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Unconditional love means that my love has no return.
I give you love willingly, and I don't need you to do anything to me. What I do to you, and what you do to me, are two separate unrelated events.
In fact, unconditional love is not deep and distant. In our lives, it's everywhere.
A flower amazes you, a movie shocks you, and you will sincerely sigh "wow" to express your emotions. At this time, you are just being yourself, and by the way, you have formed a recognition of others.
A person spontaneously does something he wants to do because of his own pleasure, surprise, like, distress, emotion, etc., and by the way, he contributes to others, which is unconditional love.
There is no sense of giving in this kind of love, it is a natural state of spontaneity. At this time, you will not ask others to do anything for you.
And conditional love, the starting point is to satisfy others, and it is an act of love for love's sake. It is a kind of love that focuses on others. At this time, when people express love, they have a sense of giving.
Love is two-sided, when you give unreservedly, what you want is the happiness of the other party, you are satisfied, and then you are giving; When you feel sad, it's because the other party doesn't understand your heart, and then you want to take it, so love is great, and it's also selfish, because there are two sides to the material in this world, there is no good or bad, right or wrong, as long as you find that balance.
Whether it's unreserved love or reserved love, being able to take responsibility for your choices is maturity. By taking responsibility, I mean not remorse, not retaliating, and accepting the risks and realities that your efforts may not be rewarded.
Every effort is also a gain, and that's good.
Love is never equal. "Actually, if you love someone, you love a Mt. Fuji.
You can see it, but you can't move it. Is there any way you can move a Mt. Fuji, the answer is, walk over it yourself. Lovers have always been like this, they obviously want the moon, but they can only get the moonlight. ”
You try to get closer, but he's still out of reach, and the closer you get, the farther away he gets. Loving without being able to do so has always been the cruelest thing.
The extremes of things must be opposed, the extremes of wisdom must be hurt, and the love is deep and immortal.
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Then put your whole heart and soul on this person, you have to know everything she does, even if she has a little bad mood, you have to find out in time, coax her to be happy, buy her good food, buy beautiful clothes, meet all her needs, even if there is a conflict, you can't quarrel, you have to apologize as soon as possible.
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To be very pampered with each other, no matter what the other party asks, you must do your best to meet them, no matter what good things you have, you will want to give the first one to each other, you must accompany each other more, and you must also listen to and understand each other's ideas.
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First of all, you should let your heart accept such a state, and then discover the advantages of the other party, so that you can achieve this level.
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Don't love anyone but your own parents without reservation.
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It's 9102 years now, and there is unreserved love, which must be true love.
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You have to save three points for yourself, and the breakup is not too ugly.
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It's definitely not good, stupid people will give everything they have.
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To love others without reservation, it is yourself who is hurt in the end.
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It depends on the situation, after all, what you pay may not be rewarded.
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Only a fool will love others without reservation.
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The more you give, the more serious the injury becomes, except for your parents.
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It's not good, it's not good for yourself, don't be so stupid.
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It's not good, don't give everything stupidly for one person.
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Absolutely, in theory! As long as it is a "continuous tense" of love, you will definitely give it without reservation.
When you are not willing to give, it must be that you don't love ......No matter who caused the reason for this lack of love and whose fault it was, but if you don't love it, you won't love ...... after all
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If love is only given by one person, what will it continue, and if everything is given, what about dignity?
If your love is gone in the end, won't you lose everything?
So love is not the whole of your life, and you can't give it unreservedly.
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No, you don't. Once you give it without reservation. You will find him and her unreserved betrayal. Maintaining love also requires means and methods. Stupid pay. It will only make people feel that you are inferior.
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No, leave yourself a way out. Anyone you trust can leave you and give it their all. Otherwise, it will be you who suffer, sadly.
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The highest level of loving a person is not how much you give for him or her, but how much you keep for her (him). If you can understand and do it in the little things of life, then your love is the supreme and selfless.
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Yes, if you love someone, whether he is sincere or not, you should first show sincerity and silently pay for him, until one day he doesn't need you to pay
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First of all, do you understand what the definition of love is? Love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness!
If someone you love has given up on you, let yourself go so that you have the opportunity to love others!
There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.
Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well, feel it with your heart!
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To love someone does not mean to be unreserved, because everyone has their own secrets.
Loving someone is a two-sided effort, not a one-sided effort.
Loving someone is not a one-sided effort, don't give all your feelings easily.
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Because each person is an independent person, we belong first and foremost, we have our own thoughts, our own needs, and we do not put all of our lives in the life of another person. Because then he will be very tired, and you will be prone to gains and losses.
It is better to please yourself first, only to please others, but in the end you snub yourself, which is putting the cart before the horse. The wisest love is to know how to love yourself.
Friend Ah Han and his girlfriend have obviously reached the stage of talking about marriage, but in the end Ah Han still chose to break up with her. Ah Han said that when he ended that relationship, he also thought about it for a long time, but thinking about how long a life is, he can't go against his will. The reason for his breakup is simple, his girlfriend loves him unconditionally, but this love is too heavy for him.
He said: "She is very good to me, she is willing to wronged herself to accommodate me, but she always treats me in the way she thinks is right, and when I make a little mistake, she will ask me hysterically whether I am worthy of everything she has done to me, which makes me feel very guilty."
broke up because she was really tired, because she only cared about giving hard, leaving herself in a state of numbness, but she never really loved herself. No matter how much I give her love, it will not be enough to make up for the longing for love in her heart. "Many people often make such a mistake in their relationship, once they meet a person they like, they will be desperate to be good to him.
The mermaid lost her voice for the beloved prince, lost her fish tail, and suffered great pain every day, but the result was that the prince and the princess got married, and the mermaid could only turn into foam. You originally thought that you had met true love, but in the end, the inconclusive ending proved that it was just your wishful thinking.
I envy those who have an independent personality and way of thinking, who can handle life and relationships perfectly, and can minimize losses even when they encounter setbacks and sadness.
These people don't actually have much experience in love, they just understand a very simple and easily ignored truth before us: love yourself before you love others! If you want to truly love someone, you must first learn to love yourself before you can know how to love.
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No, you can give a lot to love someone, but you can't give unreservedly, everyone should be selfish and think about themselves.
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No. In the world of love, it is also necessary to leave space and dignity for each other, it is right to pay for love, but there must be reservations, after all, there is still a long way to go.
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Yes, love can make people swoon, and to love someone wholeheartedly is to give unreservedly, without expecting anything in return, but to make the other person happy.
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No, you still have to have your own principles when you love someone, and you can't have no self because you love someone, which will do wrong things.
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Yes, if you love someone, you want to do anything for him, as long as it makes him happy, you will do it willingly.
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It's not like that, although the other party is the person you love, you don't need to give unreservedly, you have to leave three points of leeway to do things, and you have to think about it for yourself.
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Yes. A lot of times, it's not something you can control, and the magic of love is really powerful and always overwhelming.
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No, love is mutual, no matter what you do, it can't be a person's unilateral giving, and such love won't last long.
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No. It also depends on how he treats you, whether he loves you or not, how he pays you, etc., but you still have to leave yourself some way out.
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Definitely, if the other party realizes that you still have a little secret in your heart, it will definitely be bad for the relationship between the two parties.
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Does loving someone mean giving unreservedly? The answer is no. Each person is an independent person, we belong first of all, we have thoughts, we have personalities, and we don't give everything we have to each other.
We can have reservations, such as privacy that you don't want to talk about, people with secrets are mature, aren't they? Sometimes it's better not to say it.
Love is only a small part of a person's life, but also a small episode of life, love will become a stronger family at the moment you become a family, and family affection not only includes your lover, but also parents, maybe brothers and sisters, and your irreplaceable love for yourself.
Giving unreservedly will only make you easy to lose yourself in love, because you feel that everything must be focused on the other party, as long as the other party thinks that this is good, and then you will be desperate to achieve it, and in the end you will find that in fact, he is just talking casually.
After a long time, the other party will only feel that your love comes too easily, and what is too easy to get will not be cherished by ordinary people, so whether it is love or family affection or friendship, you must have your own opinions, what should do your best, what should be left with a hand.
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No. To love someone is to give a certain amount, not to give unreservedly, so that in the end, the person who hurts the most is you.
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No. If you give unreservedly, it will only make the other person feel that you love so cheaply.
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No, even if you love him very much, you can't give it unreservedly, because you will be hurt.
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Don't, because the unreserved love is too humble to love, and such love is generally not cherished by the other party.
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No, it's best to make your lover seven points full, and you have to leave three points to protect yourself, so as to save the injured body.
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There is no need to give unreservedly to him, because the more you give in love, the faster you will lose him.
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Of course not, the premise of loving someone is to love yourself well, and then love others and pay for others.
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Yes, because you love her, you are willing to give it without reservation.
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No, if you really give unreservedly, then you will slowly lose yourself.
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There is a good saying, before you love someone, you must love yourself for seven points. It's not right to give unreservedly, it will only hurt you.
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Huh, it's a headache, right? Personally, I think that since you fall in love, you will have something to give and gain. Love ta, if the conditions allow, go to him, if the conditions don't allow, just keep the relationship through communication, and then look for opportunities in the future.
True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the trouble, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!
Caring means that you are very attentive to him, she is very attentive, liking is that you not only care about him, but also want to be with him, unconsciously want to be good to him, want to get him, easily forgive him, and will not hate him ......It's a bit general, but it's easy to understand.