How did the couples who lived together end up doing well? Why don t they get divorced?

There are various reasons, and every family has its own difficulties.

Although society has progressed now, some people are still very conservative in their views, and they still think that divorce is a shameful thing. Some people think that they will face such a situation after divorce, so they are reluctant to divorce. They are afraid to face gossip, and they don't want to disgrace their families.

Some people don't want a divorce because they want to have children. Some people don't want a divorce because of their children. They want to give their children a complete home.

They are afraid that after the divorce, the children and either party will not have a good time. They are also afraid that their children's studies will be affected by the divorce. In terms of life, there are many people who do not divorce without feelings, just for the sake of their children.

Some people don't want to change their lives. They were afraid that their lives would be worse after the divorce, so they made do with it. Although some people have no feelings for each other, they still live well in this family, such as worrying about food and clothing.

They don't want to change their current life, because after the divorce, he may not earn much of his own income. If so, his life would be terrible. Moreover, after the divorce, he has to face a lot of uncertainty.

Divorce is not just a matter for one person, it means the breakdown of the family, such as the parties, parents, children, etc. Especially for children, this negative effect can last a lifetime. Therefore, out of a sense of responsibility for the family, especially the children, many couples will not choose to divorce even if they are indifferent to each other.

Many times, a seemingly inconspicuous choice can often change a person's life. So, be sure to take every choice seriously and carefully. <>

Marriage is definitely the most important thing, and it is also the least that you can't take it lightly. Many people have different attitudes towards marriage, and there are all kinds of people who marry for the sake of getting married. Marriage cannot have a purpose, and a marriage with a purpose is not called marriage, but transaction.

If there is no emotional foundation, no personality running-in, or not enough understanding, etc., it will definitely lead to unhappy marriage or tragedy, and the relationship between husband and wife will naturally get worse and worse, and finally the idea of divorce will arise.

Some have no feelings, no emotions every day, and manage a family in their own way. Some argue all day long and can't understand each other. Because most people feel that divorce is a very embarrassing or troublesome thing, they will not choose divorce easily.

Such couples generally end up living very indifferently, without a little affection and like strangers, making this family very cold, without a little laughter, because they have children, for the sake of children, so they do not divorce, and want to give their children a complete family.

In the end, they are all doing well, and the two people can also tolerate each other and help each other, under normal circumstances, the reason for not getting divorced is because the two people are really suitable, and the parents are also very satisfied, and they don't want to disappoint the parents.

It's very bad, two people have no emotional foundation, no common topics to talk about, and occasionally quarrel; The two of them feel that each other is still okay, because they have children, so they will not divorce.

If you find that you can't tolerate it after marriage, you should file for divorce as soon as possible to avoid being troubled by various conflicts in your future life, so that you can also have the opportunity to start a family again.

should file for divorce, it is meaningless to sue the model for this kind of life, if you continue to be together, it is delaying the time of two people, it is better to divorce directly, it is better for both people.

Should be divorced. The two of you have no feelings, and you are always on the verge of being in touch, as soon as you find anything inappropriate, you must leave immediately and stop the loss in time.

1. Everyone wants love in marriage, but not all marriages will have love, especially two-way love is still more difficult.

We can't rule out that there are some marriages where there is no love, the union of the two of them may be arranged by their parents, and the two people have also reached the marriageable age, and they must obey the orders of the family, and finally they have no choice but to enter the marriage. After getting married, two people respect each other more like guests, there is no so-called love, only two people live a life together. If the situation is good, the two people will slowly get along better, and if the situation is bad, the two people will slowly end the marriage.

2. There are some marriages that are married by two men and women after a blind date together, as long as the parents of both parties think that there is no big problem with each other after the blind date, then both people can naturally enter the marriage themselves.

Blind date doesn't mean liking, just thinking that the other party is not annoying, especially after both parents believe that the other party can be a partner, two people will get married faster. Some people even got married as soon as possible within a week, but in fact, they didn't know enough about the other party's character, quality, and economic strength, but they chose to compromise due to various urgings from their families. It wasn't until they actually entered the marriage that they realized how wrong and naïve their choice was.

3. The reason why some marriages have become partners is because the relationship between two people has come to an end, but for the sake of the children, they barely maintain the state of marriage.

Some couples are in love with each other when they get married and have children, but as time goes by, there may be a third party in the marriage, or there will be various factors in the marriage that affect the harmony and happiness of the marriage, which will lead to the breakdown of the marriage. But they still won't choose to divorce, because they also have to take into account the psychological situation of their children, especially when the children have not yet taken the college entrance examination, they choose to live together.

For the married life of the current era, people are evaluated as partners, or partners, or the most familiar strangers, or roommates, under one roof, two people are strangers, there is no past warmth, but there is no parting ways, just like this, living in the same environment, there is not too much intersection. There is something to fight ** and it is very brief, there is nothing to contact, there is no communication, and there is no warmth, living like a single but not single, netizens ridiculed that an abbot and a teacher live together. The mobile phone is the object, the same quilt is facing south and north, either a bed and two quilts, or two people in a room.

Why do you say that there is a kind of marriage called a partner to live, because today's women are not like the women of the past, the era of male superiority and inferiority has long passed, feminism has risen, and women are no longer the only ones in the past, living by men, being able to be independent, and having enough food and clothing, so that on the basis of paying the same hard work as men, even women with children have to take care of the family and raise children, such a heavy responsibility is far beyond the pressure of men, in this case, women have the ability to make money and can be responsible for their children, With the high-intensity gyross turning, who can have the energy to maintain the married life that still makes them tired. As a man, the idea that women should serve their family members well is really the reason why women have long been indifferent.

As a couple who have been married for many years, they have long lost the energy to correct the marriage that is not very good, in a high-pressure environment, we have long since lost our own time, so when everyone sleeps at night, the time left for us is really a moment.

There are also couples who have lived for many years, because of the continuous backlog of disappointment, forbearance, and resentment, and slowly feel that life cannot be changed, so they change their mentality, do not complain, do not care, but will not pay attention to it, because only by changing their mentality can they make themselves more comfortable.

This is indeed true, many people get married together not because of love, but just because they want to find someone to live with them.

Yes. Some couples don't love each other very much, and the two don't have much language together, they just live together.

This is true, because this kind of life is the life of everyone, and this kind of life is very bad, and life is very boring and tasteless.

The last days will not be particularly good, many times there is no affection between the two of them, two people are just living together simply, and their married life will definitely not be happy.

There is no communication or exchange between two people together, there is no collision of ideas, and such feelings cannot withstand tossing.

I feel that since two people have chosen to be together, they should treat each other with their hearts, otherwise this kind of dull or this kind of married life without spiritual communication is not particularly good for anyone, and it will make two people feel very tired.

Life is not particularly good, many times their relationship is not particularly satisfactory, and in real life, this relationship between husband and wife is relatively not particularly harmonious.

Okay. The couples I have seen who live together are peaceful, harmonious and happy, and they still have to support each other.

In the end, they were all very unhappy, because they had already been unhappy in the process of partnering, so they could only be unhappy.

In the end, I didn't live very happily, because when we started together, we made do, and we didn't have to be carefully selected, and we didn't even know if the other party was suitable.

Couples who live together actually end up breaking up, because the relationship can't last long.