I was entangled with my girlfriend s complex feelings, and I asked my mentor for guidance.

After breaking up, she keeps wanting to get close to each other, which means that she still can't let go of you in her heart, why did she break up before, she should have her reasons, or you are still unsatisfactory somewhere, and so ......onIn short, there must be a reason, since you can propose a breakup, it can be said that her love for you is still not firm.

In the face of this embarrassing relationship that is not a lover or an ordinary friend, you as a man should take the initiative to talk to her, tell her frankly what you think, and at the same time solve the doubts in your heart.

。。Try asking her out, do something to his liking or just say what you want to do, and ask her to accompany her. Pay attention to the wording here.

You can try a gift from a previous date or go to a place you've been to see her reaction, but if you can't do it, just say it, after all, not many people like to ask questions.

There is development, try to talk about the happy things of the previous relationship, express nostalgia, and hope to go back to the past. See if she's willing to talk or avoid. But depending on what you said, she is willing to get along with you, there is a great opportunity, please take advantage of it, but don't be too anxious, it will scare her away.

Tell him honestly! Stay with me

How do you want to know if she loves you or not? Are you expecting something to happen to you on TV, and she's worried about you when it's over? The reality is cruel, it stands to reason that she won't do that, this is only if you treat her better in the near future, and then try to confess to her.

You said, you're very attentive, so every time you don't fall in love, it's not for long, so I want to ask you what was your original intention in falling in love?

If you just have a playful mentality, then no one can help you, every time you fall in love, you should talk about it with the mentality of marriage, so that you can succeed when you are together, you must cherish it At the beginning, it is very enthusiastic, but after the enthusiasm, it will be dull, you have to be able to find fun from the ordinary.

Plain is true. You've been in love a lot of times, so what's the reason for each breakup?

If you want to find the reason for it, if you don't feel it when you're together, then don't talk about it, it's not blind fishing, you have to find the goal.

Instead of casting a net everywhere.

When you meet what you like, cherish it, otherwise it's like a monkey breaking corn, and I always think that the back is suitable, but in fact, the right one has been missed in the front. . .

Don't bother with falling in love with the intention of getting married, the effect will be better.

I'm really sad for you to have such a state of mind. Are feelings all you have in college? Put your energy into study and practice, and you will be more relaxed in the future society.

Think about your annual college expenses, who gave you that money, and how you earned it. A good man has lofty ambitions, how can he be trapped by such feelings. Unless..

YOU ARE NOW TO INDULGE YOUR DISTRACTIONS ...

。Feelings can't just find someone · You have to like it, otherwise it's not a relationship.

If you don't date because you like it in the first place. You can't feel the other person's dedication either. That's not interesting.

Will come across it later. Don't force it.

(Well, for the first time, I found that the sophomore boys will have spring, and the girls in Mao's school are so strong.)

It's so empty, it's so empty! After class, I looked at my classmates talking and laughing all over the place, why was I so lonely? How I wish there was that destined her, and she would have a romantic encounter with herself unintentionally.

The interweaving of fantasy and cruel reality forced me to leave the classroom and flee to an empty place outside the classroom to be confused and alone.

This is the situation I was in a while ago, but as a student who is about to enter the third year of high school, the pressure of responsibility has squeezed these far away. Maybe stress is a good way to deal with this situation, you might as well find fault with yourself and scold yourself in your heart! (Sorry, take advantage, I'm a junior).

You're scared so lead to operational mistakes!

Since you feel that she is so important to you, you put up with it. If she's influenced by you, then it's best, if not, then I don't think you will say to break up.

At the end of the day, you don't want to break up at all, so that question doesn't make sense. If she wants to make trouble, she will make trouble, and she didn't say that she wanted to break up.

She said that friends are the most important thing, and you just try to use your normal heart.

Actually, my thoughts are a bit similar to your girlfriend's. I think friendship is far more important to me than love. How to say, I may not have met someone who is worthy of love, but even if I meet someone I really like and like, if my good friend also likes it, I will take the initiative to opt out, this is not not love, but just a manifestation of not daring to love.

Everyone has a different view of friendship and love in their hearts. In fact, there is no need to worry about her friends. After all, the friendship between girls is difficult to express in words, as long as you really love each other.

Isn't it?

If you don't love it to the bone, or you haven't done enough, time will tell.

1.Games are a common topic of conversation, but is there anything else you can talk about besides games? Your relationship is the main thing, how can the game occupy 70% of the topic?

You can talk about some interesting things in your life, tell him some jokes between couples, and pay more attention to his life situation.

2.The student is under pressure, his spirit is pinned on the game, there is a you in the game, he may think that at least one of you is his only one, but you play games with other girls, and forget about her existence! (This jealousy is very big, and you may think you are very distracted).

3 He may have thought about following you for the rest of his life, but the game occupies your heart, he has no place in your heart, and he has no sense of existence. , promise you happiness? Are you playing the game for him? Have you ever given up your game for him?

4.Love is slowly cultivated by staying together, she may decide to leave you, but she is reluctant, you have to come on! (I don't hope much, do you think you can afford to lose this feeling!) I tried to give him a safe and only harbor that he wanted).

5.Self-feeling: feelings can't stand waiting (waiting is the biggest killer of feelings, I have experienced it myself, and the discarded love is no longer that taste when picked up) and girls always have a few days a bad mood every month, it is recommended to agree to be his friend, but like a boyfriend (the purpose is to cultivate feelings, boyfriends are upgraded from friends) Gu She is suitable to confess again when the time comes, (I feel that the hope is greater) If you confess like this or stalk again, there is no result.

6.I still want to pick her up as before, but as a friend, (one point must be received, otherwise you won't have a play).

Believe it or not, love doesn't stay, feelings can't stand waiting, friends are boyfriends.

First worship, then love, love comes quite quickly! (The concept of love after the 90s).

I don't know how old you are now, but I think it's college?

Look at how much your question is written, well, it's really quite serious.

First of all, I think you should ask yourself, do you really like her?

Then feel if so, whether she's worth your pursuit. For example, style issues and the like, will she play ambiguously with other boys. If it's early, forget it away from her.

If it's okay, then you are giving the other party a chance to take the initiative twice, but it is only three If she is still cold, it means that you are really no play. This should be well tested. Well, yes, you think about whether your love is just limited to games, and if so, then you should change people and find someone you really like and like yourself.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

And if there is anything you don't understand, continue to ask.

Keep up the good work, you still have a show!

That girl was very good to you before, there were sweet words, and you felt good, but you met a netizen who didn't chat for a few days on the Internet, and played games with her but ignored the woman, and the woman will reply to you in class, and the woman will definitely be angry if she knows, plus you didn't say anything to the woman before, resulting in anger and discouragement, and the next thing happened, so you go to her, he will not accept your confession, she is already disappointed in you, maybe you get along a little more, she may accept you...

Of course, my inference is not necessarily correct, you can refer to it.

Sometimes we should try to try no matter what the result is, you are not her, how do you not know if she will accept it? Military school is lonely, I always want to talk to someone and give myself a concern! Are you sure you like her?

Or do you need comfort because you're lonely? Sometimes you should also think clearly, if you start, it means that she is just spending endless waiting, you are only a freshman, and how much time you have to spend in the future! You can't be around when she's sick, she's unhappy, you can't know in time, you still have to think about it before making a decision!

It's normal to miss someone. You still have a few more years to stay in military school, and you can spend it in good thoughts, which is much better than thinking about nothing, isn't it? Let it all be fate, if it comes time for you to leave the military academy and be able to come to her, tentatively express to her to see if you have fate.

If that's the case, you should be bold enough to write her a courtship letter, maybe she will agree, as long as you follow it with your heart, there should be a good result.

This question You must first understand that emotion is the highest wealth of human beings, and it is also necessary for everyone, but sometimes emotion is an idealized thing, the ideal is the sky, the reality is the earth, how to step on the earth to achieve the ideal requires your wisdom and not blood.

Instead of you repeatedly assuming to yourself like this, it is better to take practical actions, if you are rejected, you can also die, if people accept, then everyone will be happy!

It is recommended that you shift your goals and develop more hobbies!

Tell her to be honest with her about your concerns, whether you accept it or not, you have tried...

What you may not get is always the best, and it's because military school life is boring that you keep thinking of her.

You have a bright future ahead of you, and as a boy you shouldn't be confused about these little things. You have the answer in your own heart, so why bother yourself.

If you think you're empty, you can have some other fun!

Then chase boldly, do you know you can't catch up?

1. What do you want?

2. What does she want?

3. Have you figured it out?

4. What can you give?

5. Can she accept it?

I agree with this statement.

I think find more things to do, you're probably really bored.

Can't you start a new relationship, so I won't think about her for 2 weeks.

Why is there no result?? If you like it, chase it.

You ask her how she feels about you.

What is true love? 、

You see. As long as you love, you must face each other sincerely.

Don't do things that are sorry for the other person.

If you really like it, you can pursue it boldly, but what the result is, what you do is the most important thing, because people who pursue happiness will not be despised, and I hope you will be happy.

In fact, feelings are a net, which nets you and it. But they can see each other, they can have slight contact, but they can't go deep.

If you like it, chase it, and have someone who relaxes and relaxes like a child, and don't give up.