The boyfriend wants his girlfriend to work to support his parents

Do you want to break up, or is it not easy to break up yourself? From your words, he doesn't save money and asks you to do things, and he doesn't quit smoking, and he doesn't look very good in your eyes! What do you like about him, or do you really like him?

Can you tell if he really loves you? Figure out these two questions, I think you can handle the problem on your own!

If he doesn't love you, he will break up directly, if he loves you, sharing the responsibility for him is a kind of love for him!

What is love (the trinity of attachment, understanding, and love), and love must be self-interested, if not, then it must not be true love! You can go to the psychological counseling to ask about your problems! It's true!

Follow this kind of person who blindly demands others but does not ask for himself.

It's just you who suffers.

Maybe it will drag down your parents.

Be decisive.

You still have to wander around this, and you still have to think, the mentally handicapped know that they are going to break up, what are you doing with this kind of person, will you be happy in the future? I really don't know what's in your head, I can't stand it......

There is no provision in the relationship between the sexes that a man should raise a woman, although women are barely a vulnerable group, but modern women are capable and independent existence, I can clearly tell you that we women do not need to rely on boyfriends to raise!

Women love to hear their boyfriends say I raise you, but it doesn't mean that she really wants to be a parasite and completely pin on each other, what women want most is a sense of security, and she feels that she is very satisfied when she is valued by the other party. Love words are indispensable in love, mature people understand it, just listen to it, don't take it seriously. Men don't like women who don't know how to do anything and only reach out and ask for money, and a good relationship is to help each other.

Love is never a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake, if you have nothing, you can't afford to support yourself, who will have no purpose for you to be good to you?

The best love is an evenly matched relationship, one party will only become more and more selfish if he is used to being tough, the two should take care of each other, emotionally I tolerate you, and you take care of me in life. Once it comes to money, it becomes less pure, does not advocate the AA system, and the men who support the AA system are ungraceful, and men and women are indeed unequal at a certain level. I also don't appreciate girls who rely on their boyfriends to pay for in love, there will be a lot of pressure on the other party, and it is right to give an appropriate response, you give me 7 and I will return you 3.

Of course, it is not excluded that in some special circumstances, you need to rely on your boyfriend's help, but after all, it is not a marriage relationship, and you must know how to cherish each other's contributions. Although youth is precious, it is also something that money cannot be measured, don't take money too seriously, and don't care too much about who pays more and who pays less. There is no should or shouldn't, only whether it's suitable or not!

A boyfriend is not obligated to have a girlfriend. Because both are adults and can work their own. Or industrious hands earn an economic income to support themselves.

If after marriage, the woman cannot go out to work because she has to raise children, and the man naturally has the obligation to support him. But if there is no similar reason. You shouldn't be lazy.

Waiting for someone else to feed. Such a woman is not an ideal other half.

Women should also be self-reliant so that they can be respected by men. Taken more seriously by men.

Hello. How old are you. How old is your girlfriend? Do you live together, does she have a job?

Question: No.

Not married yet.

Ask what a small gift is.

Question: Some girls are different.

Now is the time of the new era, every girl has her own cultural knowledge and work, they also have autonomy in love, they don't want to do nothing by themselves, stay at home and let their boyfriend take care of them.

Of course, when two people are together, the boyfriend should eat with his girlfriend appropriately and buy her things, this is the right thing, because you are not willing to give anything before you get married, how can you make others believe you in the future? You can give your whole life for others, do you treat yourself sincerely? Sometimes it is said that two people are not together, it is his material, but a person is not willing to pay anything for you, and he is not willing to give it to you, so is such a person too realistic?

It stands to reason that they didn't come to get married, and girlfriends don't need boyfriends to raise, but if you want to go for the purpose of getting married, your boyfriend should raise your girlfriend, which can also be said to be a test of marriage in the future, see if you have the ability to raise this girl, if you can't even raise it now, you won't be able to raise this girl in the future.

Of course, it's not that girls have to let boys raise them, but because girls will have children when they get married in the future, and there are many years when they can't go to class, and there are many economies that need men to protect and support, there is really no way, this is the reality, so now you can also test your sincerity.

Two people are together, as long as they are happy, respect each other, look at each other's wishes, and accommodate each other to go further, don't always care about these things, these don't need to care.

No. Ask yourself, do you have a home for your parents? Did you spend the money you spent raising your girlfriend to repay your parents for raising them?

It's okay to give gifts occasionally and bring your girlfriend to eat something delicious. But the girlfriend's financial ability depends entirely on the man, so it shouldn't be at all.

Everyone's youth is equal, except for the gender. During a relationship, a man raises a girlfriend, should it, and vice versa?

Everyone is an individual, and it is not that no one can live without it. When I was studying, I was supported by my parents, but after graduation, I found a boyfriend to support me.

What is the meaning of such a life? Men who make money may want to give back to their parents, but they find that they have not made up for their parents' financial compensation as much as they have to fall in love with their girlfriends.

The man is struggling and saving money to lay the cornerstone for the future, but in the eyes of the girlfriend who wants you to support, it is selfish. I don't want to go out to work, and when I get married in the future, I ask my parents for money subsidies, and ask my friends to borrow money to alleviate my difficulties.

If both parties look at their feelings and future families in their eyes, they should fight for each other's girlfriends, rather than one party working hard and the other stagnating. It will only slowly lose its equal status and lose respect. Causing lag.

It is often not the last straw that breaks the camel's back, but every one.