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College students are a relatively relaxed period, in this period, the study is not very heavy, and many classmates happen to find the person who makes their hearts, so they start a wonderful journey called love.
In college, there is no teacher's obstruction, and there is a lot of freedom, but we should understand that love is actually a responsibility, and everyone should be responsible for themselves and each other, so when falling in love, you must consider your own conditions and wishes, after all, the choice is very important. So, I'll give you some of my suggestions.
1. Choose the right person.
The object of love is very important, choose well, can help your learning, can also be used as your reliance, if you don't choose well, it may be an abyss. It's not like you agree to fall in love, but you have never considered whether this person is suitable or not, don't believe in yourself too much, maybe this person is a scumbag. I have seen too many examples, so in my experience, I tell you that you must inquire more about the same school, and consider different places appropriately.
2. Focus on learning.
The most romantic thing I can think of is that you grow old together, but it's never skipping classes or failing classes. In many cases, being in love is a booster for your learning, not a hindrance. Of course, you can't abandon the most important learning opportunity in your life for the sake of love, although ** may shine into reality, but how do you know that you are lucky?
Therefore, although love is good, Danjiao cannot delay learning.
Running a relationship. Marriage is the intersection of two families and needs to be managed, but love is not. Love is about helping each other, not messing around; Love is mutual trust, not mutual suspicion; Love is an expression of heart, not a gift machine.
If there is anything, you must communicate in a timely manner, instead of blindly deleting friends and breaking up.
4. Protect yourself.
Never trust someone too much, in case the other person is just talking and just playing. If you entrust yourself to someone else too early, the harvest is likely to be a tragedy, and more likely a lifetime of harm.
I hope everyone can reap the sweet love Oh, I hope my advice helps.
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I've always felt that love when I was a student was the best state, andCollege student loveIt is also a kind of love that is relaxed and comfortable.
And I think that college students' love really needs to know how to manage.
1.Slowly understand, slowly develop, and refuse to be fast-foodized.
We look at the campus love around us, and then look at the confession wall of our own school, it seems that many love begins through appearance and clothing. If you think they are good-looking, it is easy to take pictures and catch people. This is a very normal phenomenon, but I think that although looking at the appearance can let you know his appearance, you still need to have more contact to understand othersAfter a certain amount of time, determine whether it is suitable or not, so that the relationship can last for a long time and not easily lead to breaking up because it is not suitable.
So, I think we can take the time to hang out with each other, or go to the library to study, or we can take a walk at school and participate in activities together......In short, we can only be called after we can understand each other:"I find that I like youThat's how you are more qualified to confess.
2.In the process of falling in love, leave enough space for each other and care enough
That is, the recent ** movie, which made me more determined that love should give each other enough care when leaving enough space for each other. It is easy for us to find that whether we are in love or in life, we all need to have time to ourselves and need to be alone to accomplish something. So,Sometimes you can't always occupy the other party's time, let the other party accompany you, give them their own space, and let them handle their own affairs well.
In the same way, when we leave space for the other party, we should not completely ignore the other party, sometimes the care that should be given cannot be short of money. Many people need security in love: you can be there for me when I need you.
So,In any case, if the other person is in need, give the other person enough care and let the other person know that you love him and care about him.
College students are also a large group, and love is becoming more and more widespread on campusThe sweet smell is also gradually spreading
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Love is beautiful, everyone has a range for the person they like, for example, I like tall and handsome, funny and humorous, there is one around me that meets my aesthetics, but we are not together, because I know that I like him, he doesn't like me, and we are not suitable to be together. We are classmates, if he is with me because I am his classmate, and I like him, is it necessary to be together, love should be mutually attracted, not supported by just one person.
I like him very much, but I will refrain and choose one that likes each other, maybe the next one is better.
Don't look down on yourself, believe that you deserve the best, we must be confident in love, a confident woman is the most beautiful, and loving yourself is the most beautiful thing.
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<> I personally think that in college is to focus on academics, because learning is the purpose of college students, career is higher than love, advocate career-oriented, not easy to fall in love too early, if the career is successful, then excellent people will naturally move closer to you, of course, if there is a suitable together, it is also okay, emotionally: both sides are in love, progress together, understand and tolerate each other, know how to empathize, give each other more free space, and create some small surprises for each other from time to time, which is also quite romantic, Don't cause trouble for each other and help each other. Academically:
The two help each other, accompany and supervise each other. But if it is not handled properly, the two will have a negative impact on each other, waste time on trivial things, and even delay their studies.
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First of all, let's not mistake friendship for love, friendship and love are two different emotional experiences. Second, don't misplace the status of love. Third, don't take a one-sided or utilitarian approach to love.
Fourth, don't just focus on the process and ignore the consequences, responsibility is an important guarantee for the long-term love. Finally, don't lose your way in life because of a broken love. To establish a correct outlook on love, study is the main task of college students, and love should be taken as the driving force for studying.
We should not only focus on the love between lovers and ignore the love for others and society, but also the love for parents, siblings, and society.
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It's better to be rational. If you are a responsible person, before you are about to leave school, then you have to think about the belonging and work of the two people, if you don't have the ability, then talk about it!
Love is a need for college students to grow up in college, but it has always been a serious issue that we need to face seriously. To be in love or not to be in love is a free choice, but we have to be responsible for ourselves. Emotional things are unpredictable, "I am lucky, not my life", there is no need to deliberately try.
The important thing is to constantly improve yourself and improve yourself in these years, so that your mind and soul can be improved. We must correctly handle the relationship between love and career, between love and the collective, between love and the collective, between love and morality, between love and love, and between love and friendship between the opposite sex.
Love is a must in life, but don't be dead set in thinking that love is a must in college. Love is unexpected, it can be expected, but it cannot be made. If you just fall in love for the sake of falling in love, then you will only leave a failing mark on the credits of life.
Love is a gift from God, and we will naturally get it when we deserve it, and we must not rush for quick success and quick profit for the fallacy that "if you haven't been in love, you haven't entered life".
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The following points are suggested for reference only: 1. You should firmly establish a correct outlook on life and do not affect your studies. 2. If you have a suitable friend of the opposite sex, you may wish to understand and contact. 3. Establish self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement, have hobbies, goals, pursuits, and ideals.
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I think it's best not to fall in love in the four years of college, one is the consumption of time and precision on both sides, after graduation, most of them go their separate ways to make a living, and how many pairs can succeed.
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In modern society, skills are the foundation of future careers and families. In school should be based on learning, if you have the ability, but also to continue to study for graduate school, master's degree, doctoral study, only higher education can bring a better quality of life, there are like-minded students in the school, if two people can make progress together, it is also a good choice.
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Find a person with the same three views, two people make progress together, and do meaningful things together.
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In fact, I think the college student's view of love should be based on the joint struggle of two people. Both sides**. Or chatting is a common discourse, topic, and common hobbies.
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In fact, love is also an important course in college. Think about us at the age of twenty, when we are young and high-spirited, and how regrettable it is not to fall in love.
In college, we had the right to love openly and honestly for the first time. Finally at the age of falling in love, are you ready? As an old senior sister who has come over, I have specially prepared a few suggestions for college love, hoping to help you who believe in love.
1. Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love
After entering the university, many classmates and friends quickly got out of the single. Seeing so many sweet confessions, I began to feel anxious and lonely. Since love is so beautiful, don't give in, don't blindly follow the trend, this is not only respect for love, but also responsible for others.
2. Protect yourself
This is the most important point!
Both boys and girls must protect themselves in love, but girls are generally the weaker party in love. Although it is said that a girl's chastity is not under the skirt, a girl must not give her body to the other party when she is not familiar with each other. There will be a lot of uncertainties in the process of falling in love, so don't regret it for the rest of your life.
Similarly, if you break up, don't do anything that hurts you. If you can't love yourself, then who do we expect to love you?
3. Give each other space
In love, don't limit the other person's communication, give him (her) enough trust. It is better to end love that requires coercive means. If the other person has not made any changes to their life because of your presence, then such love is meaningless.
Both parties can naturally appear in front of their respective friends, which is the normal state of love.
Fourth, work together to achieve each other
There is more to life than love. College love is not simply a matter of spending money before and after, but also about the two of them working hard for a higher pursuit. It is said that college love can't go far, so let's think about what hinders the development of this love.
All the sweet words will come down to firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the two-person world of college couples is very happy, and the premise of this happiness is that "you are all students and you all have living expenses". For the happiness of the future, you must fight together now!
In short, the answer sheet of love can only be completed by practicing and exploring by yourself. But no matter what, if the two really love each other, no matter how many difficulties there are, what hurdles they can't overcome?
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It is very common to fall in love in college, and on college campuses, you can see couples in pairs anytime and anywhere. But in love, you have to stay sensible, don't let yourself regret it, and firmly believe that love is to make both parties better people.
1. Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love
Many people were warned by their parents and teachers not to fall in love when they were in middle school, so there are many people who have not been in a relationship before going to college and are therefore very eager to fall in love in college. But,Falling in love should be something that both people love each other and like each other, not because they want to fall in love or feel lonely
2. Give each other and grow together
Love is not a one-man show. If in love, only one person gives unilaterally, it will not go far. Therefore, consider each other for each other, so there should be a response to love.
Learn more about each other's preferences and create small surprises. Listen to each other's joy and joy, happiness can be shared, sadness can be accompanied. If there is a problem, it should be clearly explained and solved in time.
Only with careful watering will the flowers of love blossom.
3. Stay sane
Don't just like someone based on appearance or talent in a certain aspect, the most important thing in love is to see whether this person loves you or not, to see how the other party's character is, and whether the three views are the same as yourself. When you are in love, you must stay sober and reasonable, and don't get carried away by love. Many people will give up some things for the sake of them, and before making a choice, you must think carefully about whether it is worth it and don't let yourself regret it.
Break up when you meet someone who doesn't fit, and don't dwell on it. You have to believe that a good relationship will make each other better people.
Falling in love in college is probably the purest kind of love. You don't need to think about work, family, financial situation. Stroll around the campus, holding their hands. Eat together, study together, laugh together, and enjoy this wonderful college time.
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