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After the divorce, two people can jump out of the circle of marriage, calm down and think about your relationship, some couples only find out the advantages of their husbands and wives and their original concern for themselves after the divorce, sometimes the distance is too close will make people blind, you can only see each other's shortcomings. You can talk to your ex-wife, talk to her about your thoughts, and ask her for her opinion, if she still has feelings for you, and there is still room for your relationship to be saved, then you can try to start over. As a man, if you have the idea of getting back together, you should take the initiative, even if she doesn't agree, you will work hard so that you won't regret it later.
In case she remarries, you've missed the opportunity, so act now.
Things are man-made, many people hate each other because of divorce, but with the passage of time, each other has been able to let go of the resentment in their hearts, can have a normal attitude to look at each other, and will also exchange perspectives to consider the contradictions between each other, everything has passed, and each other has a new understanding, as long as each other is still single, they are also worried about each other, and they are working hard to learn from the past, re-understand, and start again, and it is very likely that they will remarry. As a husband and wife at that time, you were more aware of how much you hurt each other and who hurt whom. Once one party is hurt by the other party to the point that it is painful, hurt to the bones, and hurt the heart, then it is not called the conflict between husband and wife, it rises to hatred, and the word hate will generally condense into the blood.
Otherwise, it is not called hatred and contradiction.
Contradictions are easy to solve, and hatred is difficult to digest! Many couples divorce each other for a little trivial matter, for a little financial benefit, to the most painful place.
In the end, it becomes hatred! Hundreds of unpleasant pain (hate). If you and your ex-wife love each other, divorce peacefully under impulse, and still worry about each other after the divorce, this fully supports you to remarry, according to what you said you and your ex-wife have become enemies after divorcing, it is recommended that you still don't resurrect them, and the enemies are very red when they see each other.
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There is no possibility of remarriage, not only do two people have a lot of problems in their marriage, but when they divorce, their attitude has clearly indicated that two people can only be strangers.
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Yes, if two people become enemies, it means that it is impossible for two people to remarry again, and there is no fate between two people.
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In this case, there is no possibility of remarriage, and after the divorce, he has become enemies with his ex-wife, and there is no room for change between the two people.
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The human heart is biased and sharp. After the divorce, as long as he is not good, he (she) blames him (her) for hurting himself. It's normal.
A smart person is a person who can be a person, and often regards his ex-husband (wife) as a friend. After all, unlike others, no matter what the reason for divorce, you can't talk about old things, and if you really have difficulties, you will never refuse. But don't go back often.
Imagine what happens if people in the world love one person more and hate one person. After the divorce, the two have no marital relationship, but they are not necessarily enemies. In particular, it is not necessary to ignore the relatives of the other party.
Among the people I am familiar with, there are several couples who have become godmother-daughter after divorce and the original mother-in-law. Although some are not related, they have not become enemies. Anyway, this category belongs to the majority of people I know well.
There are also couples who have completely cut off contact with the man's family after the divorce, but they still have a good relationship with some of their relatives who used to get along well. Among the divorced people I am familiar with, none of them have met after the divorce, at most they don't interact with each other, and those with children can still visit normally, etc., as they say on the Internet, they become enemies, and even have normal visitation rights.
There are also restrictions, and there are no people I know who have not yet appeared.
In short, I think that divorce is just two people who are not married, and they do not necessarily become enemies. But the two of them should quickly cut through the mess and completely break the mess in terms of relationship, and they can no longer be entangled, otherwise it will be unfair to the current one and even affect the new family. And normal interpersonal communication is better to go with the flow.
There are also many people who still get along well after divorce, and they don't hurt and hate each other too much like friends. Because these people either look down on each other's emotions, or they just make more rational choices. Every marriage and relationship is happy when it is first established, and each other yearns for a better future, but it is also unfortunate that in the middle of this life, it will happen to each other.
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In such a situation, there is no chance of remarriage, because you and your ex-wife are already deeply estranged.
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There is no chance of remarriage. This is because two people have become enemies, and two people have no love, so two people have no chance to remarry.
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If it is the man's problem that causes the divorce, then if you still want to get back and want to remarry, then you must really get rid of your own problems. Impress her with sincerity and true feelings, even if you can't be a friend, don't become an enemy.
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Become an enemy, no love and no hate, it means that you still have feelings, you need to work hard to save the feelings of the two of you, maybe you have deeply hurt her, so you must slowly resolve her hatred for you, after all, it is a person who has been married, as long as the feelings are deep, the hatred will always be slowly dissolved, come on, work hard, good luck.
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There is no chance of remarriage, because the relationship between the two people has become very bad, and there will be a gap in the hearts of the two people after they remarry.
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There is no chance to remarry, after the divorce, the two people are like enemies, and they will also say some mean words, and the other party will feel very sad.
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As soon as I heard it, it annoyed people to death.
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I don't think I would choose to remarry! Many couples will remarry because of their children after divorce, will you remarry for the sake of your children? In fact, in our real life, there are many couples who remarry after divorce because of their children, and their inner thoughts are to hope to give their children a complete family.
But if it were me, I don't think I would choose to remarry for the sake of the children. First of all, a broken mirror cannot be reunited. If two people choose to divorce because of something in their married life, there must be something wrong with their relationship.
But if two people remarry because of the children's hall, the gap in the relationship cannot be repaired, that is to say, the broken mirror cannot be reunited. Even if two people remarry, the relationship between those two people will not return to the past. Secondly, improvisation is not life.
In fact, divorced couples, if they choose to remarry because of their children, the feelings between the two people will not return to the same as before, that is to say, the two people are living together. It's just that because of the bond of children, such a relationship between husband and wife will not be very good. Therefore, in such a life, two people cannot live well together, and of course, the family environment for children will not be very good.
This kind of improvised life is not the life that everyone wants. Again, children will not be happy. In addition, if two people live together improvisedly, the relationship between husband and wife will not be so harmonious, and the whole family environment will not be warm and happy.
In such an environment, in fact, the child will not be happy, and when the child grows up, his heart may change because of such a family environment. It is extremely detrimental to the growth of children, and children cannot experience the happiness of the family. So, if a couple divorces and then remarries because of their children, if it does, I don't think I would do that.
When two people are separated, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and if they choose to remarry, another irreconcilable situation may appear, which is a kind of torture for each other, and it is extremely unfavorable for the growth of children.
It may be that the parents do not let the brothers and sisters become particularly united will have some problems, or it may be that the brothers and sisters in some things, there may be some conflicts because of some economic problems, and the parents are particularly eccentric, so the relationship between the children is also very bad when they grow up, and the characters of the brothers and sisters are very calculating, and they will keep some small things in mind, and the status of the brothers and sisters may be too far apart, and the heart is unbalanced.
I think my ex-wife is really a very good woman, very powerful, and I admire that she can start from scratch with her own efforts.
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