A girl who marries well is the envy of the people around her, how can she marry well?

The biggest expectation of parents for their children is to hope that their children will live happily, but there are also some parents who target girls, and they expect girls to marry well, even if they live in their mother's house for more than 20 years, it is not as good as marrying in their mother-in-law's house for decades, but parents believe that they must have superior family conditions and a happy living environment to marry well, and most of them come from the relationship of money. Some girls marry well and become the object of envy around, among which everyone has a different understanding of marrying, some people think that as long as the family life is happy and harmonious, then even if it is a good marriage, but there are also some people who think that the material needs must be met in the family conditions, in order to marry well. <>

I think that as long as the husband and wife can tolerate each other and live happily in life, then it is also a good marriage, and it will also attract the envy of many people, but life is actually for yourself, and you can't blindly listen to the envy of others, although in life you will hear many people complaining that they are unhappy after marriage. But this is actually related to their own mentality, two people must tolerate each other in getting along, and being humble to each other will also make their lives very good, so that others will envy them.

Material life is inseparable from the material, at the same time inseparable from the economy, some women think that most of the good marriage is related to the economic situation of the family, in fact, I think this also has a lot to do, some family conditions are better, want to buy anything do not have to consider the family, they will think that it is good to marry, in fact, this is also the parents think that the marriage is good, because with the material conditions, anything else is easy to solve. Some people have even said that everything is difficult only because of poverty, which is indeed the truth, and if you have money, it is very simple to solve things.

Although life is inseparable from material needs, if there is only money in the family, then in the atmosphere of family interaction, it will only become impersonal, so for a good marriage, not only must have material conditions, but also meet the atmosphere of family life is relatively happy. In fact, it is also the reason for people's mentality, some people think that they are very happy in the eyes of others, but in fact, they live their own lives, only they know.

Girls who marry well generally have a good boyfriend who is recognized by everyone and has a good reputation, and the man's family environment is also good.

I think that marrying well is marrying love, and after getting married, I will not be bullied by the other party, nor will I be bullied by my in-laws, and I can also be taken care of.

Since the other party's family atmosphere must be harmonious, and this boy and his parents must love you very much, and there is not much estrangement when the two get along.

I think that only when I have a plain life can my husband love me marry well.

Men earn a lot of money, they are good to their daughters-in-law, their families are harmonious, their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a harmonious relationship, there are no quarrels and disputes, and the men themselves are good enough.

My standard is very simple, when this girl is old and can still smile, then I think she should marry well.

At least that person loves you, and you can shelter you from the wind and rain, right?!And then you don't hate him, he has the determination, confidence and concentration to accompany you for the rest of your life, right?!

There are many reasons why average-looking girls tend to marry better than good-looking girls, and personality is one of them. Beautiful girls, because of their natural beauty, have grown up listening to praise since they were children, and they will inevitably have a sense of pride and even an unconscious sense of superiority in their hearts. Gradually, the flattering words of the opposite sex became immune, and the requirements for the person to date became higher.

In the eyes of others, this kind of transformation is high-spirited, loving, and not active. Even if the opposite sex wants to show affection, it may be too high-minded or too demanding to turn people away.

And average-looking girls are different, they haven't been evaluated too much about their appearance since they were children, their mentality is stable and normal, their eyes are also within the normal range, and there is naturally no "distortion" in their psychology. Such girls are often optimists, have good personalities, can be directors, and look comfortable at home when they marry. In comparison, beautiful girls naturally do not have this advantage.

Although, natural beauty is a great advantage, but the success of married life is not only based on appearance, besides, even if the face is beautiful, there will be a day when it will wither. In marriage, what a man needs is not an empty flower that is withering day by day. A man who has experienced a lot of ups and downs needs a virtuous helper who can keep up with his pace.

Under various conditions, there is a phenomenon that girls with average looks marry better than girls who are naturally beautiful.

Taking a step back, what is "marrying well", is it rich or prosperous, or is life going well? If "marrying well" refers to living a rich and prosperous life, then it means that this average-looking girl must have extraordinary wisdom and be able to balance the relationship between her in-laws and husband and wife. Such a girl, even if she looks average, must have parts that ordinary people can't reach in other aspects, and these advantages are often ignored by outsiders, so people may also rely on their own subjective assumptions to think that average-looking girls marry better, but in fact, "marrying well" has capital.

In daily life, whether it is good to marry is not directly related to one's appearance, girls should choose the right person, then it is good to marry. It depends on who you choose.

Because these girls have higher requirements for choosing a mate, and boys also like these girls more, and because these girls have better personalities, they can marry better.

Because their requirements for themselves are not particularly high, most ordinary girls are very kind-hearted and have a very good temper.

It may be that these girls have an interesting soul, or they may have a particularly good personality, a very kind attitude in life.

Those girls who are spoiled like children after they get married are often the envy of many people, and most people hope to find someone who treats them as children.

Of course, a good woman will be envied, for example, marrying someone who knows how to be good to her, spoils her like a princess, and can be satisfied materially and spiritually, which is a symbol of marrying well.

I know that under normal circumstances, the kind of women who are particularly gentle and generous are very enviable when they marry, they can generally find the other half of their hearts, and such a man is also very good to this woman.

Girls who marry love are the most enviable. Because two people complement each other's personalities, the right three views can constitute a good marriage, and there will not be many contradictions in the future life, and the family environment is relatively good.

I think the kind of girls who know how they want to live are enviable, because they live a very sober life, so they also know what kind of person they should marry.

Girls who marry well often have these three performances, do you have them around you?

Children must first be financially independent. Clever and skilled. Scheming, high IQ, dignified and generous. Filial piety, gentleness and thoughtfulness......! Such a girl will marry well!

There are many conditions for a good girl to marry, first of all, the appearance can not be bad, and secondly, you have to be assertive, some girls are beautiful, have no opinions, and are easy to be deceived by the prodigal son in love, so you have to be assertive, and then you have a good personality.

This question is very special, there may be many girls who marry well, and they have all sorts of things. But I think that girls with these conditions generally don't marry too badly, that is, girls who know how to measure and know how to advance and retreat.

Such girls are very smart, for example, they know how to help each other solve problems in a low-key and humble way, so they can marry well.

Financially independent, gentle and considerate, a wise girl will marry well and be happy for the rest of her life.

There is no standard for this thing, it just depends on what kind of person you meet, how high this is, what kind of environment you are in, and what kind of people you meet. This kind of thing is mutual, not one-sided.

Wangfu, choose love, and he is a more gentle, beautiful, considerate and generous.

The other party truly loves you, is willing to be with you, is willing to accompany you, is willing to pay for you, and is willing to share with you. What does it mean to marry well, too naïve.

There are very beautiful girls with high emotional intelligence and talent.

In terms of my experience in dealing with two ** loves: filial piety, high emotional intelligence, eyesight, dressing, clothes matching, love to read, self-motivated, considerate. What's special is that I like fitness, the richer and more talented men are, the more I like such a woman, who is not as beautiful as the TV series, but the heroine who doesn't know anything.

There is light in his eyes, a smile on the corner of his mouth, even though he is past the middle of the year, he still lives like a twenty-eight girl, young and happy. The husband loves him very much, the children are obedient and sensible, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, as if there are no worries in life, and everything is going smoothly. And the reason why a woman can have all this is inseparable from her own excellence.

1. Optimistic and positive. Every family has a difficult scripture, but women can think very well, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, you say that she is broad-minded, no heart or lungs, she always has a kind of "the sky has fallen and there is a high top" optimistic attitude. When a man's income is low, she will not complain, but will be grateful for her lover's usual thoughtful care.

When she disagrees with her mother-in-law, she will not complain and quarrel, but will think "she is my husband's mother, and that is also my mother". All in all, no matter what kind of lows and difficulties she encounters, she can think for the better. And she will also pass on this optimistic and smiling attitude to the family around her, she seems to be the little sun in the home, shining and warming every corner.

2. Know the sense of proportion, know how to advance and retreat. Women have high emotional intelligence and know what to say and what not to say, what to do and what not to do. quarreled with her husband and fought coldly, but she would still save face for him in front of outsiders.

has a conflict with his mother-in-law, but he will still serve with his heart and do his filial piety. complained in his heart that the old man was eccentric, but he was also able to understand the difficulties and difficulties of the elders. She knows how to empathize, has a soft heart, and as long as she doesn't touch the bottom line of principles, she is always very tolerant of people and things.

3. Ideological and economic independence. Women have their own colorful private lives, personal jobs, hobbies and friends, and never chase a man all day long asking him where he is, let alone a housewife who only revolves around the stove all day long. This person is also confident and beautiful, like a rose that blooms forever, without doing anything, it can easily attract the attention of his lover and make him love more and more.

Therefore, if you want to marry well, you must not only look at the man, but also improve and change yourself from all aspects, and both parties can work together to manage a good marriage.