If you are treated as a substitute by your friends, should you continue to be friends?

Stupid, you have an idea of what others say, go your own way and let people say it.

Looking back, even if you and her girlfriend have similar personalities, what can you do, is it purposeful for him to be friends with you? What do you get? Just kidding, friends are sincere, it's mutual, don't think about what your friend thinks, do what you want to do, think he's your friend and continue to be friends with him.

If he doesn't say that, then it depends on what you think, if you like to be in the same state as him, just go with the flow, as long as you don't have problems with each other, why bother so much? Do yourself well. Don't abandon your friends just because of a few words from others.

It's up to you.

If you really like him, you won't care if you're a substitute.

But if he still can't forget his ex-girlfriend, he can't stand this feeling of being replaced. I advise you to end the relationship before it starts, otherwise you will be hurt even more in the future. Or you wait patiently until the day when he finally forgets about his ex-girlfriend.

Try to believe in him, and he may be moved by you and truly love you.

As long as two people are happy together and cherish each other, I don't think that's a problem at all.

Many people's personalities are very similar, and what kind of personality will choose what kind of friend, isn't it?

I think even if you break up with him now, the person you find in the future may be very similar to his personality, because only his personality is the most suitable for you.

Love is simple, don't overcomplicate it

I wish you happiness.

Hello, this classmate!

In the era of study, it was like this, some people would be good with this and that.

To solve these problems:

First, you have to set yourself a good position and understand what kind of person you are.

Second, it is necessary to understand the inner world of others, which can be understood from life.

Thirdly, good friends are not together for everything, and your problem is that you are afraid of loneliness, so you should talk to your classmates more and try to talk about some topics that they are interested in, so that your friends will gradually increase.

Fourth, it's not that your friend betrayed you, it's a normal change, the most important thing is that you take this too seriously, causing you to think so, you can tell her what you think by joking, and she will pay attention to it!

Fifth, about A's question, the more she thinks of something ugly, the more you have to praise her, and slowly, he won't be embarrassed to pick something ugly about you, and will tell your friends how good you are!

Sixth, how to face the change of friends, for the affairs of friends, classmates, you had better calm your mind, the best way to maintain a good relationship with friends is to help each other, even if it really changes in the end, it doesn't matter, friends are all over the world, there are still many people worth being friends!

All in all, you need to learn to talk to the people around you, sometimes care about the people around you, and learn to joke and praise them.

Finally, I wish you a happy day and hope to help you!

Dear, this problem is something that many people will encounter.

First of all, completely dispel the negative idea that you are a superfluous existence in the class! Everyone has the value of their own existence, not for others, but for themselves.

There is a saying, don't hang yourself from a tree, there are so many students in the class, you can also have more contact with other students, maybe you will find those people you didn't know very well before, and you have a tacit understanding!

Secondly, be confident, I hope you can be lively, and don't let others make you feel bad and depressed. So you have a very serious face and a very depressed face every day, who likes to approach you?? Even if you feel uncomfortable, I hope you can smile more, and maybe others will get close to you because of your smile!

It's okay to pull, it's not just one person in a class, if your good friend chats with A, you can go to play with other people. Actually, these are very normal, I was also left out for a while, and then I got along with other classmates, and I felt that I would be more compatible with those classmates.