I don t seem to be in love anymore?? How to deal with her relationship?

You have just been in love for a month, which means that the relationship and understanding are still very shallow.

You know that she can't forget his ex-boyfriend, maybe it's a matter of time, then you don't want to mention which pot you don't open, if you like her, respect her, don't take the initiative to mention it, okay? If you can't accept her state, it means that you are not suitable to be in a relationship together now.

If you choose to fall in love at this time, you may have to accompany her through this recovery period first, she may be emotionally unstable, unconfident, emotionally overly dependent, etc., at this time you have to know and understand her, encourage her, and help her as much as you can. For example, both of you have just graduated and are looking for a job, you can help each other, you can use your experience to help her find suitable opportunities, teach her how to send her resume, give her advice before the interview, and accompany her if possible. She actually trusts you very much when she asks you for help, and you have to cherish this opportunity.

It's not that you can't fall in love, you're not committed enough to fall in love. Your time is too short, don't worry, give yourself and each other enough time to know and understand. Bless you.

Hehe, see if you can resolve her inner uneasiness, you can try to take her on a trip, and then spend a while alone, and then look at her attitude, maybe her previous boyfriend hurt her too hard, so she has a heartbreak, if you really have future plans, then love her well, no one wants to be treated by others as a nervous person, she suffers too much, must lose her normal heart, learn to be tolerant and understanding.

The relationship is not only based on the trust of both parties, but also requires both parties to manage and care for the relationship. What's the use of you if she doesn't trust you enough or she doesn't care about your relationship at all?

This kind of girl is looking for a pumping type, everything has to be as she wants, and in the end, you are stingy and can't stand her. It's as if she's giving you everything, and you're going to do everything you do. This kind of girl, I really don't dare to ask for it, you should have a slap and a sweet date.

It's true. Don't be afraid that she can't stand it, she is stronger than you, do you really love her, what do you love her, do you know it, you are still pitying her.

Girls who are too sensitive will have a muddy relationship and get along with each other.

I don't think she's exactly using you as a boyfriend, just as a cure for her last relationship.

There is still a layer of separation between you, and if you want to pierce it, you must be attentive.

Do what you have to do.

The reason why I don't fall in love is because of my personality, such as being introverted and not meeting someone who suits me, or maybe I haven't learned to communicate, so I don't have the idea of falling in love. But I think that if you can't wait for someone you love, you need to work hard if you want to get it. And you also have to know what kind of person you want to get, so that you can succeed more easily.

You have to understand yourself, what kind of person is the right person for you, is to understand your own criteria for choosing a mate. When we have to find a person and find a partner, we will find that there is a problem, that is, the standard of finding people, many times there is a problem. Do you want to find someone who meets your own criteria, is it a good match for you?

If it doesn't match, then how should you adjust yourself.

You also have to identify the scumbag, because before you find someone you like, there may still be the possibility of a scumbag, eliminate the scumbag, and then find the right person for yourself. So what are the ways in which we should meet these people more easily, how to meet them, how to start, and how to advance the relationship if we are so late?

There are 2 questions that you must understand before choosing a mate.

Choosing a mate is what kind of person you want to find and knowing exactly what kind of person is suitable for you. A lot of girls often say, "I'm looking for someone I like."

Liking and fitting are not contradictory, but they are not necessarily reciprocal. So, you must know what kind of talent you like. There are also many girls who will say:

As long as he's by my side, I can do anything. "It's really" I'm looking for this person as long as I'm by my side. "Is that it?

The obvious answer is no.

If this person is by your side, then he can be satisfied as long as he is alive, but are you sure you will not give him additional strings attached? So, before you choose a mate, you must understand two questions.

Everyone's hobbies and preferences are different, and if you're not a fan of relationships, that's okay. Try to learn about your deeper interests, such as reading, traveling, planning your future, and so on. At the same time, you can also try social activities such as traveling with friends, participating in the reputation and interest groups, etc., so as to broaden your social circle and find people who share your interests.

The most important part is to relax your mind and not let the expectations of society and others affect your life and mood.

I think you should learn to be tolerant and understanding when you are in a relationship with your girlfriend, you should be relaxed when two people are together, and you can take your girlfriend out to play or watch movies together during holidays; If you feel that you can't fall in love, you can watch some movies about love on the Internet or small **, and you can also ask some friends who have experience in love.

Usually you should know more and help more, you should play ** with each other every day, you can play a game with each other in two to three days, you must ask each other to go out shopping on weekends, and you can go out for a picnic when you watch a movie. Be more patient and help each other.

You can communicate with your girlfriend accordingly, ask her inner thoughts, make relevant measures according to her girlfriend's interests and hobbies, or create relevant romantic surprises for her on her birthday, so as to effectively impress her.

When we haven't started a formal love yet, we can feel differently in our daily lives because we have good feelings for each other. However, after love, many couples will have a situation that the conversation between two people is not as sweet as before. Because a small thing is more likely to cause conflict, and it is also easier to feel that they don't want to talk to each other, which has some impact on the love relationship, why?

When we choose to communicate with each other, we have high expectations for each other. For example, if your boyfriend sends you a message, you naturally expect him to respond to your message within seconds.

In fact, it wasn't made by girls. She wants you to respond immediately. She just wants you to give her the same attention and give her the same attention to you. It's a sign of attitude.

In fact, the girl also knows that it must be inconvenient for you not to reply to her, so when you have time to reply to her, you have to explain without a trace why you didn't reply to her message just now?

In this way, the girl will feel that you value her very much. This is what we often call love chat skills. He did not ask for a second return, but to leave the road.

In intimate relationships, there is no need to be afraid of fighting. The so-called run-in is to solve the problems in the dispute. An argument is a good opportunity for you to solve the problem.

Unless it's a very compatible couple at first, it's normal for big public arguments to get around. As soon as the problem is solved, your relationship will be closer after the quarrel. For couples who never quarrel, if it is not a noble form, there is nothing to envy, otherwise they will be swallowed up by the internal frictions of the Cold War; Or build up your emotions and when you can't stand it, it's going to be a huge ** that will destroy the intimacy you've been working so hard for for so long.

So, not being able to chat doesn't mean life is boring. The key is to see how you accept each other's imperfections. If you are determined enough to be together, then all the problems are not a problem.

If you're bored because of the other person's silence, it means you're not really exercising and you love the other person a lot.

If the other party is angry, then you should take the initiative to apologize to others, saying that you actually love her very much in your heart, but because of your stupid mouth and low emotional intelligence, you may inadvertently make her angry, and I hope she doesn't bother with you.

In fact, the long-distance relationship can't continue, not only because you can't chat, because when you confirmed your relationship, it was also through online dating! Otherwise, it shouldn't be a long-distance relationship, at this time, the relationship is actually over and you need to let go.

In such a situation, you can clearly tell the other party, you can say that I can't talk myself, I am especially afraid of affecting our relationship, so in the future, when I don't pay attention to what I say, you can remind me or tell me how to speak.

Then you should learn to chat more and enter the other person's world. In this way, you can have some common topics between you, and only then can the relationship between two people no longer fall into a very rigid state.

Feelings need to be cultivated, not born, so you can learn, learn more, and care more about each other. You have to find out your own reasons and then make changes based on your reasons, and learn more without chatting.

In this case, you should learn more about the other person's favorite hobbies and hobbies, and you can chat in this direction, because it is to talk more about the other party's favorite things to find the topic.

Then you need to improve your eloquence, chat with each other often or with friends, and express your opinions and opinions more. Girls like other people's smooth tones, so you have to work harder on that.

Because they can't chat, two people don't know how to continue, in fact, chatting is mainly to get to know each other, and then pick up some of his habits and hobbies, and then get along with him, watching two people together, is it more comfortable?

I think at this time you should ask the girl more about one of his hobbies, or what he likes to eat, and then you can find a topic to talk to her about this aspect is a better way.

Sometimes falling in love is completely about getting along with your heart, in fact, it is not about whether you can chat, the key is whether you can do things, and many times you can do it without saying it.

The so-called degree distinction is just that you see some behaviors of the other person that you can't accept, causing you to feel that the other person doesn't care about you so much and doesn't love you that much. It's as if the other person is doing something that meets your expectations

In this case, you should change yourself, because you have some problems, and learn the skills of speaking, so that you can continue the relationship.

In this case, you can chat with girls more, strengthen your ability to chat, and then you can share more about your daily life.

In fact, it's not terrible not to know how to chat, you should talk to girls face-to-face, and dedicate your love to girls, you can win the love of girls.

I think in this case, you need to learn to talk quickly, and if you can't talk, then listen more.

This buddy's satisfactory answer is very powerful, I don't know what to say.

But I'll still say one thing, I'm a girl, younger than you, and I've never been in a relationship, I've always felt scared before, and I've been chased by boys, but I haven't agreed. Now that I've figured it out, I'm not afraid at all, I'm a more cautious person, so I think about everything. Let's take the matter of feelings as an example, I think that if we can't be together in the future, then we will be separated after being together now, it's too painful, since it's so painful, then don't start, waste time, waste feelings.

But I think I haven't been in love for so long, I can only say that I don't like someone very much, if you care about each other very much, you just have to do what you have to do, so it's not that you can't fall in love, but you haven't met the right person, and you haven't reached the exact time.

You are 25 years old, and you are not very old, don't find someone just for the sake of perfunctory family, remember to be responsible for your own life, if you don't like it, then don't be together, only with the right person you are the most real you, no shyness, no inferiority.

The most beautiful moment is when both people face each other with the most real attitude and the most real attitude.

Hopefully you can find your happiness, but I don't say early, because you should be a slow burner type, give yourself some time, 25 years old, very young.

I wish you happiness in meeting you.