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Let's take a look at your mother's specific requirements for her son-in-law.

Make further plans.

You're not working yet, maybe you're going to meet a lot of great guys, and at that point, the choice may not be so important now. Therefore, I advise you to do it as a matter of course. When the relationship develops to a certain stage, when you talk about marriage, you will inform the family, as long as you insist, your parents will never form real resistance.

You're going to have to say it sooner or later!

It's better to say it early than later.

If you are sure that the two of you are fine, then it is advisable to take it straight home, your mom can't make the decision for you.

If you don't agree, you say, "Yes, yes, no, yes."

Speak with strength, make your own career, learn more knowledge, and show your temperament!

You have to be confident.

No, this is a mom boy, he listens to his mother for everything, it's easy to have contradictions, and he can't stay.

It's okay for this kind of boy to be a boyfriend, but it's really hard to be a husband in the future. First of all, I will report everything to my parents, and secondly, I will listen to my parents, and my parents are reasonable, otherwise the two of them will live a life of four people, and I will experience it personally.

If a woman marries this kind of man who has no opinions, how can she live in this life, she dare not be the master of everything, and she has to listen to her parents in everything, can this kind of man protect you from the wind and rain? Have the ability to earn money to support your family? Can you be responsible?

In today's words, the whole mother man must not marry such a promising man.

Precautions for meeting a mom bao man:

The first case. He just told his parents about the things and problems, and asked them to give some advice, and the final decision was up to him, so I think it's normal. After all, his parents have a lot of experience and look at the problem more far-reaching, they will give reasonable advice, and the boyfriend will be helpful to him by synthesizing their opinions, so there is no need to worry.

The second case. If he just tells his parents about things and problems, and asks them to give him ideas and do what his parents want, then it only means that he is too dependent on his parents and has no opinions. Now call a boy like him a mom boy, which will cause a lot of contradictions in your marriage.

If you want to solve this problem, you need to have patience and guidance, and if you can't correct it for a while, it is recommended to communicate with him and his parents, explain the pros and cons, and if you encounter problems, your parents can give advice, but you have to make your own decisions.

Maybe it will change slowly, or maybe it won't. If it doesn't change, then you have to think about the long term! Marriage is a matter of two people, and what he does is what his parents think, and there is no meaning. Don't expect him to give you hope in your marriage.

1. He is not confident in himself.

Only those who are not confident will doubt their own vision, even if it is a big event like love, he can't make up his own mind. Falling in love can be said to be completely your own private matter, and the first thing you need to believe in is your own feelings and your own vision. After all, I will live with this person for the rest of my life.

2. There is no deep love between the two sides.

If you love someone very much, you will not marry her, or he will not marry, you have already identified each other in your hearts, and other members of the opposite sex will not be able to see each other at all. If you're really in a relationship, it's usually impossible to think of letting someone else make the final decision on the relationship. Because in your heart, you have already checked for yourself, and you have already identified this person, and in this life, you must overcome all difficulties, and you must be with him.

3. Have no confidence in each other, trust your parents more than trust each other.

Based on the above two items, it is conceivable that the parties have no confidence in the relationship and lack trust in the other party.

Because I don't have confidence in myself, of course, I don't have confidence in the person I choose. Because I don't love enough, I don't trust each other very much.

Although the other party may be the person who will spend his life with him, he has no intention of whether it is for himself or others, so he will think of asking others to check for him.

It should be said that such a phenomenon mostly occurs between two men and women on a blind date, and free love should be less. Because most of them have gone through a long process of temptation and chasing before free love, the two parties have feelings before they develop into a couple and determine the relationship. And the blind date model lacks this process or the process is very short.

4. Lack of sense of responsibility and responsibility.

If a person makes his own decisions, then usually he can bear the consequences of this matter himself. And if he even has to ask his parents to check such things as falling in love, it usually means that he subconsciously feels that his parents will bear the key responsibility for whether he will be happy in his future married life.

People who lack a sense of responsibility and responsibility usually have no idea about themselves, and they have to be made by others for themselves, even if it is a relationship like this, the key is obviously to see how he feels, but he wants others to check for him.

5. After marriage, there is generally a lack of reconciliation ability, and the marriage allows parents to be excessively involved.

Since you can let your parents check before marriage, it means that you are a person who has no ideas, and you are also very unconfident in your own ability, which can also be predicted that after marriage, you will continue to rely on your parents.

Once such a young couple has a conflict, the parents will inevitably get involved. The honeymoon period may be able to survive with freshness, but marriage is a long life, and there will be run-in periods and lull periods in the future.

Marriage is different from love, full of all kinds of trivial matters and firewood, rice, oil and salt, if the couple can't solve the internal contradictions by themselves, a little little thing has to be complained to the parents, after a long time, it gradually escalates into a war between the parents and the two families, which is likely to lead to the end of the marriage.

Summary. Hello dear, this boyfriend makes you understand the words of his parents, this is very normal, but we also have our own principle, that is, what can be listened to, what can not be listened to, and then for understanding parents, everyone wants to get along well, if the other party also understands themselves, and then get along with either no culture and other modes, or right and wrong do not distinguish between black and white, you can slowly communicate, understand.

My boyfriend wants me to understand his parents.

Hello dear, this boyfriend makes you understand the words of his parents, this is very normal, but we also have our own principle, that is, what can be listened to, what can not be listened to, and then for understanding parents, everyone wants to get along well, if the other party also understands themselves, and then get along with either no culture and other modes, or right and wrong do not distinguish between black and white, you can slowly communicate, understand.

What do I need to say to him.

Why did you let him say these things?

Is there any contradiction or his family's conditions are very problematic, so he is worried? Or you have a more straightforward personality, and sometimes it may not seem to be understandable enough.

He's so strong, and everything that doesn't have to expand.

Whatever I do, they all think I'm lying.

No matter how I explained it, he always felt that it was my fault.

Then I understand, there is a family conflict.

There is a mother-in-law who stirs trouble<>

But your partner doesn't have much support for you.

But I didn't treat his mother badly, but I went to the toilet that day and neglected her.

it all along.

First of all, it is difficult for him to be caught in the middle, and when he says this, he may feel that his parents have a temper. As a junior, let a little is as it should be.

But this family gets along, you are sure you need to go on forever.

If you encounter such. You can only try to communicate, understand and be tolerant, because she is relatively strong, and it is impossible for her to make herself suffer. And she exaggerated things because she thought his son was excellent.

It's a blessing for you to be with him! If you explain that your partner also thinks that you are lying and does not believe your words, you are the only one in this relationship, and if everyone is not on your side, you will not be happy, and you will be very tired.

Should be told! When I fell in love in college, I told my parents on the third day of the relationship, not because they chose to hide it because they were feudal. I'm in my early 20s in college, and they usually feel at ease with me, knowing that I'm not a messy person, and that I am serious and responsible in everything I do, and sharing some things with my boyfriend with them is sometimes extra happiness.

The current social development is getting faster and faster, and there is nothing to hide about a person. Today's life is not like in the past, and now parents are very open-minded, and it is good to talk to the parents at home and listen to their opinions and suggestions. Although the times are different, the way of thinking and the way of dealing with problems will be different between the two generations.

But parents, as people who have come before, will give some practical advice. If you are in a relationship with the goal of marriage, then of course you should let your parents know. I'm already an adult, so it's okay to tell me.

Maybe I can give you an answer to the confusion in the relationship in love. It is better for future communication, and such help is only suitable for distribution in love, and some educational things are suitable for broader interpersonal communication.

But emotionally speaking, informing our parents about our emotional status is not only a respect for them, but also a positive response to their concern for us, which is one of the ways we express our cherished feelings with our parents. Telling our parents does not mean that we have to follow all of our parents' opinions and care too much about their parents' opinions. It is not a contradiction to boldly pursue your own happiness and share your state with your parents in a timely manner, there is no need to resist and fear, this is the moment when you need to show self-responsibility and self-confidence!