How to get along with college students in dormitory relationships

A good dormitory relationship is very important for the mental health and life of college students, and the harmony of dormitory relations should at least do the following:

1. Tolerate each other. The dormitory is not a dormitory for a single person, but a public place, to cite my personal experience:

Roommate A was scolded by roommate B because the slight noise made by getting up early every morning affected roommate B's sleep, and the relationship between the two broke down and the dormitory relationship became awkward. Imagine if roommate B had been more tolerant of other people's habits of waking up early, and conversely, roommate A had a little more understanding of roommate B's wake-up anger and communicated in a timely manner afterwards, then the outcome of this matter would not have been so stiff.

Eat together in the dormitory.

2. Respect each other. Everyone has their own privacy, and living in the same dormitory will give you a deeper understanding of each other, but you must learn to respect others, or use my personal experience as an example

Roommate B learns about the family situation during the phone call between roommate A and his family, and communicates the situation with other classmates as gossip, and the matter reaches roommate A's ears, and roommate A asks her for a theory, and the two start arguing. If roommate B respects the privacy of others in the first place, then there will be no conflict.

The doll of roommates.

In short, as a college student, you should focus on your studies, and as long as you can do the above two things in the dormitory relationship, you will not cause conflicts with your roommates, which will affect your physical and mental health, which is enough!

1. Respect privacy.

The university dormitory is a gathering place for "gossip", and a lot of privacy can be heard in the dormitory. As a member of the university dormitory, I was able to access the privacy of many roommates and the secret gossip of other classmates. If you want to maintain a good dormitory relationship, you must not be a "long-tongued woman" and respect the privacy of your roommates.

The gossip of the university spreads very quickly, and we can listen to some privacy and secrets, but we must not spread it, and we can do our part.

Of course, you should also be careful not to rummage through your roommate's things, steal if you don't ask, even if you have a good relationship, you can't rummage through other people's belongings at will, and respect the privacy of your roommates.

2. Adjust your work and rest.

During college, roommates' routines were different. In order to solve this problem, roommates can arrange a reasonable schedule and rest time, during which it is best to keep quiet to ensure the normal routine of most roommates. If you can adjust it, it is best to adjust to the prescribed schedule, if you really can't adjust it, then it is best to keep this time quiet to avoid conflicts.

3. Learn to be tolerant.

College roommates have "very different personalities" and very different habits, due to family education.

It is inevitable that roommates will have different opinions on the same issue. Therefore, when there is a disagreement with a roommate, don't be too "stubborn", be more tolerant, respect other people's opinions, and tolerate others' small shortcomings, so that the roommate relationship can last longer.

4. Participate in group activities appropriately.

During college, roommates are the closest group to the relationship, and building a good relationship with roommates can avoid many potential problems. College friendships are easy to build, but hard to maintain. If you have free time, it is a good choice to have dinner and play with your roommates, which can not only meet your own needs, but also build a deeper relationship with your roommates.

If you want to be friendly with your roommates, you can do the following.

Keep smiling: Smile like a spring breeze in March. People who love to laugh (not fake smiles) are not too lucky, and of course they can get along well with their roommates. A smile can shorten the distance between people and let others know that you are willing to be friends with them.

Tolerance and generosity: Living in a group is bound to lead to friction and disputes. We should be tolerant and generous, not caring about small things, and tolerant of the shortcomings of others. Make it easier to get along. Of course, we can't tolerate it for a while.

Learn to be honest: It's hard for people to accept cheating, and you can not tell them about your privacy, but you can't help but tell them that you paid for the errands they ran.

Gifts: When they give you some snacks or other things, you'd better give them something as well, it doesn't need to be valuable, just have your heart. You can also offer to help.

1.Respect the habits of others.

Your roommate may be from all parts of the country, and there will inevitably be some differences in living habits, such as northerners who don't eat rice, and southerners who don't love pasta very much, but these are people's living habits from childhood to adulthood, and we should respect them.

2.Learn to empathize, be considerate and tolerant of others.

As the old saying goes, the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly, college students have become adults, and entering the university is equivalent to entering a small half of the society, and learning how to get along with others, and empathy is the only criterion for understanding and tolerating others.

3.If you encounter a problem, you might as well say it directly, and communicate calmly and well.

There are many activities to promote cohesion in the dormitory. Feelings are born out of getting along, and they are all heart-to-heart exchanges. For example, everyone often gets together for a meal and talks about the feelings they are usually embarrassed to express at the wine table; For example, before going to bed at night, we have a sleeper meeting to talk about our hearts; For example, it is okay to help each other, bring a meal to a roommate, help fetch water, etc.

1.Even if the schedule is different, don't bother others.

2.If you really can't bear the situation, you can express your dissatisfaction and solve anything in person.

3.If someone is very angry, go out and calm down first, and then deal with the problem when the mood is stable, etc.

After entering college, for various reasons, your roommate is usually the one who gets along with you the most, so how should we get along with your roommate? How to have a comfortable relationship with your roommate, let me tell you about it.

1. Help and care for each other

Reach out to your roommate when they are in trouble, so that the relationship will be stronger, and you should be sincere and not deceive others. When your roommate is upset or in a bad mood, don't make drastic jokes. When conflicts begin to arise, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences with your roommates, resolve conflicts, and don't make radical jokes when your roommates are unhappy or in a bad mood.

2. Take care of personal hygiene

There are many examples where the smell of shoes or not taking a shower or washing clothes for too long can be the trigger for quarrels with roommates, so taking care of personal hygiene is an important condition for maintaining a good relationship with roommates. It can be really offensive for some people not to pay attention to their personal hygiene.

Especially for some people who have high hygiene requirements, they may have conflicts with you, at least you can't influence others. Cultivate good behavior habits, respect other people's living habits, do not try to change others, instead of changing others, it is better to try to change your own behavior, form good behavior habits, take care of the public facilities in the dormitory, and do a good job of cleaning the dormitory.

3.The art and skill of interpersonal communication

Interpersonal communication is a science with a certain art and skill. As long as they read, think, and communicate more, they will learn and comprehend many noble ideas from them, and if they know more about how to deal with things, they will be able to "be like a fish in water" and "be able to swim with ease" in interpersonal interactions.

Try not to do things that your roommates can't stand to do, such as reading with the lights in the middle of the night, eating something with a strong taste in the dormitory, talking loudly when playing **, etc., for those students who engage in involution in the dormitory, it is really disgusting, if you want to study, go to the library or study room, the environment there will be better.

4. Go out with your roommates to watch movies, dinners, and travel

Don't be alone, more we can participate in some dormitory activities with our roommates, people are social animals, we also pay attention to maintaining communication with roommates. You can share small snacks together, and occasionally play games together to relax.

Roommates are the objects we get along with, so we have to spend more time cultivating relationships, hoping that we can get more principles of dealing with people in the small society of the university, and we can live a good life like a fish in water when we go out of school in the future.

The dormitory relationship is the most basic interpersonal relationship at the university level, and it is also the most basic unit of daily activities. It is very important to live in a dormitory and have a good relationship with the dormitory members. A good relationship and a good mood are not only good for learning, but also good for physical and mental health.

Clause. 1. Choose to actively communicate, people from all over the world get together, and it is normal for personality differences to be different. Choose active communication to better solve the problem, many times because of a little thing that is not communicated and solved in time, it will accumulate into a big thing. Moreover, the dormitory space is so large, and it will be embarrassing if you don't look up and look down all day long.

Clause. 2. Respect living habits, everyone's living habits will definitely be more or less different, and your lifestyle and concept are different from others'. You can't expect others to be like you. Think about it for a moment, would you be willing to accept someone asking you to change your habits?

Therefore, mutual respect and understanding become the first choice.

Clause. 3. Dormitory culture construction, a good dormitory culture can also better coordinate the relationship between the dormitory, which is also a good way for dormitory members to get along harmoniously. After all, it's right to be close to Zhu Zhechi.

Fourth, change the dormitory, but this is also a choice made only as a last resort, and it is the next policy. If you really can't stand the living habits of the dormitory members, changing the dormitory is also a solution. But what you need to know is that if you change dormitories, you will still have to deal with dorm relations.

Clause. 5. Concentrate on reading only the books of the sages. For different living habits, if you don't want to communicate, then bury your head in learning, don't care about other people's affairs, this is also a way to deal with it. But it's best to help each other out with your roommates, that's the best.

Finally, I hope these suggestions are useful. But don't put up with it in order to maintain a good dormitory relationship, and sometimes you don't need to cater to it, just be yourself. If it is too tiring to maintain a dormitory relationship, you can think that something is wrong, and a good relationship should be very comfortable.

Getting along is a science, and the university is like a small society, and when we enter the university, we come to a new place of life: the dormitory, which becomes the first place to contact new people, roommates, and the first strangers we come into contact with. Roommates must pay attention to details when getting along.

Details are very important, and the following details are quite useful to share with you:

1) If there are other people studying in the dormitory, try not to read or read, or memorize words out loud.

2) When entering the dormitory, try to knock softly and push the door, even if you don't mean to knock loudly, the people in the room will feel uncomfortable.

3) When you enter someone's dormitory at noon, you can send a message in advance.

4) If you think that you might go to bed late, do your washing well in advance so that you don't bother others very much. Also, remember to negotiate a schedule with your roommates!

6) Use the computer when others are resting, and if you can, try to tap the keyboard softly, and don't use the mouse if you can.

9) If you can gently flip through a book without making a sound when others are resting, it means that you are a very considerate person.

1.Think more about others and less about yourself. It means that you must know how to empathize.

There are as few as 2 people in a dormitory and as many as 8-10 people, and if you want to manage the relationship with your roommates, you need to be tolerant. This is not for you to be selfless and dedicated, but to take into account the feelings of others in the dormitory, for example, if your roommate wants to sleep when the lights are out, and you are still studying, at this time, turn down the brightness of the desk lamp, you can study with peace of mind, and your roommate can also sleep with peace of mind;

2.Know how to share. There is a saying that gives roses to people, and leaves a lingering fragrance in your hands. It can be a snack sent by your mother, or a good thing you bought, and you can share it with your roommates. After a long time, your roommates will remember your goodness, and your popularity will become better and better;

3.Take care to protect your privacy. Because no matter who you get along with, you need to leave some "mystery", and you don't know what happened to your roommate more than ten years ago, so you still have to protect yourself when you are studying alone.

Not all roommates become good friends for life.

The dormitory is a place where every college student must live, and it is very important to manage the relationship between the university dormitory and the university experience for the next four years. First of all, suddenly 5-8 people from different places and different families live together, it is inevitable that there will be many different places, for example, different work and rest times, only if everyone works together and abides by each other, can we reduce conflicts and eliminate friction, if everyone sleeps, and you start to wash, it will make noise to roommates, which will inevitably cause conflicts. Do not engage in small groups, a dormitory of 6 people and 5 groups, this is a common phenomenon in the university, this is not right, should be treated with an equal attitude to everyone, do not favor one over the other, and some people are hot, and the other part of the alienation ignores, some people always like to whisper behind the back of some other people, which can easily cause dormitory conflicts, is not conducive to the establishment of a good dormitory relationship.

Don't violate the privacy of your roommates, everyone has their own little secrets, and when a person has a barrier to themselves, when you insist on breaking in, it is unwelcome.