What are post 80s women waiting for if they don t get married?

Waiting for someone who is willing to get married!

Five hundred times in the previous life, only to return to this life a pass, a thousand years of waiting is just so, for us the wait is long, but only a thousand years of the ocean, maybe she can't wait in this life, the next life will have to wait, donor... Why should you be anxious about her?

I didn't pick it up for a long time, my boyfriend was anxious, my parents were anxious, my boyfriend's parents were anxious, but I just didn't get married. Why? I don't have the courage.

There are too many changes, and what is love? I don't understand!! What a terrifying thing it is for two people who didn't know each other to suddenly live together.

Waiting for the soul to belong! Waiting for a happy tomorrow!

Those born in the 1980s are in their fourth year. There are still relatively few people who are not married. People born in the 1980s marry early, some have children married, and even become grandparents.

Of course, such people must have been born in the 1980s and 1981s. Yes, there may still be some people born in the 80s who are not married.

1.Generally speaking, most people will start to fall in love freely around the age of 20 or choose the right person through introduction, complete the most important things of youth before the age of 30, and get married and have children one after another. The unmarried group is the "fish that slips through the net" at this stage.

2.Some unmarried young people adhere to the concept of "preferring to be short and unscrupulous" when choosing a mate, and choose among the choices of their other half. The unmarried group has been left behind on the road to choosing and being chosen.

This is the case for most girls. They live a good single life and can have a certain amount of money every year to do what they like. They hope to find a better man to marry, and they are absolutely unwilling.

Their criterion for choosing a man is "a man who has a pattern and can take them fly" in chicken soup, so they can only choose the choice that gets worse and worse year by year over time, otherwise they really miss this marriage.

3.Some unmarried young people have no sense of marriage because of their personal experiences in their early years or the trauma of their original family.

4.I don't want to remarry after a divorce. It is an indisputable fact that the divorce rate of the post-80s generation is high. I have several sisters who have divorced and never remarried. Some people say "I haven't met the right person yet", and some people say "I don't think about remarrying for the time being, calm down".

There are many reasons why people choose to get married, legal, emotional, economic, spiritual, social, personal, physical and psychological needs, etc., and the reasons for choosing not to marry are also different. Everyone has the freedom to choose their own way of life. We should look at the phenomenon of the post-80s generation not getting married with an open and inclusive attitude.

Her (his) happiness is more important than marriage.

Yes, a lot. The reason is that they themselves do not have so much money to buy a house, buy a car and provide a sky-high bride price, and they think that marriage has too many risks, and it is better to live alone.

Yes They are all very homely men. I am very afraid of marriage, I can't find a suitable person, my life is very stressful, I don't want to have a burden, I don't have much money to get married, and I have someone in my heart who can't get it.

Hello friends, now that society is developing rapidly, people are under more pressure, in fact, they are more open now, and young people like to play.

1. The reason for late marriage is because the material conditions for marriage are not mature.

Some people say that most of the post-80s generation has nothing before the age of 30, except for the rich second generation. The housing problem is a major difficulty that history throws at the post-80s generation. When it comes to the housing problem, there is another problem that has to be involved, that is, the difficulty of employment, which is the essence of the problem.

Because the post-80s generation is facing huge employment pressure, many employers have taken advantage of this to significantly reduce their salaries. This situation limits their income level as a whole and limits their purchasing power. The housing problem is, at its very nature, an income issue.

And to get married, it is naturally not a simple matter of getting a certificate, as many money worshippers say, it takes life. Life needs money, money is needed in all aspects, and the material conditions are not mature, how to get married.

2. The reason for late marriage is because the psychological age is unbearable to bear the pressure after marriage.

The post-80s generation can also be said to be a happier generation, because of the only child, they have won the greatest love from their parents. So, on the whole, they are also happier than any generation (naturally excluding the post-90s and post-00s after that). In a sense, not all of this love has a positive effect on them, and love can sometimes restrain a person's independence and weaken a person's ability to bear it.

Therefore, after bathing in the sun of their parents for a long time, they are rarely able to face something and bear something independently all at once. Many post-80s generations have post-marital depression, which is because they did not foresee the pressure they faced in married life, or they overestimated their ability to bear it. Feasting hands.

3. The reason for late marriage is because the work status restricts married life.

As mentioned earlier, with the increase of employment pressure and the increasing competition in the workplace, the working state of the post-80s generation is not only facing low salaries, but also facing huge work pressure. In my research on the work of college graduates, I have learned that there are very few college students who do not work overtime, and few of them have the experience of taking a complete weekend for a period of time, especially in the private sector. According to one of the graduates, they never got off work before 10 o'clock, which was the evening, and they went to work the next morning with their eyes wide open, and every day for several months.

The author was surprised, but through later in-depth understanding, the situation of such college graduates is by no means accidental. Therefore, in this kind of working state, married life is actually in name only, and there is no time for husband and wife to get along at all, how can they be considered husband and wife.

I think, in fact, the hesitation of the post-80s and post-90s for marriage shows that they are under a lot of pressure, and the high cost of marriage makes them dare not get married easily. How can it be counted as early as 80 to 19 years, it is also this scale, it is mixed well, the black yarn hat is not small, and Zen Rolling Qing is also an old fritter in the workplace.

In fact, for those of us born in the 90s, the increase in the cost of marriage makes us very uncomfortable, but I always believe in my lover, the relationship between the husband and wife is solid and solid, we must understand each other, pin the tip of the needle to Maimang, do not give in to each other, even if the quarrel is broken, we have to count the days with our fingers, if we catch up with the mortgage and car loan, the old man is sick and other bulk output, it is enough to drink a pot, the post-90s and the post-80s are ten years apart, naturally not the same day. The post-90s generation is under more pressure, boys are facing disproportionality, the cost of love is surging, and once they touch marriage, they will have to face a large bride price, and the hardware is complete.

For the latter, they are even less concerned about the quality of the marriage, if there is a problem, the first thing they think about is divorce, and the maintenance rate of emotions in marriage is also relatively low, which is reflected in many emotional psychological counseling, the analysis of people who have been divorced or are about to divorce, their common points are all, can not understand the importance of marriage and family. Even, in their eyes, children are not so important. They believe that love can be combined, and they can't realize the self-sacrifice that should be paid behind marriage, whether it is the tide of divorce after the 80s or the sprout of getting rid of the shackles of marriage after the 90s, this should not be a reason for us to neglect marriage.

Marriage is like this, only by slowly experiencing it, can we understand its true meaning.