Changes in girls before and after marriage

Before marriage, two people live, and after marriage, two families live; There is little pressure before marriage, a lot of pressure after marriage, and it is family-oriented. There are mainly the following differences between pre-marriage and post-marriage: 1. Life pressure: You must have a strong ability to withstand before marriage, and you must bear various pressures from children, houses, tickets, and cars after marriage.

To get married is to meet someone who wants you to be with him to get married, because of love, and not because of anything else. There are no worries before marriage, and it is very chic. After marriage, the pressure of facing various problems in the family naturally comes, and we have to face the reality.

I spend the money I earn before marriage, I buy whatever I want, I don't feel pressured, and I think about how to save money after marriage. So there are all kinds of pressures waiting for us. 2. Degree of freedom.

Many people have been living a very depressed life after getting married, and they are no longer so free and freewheeling, and they will be very envious when they look at other people's circle of friends where they want to go and what they want to do. If you need to have children after marriage, you need to watch the children grow up, and sometimes you need to have a second child. There are times when women feel that this is not the life they want to live.

Financial is not free, receiving the constraints of the other party, whether it is love or marriage, you can choose what kind of life you choose. 3. Sense of responsibility.

The essential difference between falling in love and getting married is responsibility! Once you get married, you have a family! The most important 2 people in a home!

With that comes responsibility! It is your responsibility to take care of your children! It's your responsibility to take care of your parents!

It's your responsibility to earn money to support your family! It's your responsibility to take care of each other! This is something you didn't have during your relationship!

It is often because of this responsibility that this family will be happier and better!

4. Family concept.

The center of falling in love is to eat and drink and cultivate feelings! And the center of marriage is the family! Falling in love is a matter of 2 people!

Marriage is a matter of 2 families! When you enter the palace of marriage, it means that you give up everything and devote yourself to this wonderful and happy family! This also means that there is a difference in essence between after marriage and before marriage!

One is private and the other is public. When you get married, you do everything for the family! Everything for the future!

Girls before they get married. Would love makeup. Take care to moderate your diet. Speak very gently and politely. I don't pay attention to makeup after marriage. Diet without paying attention to moderation. Speak loudly and loudly.

Before getting married, girls love to go shopping, love to buy clothes, cosmetics, buy what they want, after getting married, go shopping less, buy cheap clothes, not to mention cosmetics, if you are willing to do without, you don't have the delicacy of living before marriage, and you become sloppy after marriage.

The changes before and after marriage are not very big, and the big changes for girls are before and after giving birth, because before giving birth to a child, she is a girl, and after giving birth, she has to become a mother and take care of the child.

Girls who are not married, they are more free, and their eyes are full of light, but after marriage, due to the pressure of the family, this girl will pay too much. It's not as lively and active as it used to be.

When a woman gets married, love becomes the moon in the water and the flower in the mirror. is facing the real married life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. In their eyes, love is important, but the responsibility given by marriage cannot be shirked.

After getting married, women don't care more and more about their appearance, and feel that they are already married, and their image is no longer important. Also, taking care of the children every day, feeling sorry for the husband, and living a busy life, how can I have time to dress up? If you dress up too beautifully, your husband will say coldly:

Who is dressed up for? Don't look at your own age? Hearing her husband's words, my heart was half cold.

Before getting married, girls are generally more spicy, but after getting married, they are particularly feminine, which is also an important change in the girl's transition to becoming a woman.

Girls don't have to worry about anything before they get married, that is, after they get married alone, they have to worry about the whole family, worry about a lot of things, maybe their mentality will change a lot!

Before a girl gets married, she is a girl, a princess, and she is the most carefree time. After the girl gets married, she is someone else's wife, the mother of the child, and the responsibility on her shoulders is heavy.

One. Before marriage: Affectionate and full, as long as he loves me, nothing else matters.

After getting married: You will die of thirst if you only drink water, but you still have to work hard to make money together.

Two. Before getting married: I love to spend money, I love to dress up, and I don't negotiate when I spend money.

After getting married: With financial power in his hands and a lot of places to spend money at home, he began to learn to save money, and even began to manage his finances decently.

Three. Before getting married: I think that my husband must be good to me, he will treat me as a baby, and if he is a little bad for me in the future, I will divorce him immediately.

After getting married: I am busy with commuting and housework parties every day, how can I have time to be hypocritical, I don't have to talk about love every day, just give me money.

Four. Before I get married: Someone will help me warm the quilt when it's cold in winter, someone will help me fan when it's hot in summer, someone will cook for me when I'm hungry, and someone will pick me up when I'm late after work.

After getting married: there is an electric blanket when it's cold, turn on the air conditioner when it's hot, do it yourself when you're hungry, take a taxi after work, and solve everything by yourself.

Five. Before getting married: Be sure to stay in shape for the sake of your relationship.

After getting married: The relationship between the two people is getting better and better, but they are getting fatter and fatter.

Six. Before getting married: I feel that I must be able to have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, and even be like a mother and daughter.

After getting married: Mother-in-law will always be mother-in-law, mother will always be mother-in-law, and coquettishness and temper tantrums in front of mother-in-law are absolutely useless.

7.Before getting married: I didn't realize how important the three views are to my later life, and I felt that as long as I love each other, I can do it.

After getting married: I realized that the three views determine every detail of my life in the future, and even every quarrel is because the three views do not agree.

8.Before getting married: I worked hard to show that I was very virtuous, and I felt that I would definitely be a good daughter-in-law in the future.

After getting married: I wish I couldn't do anything.

After getting married, girls slowly become more mature in the performance of the following.

1 In terms of personality, most women are married, and their personalities will change, they will be more gentle, and they will be less arrogant in their girlhood.

2 In terms of money, if you are not married, you are single, you have money to earn and just spend, moonlight is a common thing, but once you get married, there is a change in thinking, because if you are married, you are not a person, but a family, and you will have children in the future, and you will start saving money, not as lavishly as before, and no matter where you are tomorrow today.

3. In life, I will grow up in one day, and I will no longer go out all night to play crazy and not be at home, and I will think about cooking, laundry, housework and other things that I didn't do at all before.

4 Physically, even the body is a little different when you get married, it will be more charming, there is a natural charm of a woman, and there is a kind of honey and wild peach.

The feeling of ripeness is inside.

There are too many changes after marriage, the little things in life, the trivial things of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar before the loss of vegetables, rice, and oak every day, you can't snub your husband, educate your children to accompany your children's growth, the filial piety to the elderly on both sides, the comings and goings of relatives and friends, and the harmony between neighbors. After a woman gets married, she has no self, she has to take all the big and small things to heart, and she has to think about the small things.

After getting married, women are more family-oriented, and they are more careful in spending money, and they are also very calm when they encounter things, and their sense of responsibility is heavier.

Before marriage, women were very innocent, lovely and pure, and they had a particularly beautiful yearning for love. Everything you do is very positive. After marriage, they will focus on their family in the morning, and they will not pay too much attention to Lu Draft's own dress, and they will also ignore their figure.

Even slowly become some resentful women.

I think that after people get married, there are a lot of changes in the people they come into contact with, and it doesn't matter to men, especially women, it may be more obvious.

When I was not married, my circle of friends was limited to classmates and colleagues, after getting married, especially after I shouted that Feng was pregnant, I entered a pregnant mother group, in this group, we often exchanged some of our experiences during pregnancy, such as when to eat what to eat, what reaction the child has in the stomach, what nutritional items should be supplemented, etc. Therefore, after getting married, I spent my main energy on these things after work.

Especially after the birth of the child, it is even more obvious, especially after the birth of the child, the child's growth experience as a mother is very concerned. We will communicate in the group about the child's growth, such as what the child should eat at a certain stage, the child's bowel is not normal, what to do if the child has eczema, and how many times a day the child should be fed, we have to communicate almost every day. The focus of his entire circle of friends after marriage has shifted, that is, it is completely child-centered.

After getting married, although there is a new adjustment in my circle of friends, but the old friends can not forget, occasionally greet each other, it is also a way to enhance the relationship, but I can't meet new friends, just forget my old friends, there is a good song to sing, meet new friends, do not forget old friends.

So after getting married, our circle of friends will get bigger and bigger, and there will be more and more knowledge to know, through mutual communication and exchanges, the knowledge we have is getting richer and richer, although we spend more and more time at home, the necessary exchanges between friends are still indispensable.

I sincerely hope that each of us will have a stable, happy and harmonious Zheng Li Sheng family, and we can find the best way to get along with each other, and make our family life happier through our own efforts.