How to build a harmonious dormitory relationship, the importance of a harmonious dormitory

A harmonious dormitory relationship is that everyone works together and does not blame and interfere with each other's lives. We've seen too many contradictory things in the dormitory, maybe the cause of the incident is small, but in the end everyone doesn't have a good relationship, so we have to set our own goals at the beginning. For example, if your goal is to get into a better university, or to go to graduate school, you can do it, and many things can be endured for this goal.

For example, if you go to the library in your spare time, then there will be fewer conflicts in the dormitory. It's good that I'm motivated, and my classmates are motivated. The dormitory relationship is natural and harmonious.

We are all adults, so don't blame other people's lifestyles, which will reduce a lot of conflicts.

Understand and help each other, and don't worry about it.

Strategy 1: Look at your roommates in a positive light.

As the saying goes, "No one is perfect without gold." "Everyone has their own shortcomings, shortcomings and areas for improvement.

Therefore, when we look at our roommates, we must learn to accept their shortcomings, and at the same time, we must also see their strengths. If we see more of the good in each other, then we will make positive comments about our roommates, which will increase our good feelings towards our roommates, and the interpersonal relationships in the dormitory will naturally be more harmonious. So, look at your roommate from a positive perspective, and you'll find that it's actually quite lucky to be in the same room with such a nice roommate.

Strategy 2: Learn to admit your mistakes.

Even if you are a pair of friends with such good teeth and tongues, sometimes, your teeth bite your tongue. So, is it the fault of the teeth or the fault of the tongue? It's really hard to say.

Then, several people get along day and night in the dormitory, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps because of some trivial things. If there is a small conflict or a small conflict, and they both feel that they are justified and feel that it is the other party's fault, then it will be even more difficult to do a good job in the dormitory. Therefore, when there is a conflict with a roommate, take the initiative to admit your mistakes and get a good dormitory relationship.

Because, when you admit your mistakes to the other party, others will feel your generosity and tolerance, but feel embarrassed, and the other party will naturally no longer be able to deal with you, and your conflict will be resolved. Of course, there must be a prerequisite for taking the initiative to admit mistakes, that is, to calmly reflect on yourself afterwards and find that you have indeed done something wrong. This kind of initiative to admit mistakes can be accepted by oneself and the other party.

Of course, the attitude should be sincere and make people feel that you are acting from the heart.

Strategy 3: Take the initiative to communicate and seek common ground while reserving differences.

Many times, the dormitory relationship is not ideal because we lack the necessary communication. Therefore, as a member of the dormitory, we need to learn to communicate positively with our roommates, speak your minds, express your emotions, and let the other person know your thoughts and needs. At the same time, it is also important to actively listen to the other person's thoughts and needs.

In this way, you will understand the differences between you, and you will be able to discover your common language and achieve common ground while reserving differences. Then, you will have less conflict with your roommate, and your relationship with your roommate will become more and more harmonious.

There are three main benefits of Harmony Dormitory:

1. The environment is comfortable, your emotions are high, you can do your own things wholeheartedly, and the efficiency is higher 2. Harmonious interpersonal relationships are beneficial to your own learning and life 3. Everyone helps each other, which is conducive to personal development.

College students have to live in the dormitory for four years, and the roommates will become the people we spend the most time with and are the closest to us, so building a good dormitory relationship is the beginning of a good university life.

Here are three things that I think you should keep in mind and master in your university dormitory.

Respect and understanding, seek common ground while reserving differences:

After going to college, everyone's family environment and life experience in the dormitory are different, and everyone's personality is also very different, but we can choose to respect each other, such as respecting others' dressing styles, respecting others' hobbies and interests, respecting others' work and rest habits, respecting others' values, as long as we don't touch our own bottom line, don't quarrel with roommates or cold wars unless necessary.

Empathy, self-discipline and forgiveness:

People with the ability to empathize, his heart is not just his own person, but a lot of people, when we can empathize with more people, in fact, it also means that we can fit more people in our hearts, the so-called prime minister can hold the boat in the belly is empathy to bring us more imagination and more possibilities, we will be more understanding of other people's behavior and thoughts, more able to get along with others well. Discipline oneself and forgiveness to others, treat oneself and others can not be double standard, but should be more strict with oneself, and learn to be considerate and understanding of others. This will give others the impression that we are tolerant rather than aggressive.

Help each other and treat others sincerely:

If your roommate is struggling and asks for your help, don't be stingy and go for your help. I think most people still have a good character, you help her once, she will remember your good, and the next time you are in trouble, they will also come to help you. Usually you have to care more about your roommates, use your heart to open their hearts, sincere people are always the most likeable.

The above three points are what I think is a good interpersonal relationship in the dormitory.

The three most important points.

I hope that all students who read this article can have good interpersonal relationships in college and have a good four years! Remember, if you bloom butterflies, you will come!

Of course, that doesn't mean that we have to swallow our anger or something when we are bullied, that is, each of us is not perfect, we can help each other endure it, just do it, solve any contradictions on the spot, find a common hobby, do something together, do something together, get better together, and work together.

Be honest with each other, be good to yourself and others, and be hygienic.