with her own personality and her own life experience. Maybe some people yearn for freedom, or maybe some people have a fear of marriage because of certain things in their lives.

But whether they are married or not, they all have their own pursuits and ideas. In my opinion, unmarried people are a group of people who have rich life experience and are very individual.

Some strong women have become representatives of unmarried, their hearts are very strong, and their ability to live and work is strong, so they will feel that they can take care of their lives very comfortably and live as they want without the help of their other half; There are also some characters with distinct personalities who have become unmarried, as if they have seen through the world's mode of getting along, they can live better without getting married, they can spend their lives carefree and without constraints, and their thoughts are often "life is only once, as long as you don't break the law, what you live depends on your own choices and your own decisions"; However, the saddest group of unmarried, perhaps not because they do not want to get married, may be traumatized in the process of falling in love, and thus have a fear of marriage, and are forced to become people who do not want to marry.

No matter what the reason is for the unmarried, we should treat them with respect and understanding, treat them from the perspective of ordinary people, and wish them to live a satisfactory and comfortable life.

The unmarried people around me are actually more men than women, the main reason for men is that they can't find it, and the main reason for women is that they don't want to find it, but they can live relatively well.

In fact, relatively speaking, unmarried women live better than men, after all, women take care of themselves more regularly, and they have a small sense of happiness close to life. The society is so open now, and everyone can work in their favorite profession, so one can also support himself.

A person who is not married actually lives a very happy life, because he still has relatives and friends, his own nephews, nieces, and children of his favorite friends, so they feel very happy. And you can fully organize your own time, and you don't have to think about other people's how? For those who enter the besieged city, it is very enviable.

People who don't want to get married are similar to people who don't have offspring, and there are also people who adopt a child, and after having a child, they can take care of the child wholeheartedly, and they don't have to get married again, so that they have no worries about everything in the future, and they are also very happy to live.

In fact, modern people are more in pursuit of self-emancipation, so while pursuing their own ideological emancipation, they are more pursuing a kind of pleasure and happiness in their own lives, then, as they grow older, there will be more and more people who don't want to get married, and those who have been able to take care of themselves independently don't want to make do with others anymore.

Everyone has their own views on life, their own views on marriage, which are all different, but the chance that we really find half of our branches is also very small, therefore, people who do not marry are also very happy.