What should I do to maintain a long lasting marriage?

In fact, I want to tell you about this question, well, the longevity of a marriage depends on what the two of you do, and usually if you enter a marriage, you must have a common hobby or hobby. Well, that's for sure, for example, both people love to travel, both people love to watch movies, etc., etc., these are inevitable, if not, then it will be difficult for your marriage to survive. Uh, how did you go from being a normal friend to a couple until you got married?

Then the most important point is that you have a common hobby, which is the most important thing that keeps you in this marriage, and then the second point is that you should have one child, a long marriage, usually for a while, and one child, or several children. Because if you have children, then you have the goal of taking care of them together.

The third point is that we should tolerate each other, mutual tolerance is easy to say, but it is difficult to do, many couples can't do it, or many married people can't do it, and they will soon get divorced. In fact, it's a pity, in fact, mutual tolerance in real life, is something that many people can't do, if you tolerate each other, then you can tolerate each other's everything, not only tolerate each other, but also tolerate each other's family members, tolerate each other's things, then this must be mutually tolerant. If you tolerate each other, it's actually very difficult to do it, most people can't do it, and if you can't do it, you'll basically get divorced, and that's basically what the eldest sister downstairs said in my house.

In fact, marriage is maintained by two people, if you are desperately maintained, and the other party does not want to maintain, then the marriage has come to an end, there are many examples of this, in fact, this recent marriage has also made many people feel a headache, so marriage is indeed like this.

First of all, we should maintain enough trust in our other half, if you don't trust your other half, it will be difficult to maintain this marriage for a long time. In addition, if you want to maintain a long-term marriage, you also need to communicate more with the other party, only communication can better solve the problem, otherwise it is easy to squeeze the conflict.

Usually you should be more tolerant of each other, help each other more to encounter any problems, two people should solve them together, should not give up, do not give up.

We must pay more attention to the sense of ritual in life, and we must tolerate each other, understand each other, and communicate more.

Give together in the relationship, and then the two of them go to clean the house together, do things together, communicate with each other every day, and give each other personal space.

1.Respect each other: In a marriage, remember to respect each other, maintain a respectful attitude when together, listen to each other's feelings, and respect each other's views to create a good atmosphere.

2.Diligent care: take care of each other more, treat him as a good friend, care more, be more considerate, and express more love, so that both parties can be more compatible.

4.Communicate frequently: Be diligent in communicating and regularly agree to watch movies, cook food, or other activities together, which can make you closer to each other and allow you to communicate more with each other.

Marriage is a compulsory course in life, and now the divorce rate is high, many young people are afraid of getting married, afraid of being hurt emotionally, and more and more people are cautious about the choice of marriage. Do you know why there are fewer couples who are happily married? From a metaphysical point of view, it is caused by the incompatibility of the husband and wife.

So, how can you keep your marriage stable and long-lasting? In fact, when choosing a spouse, marriage through numerology can avoid marital unhappiness at the source.

The eight characters of the husband and wife have the following characteristics:

First, the door is right.

In numerology, the two parties have similar eight-character patterns, and the family background of the husband and wife is similar when they are in love, which is what we call "the right match". Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as one party's family conditions are too superior, the other party will definitely have an inferiority complex, the stronger the inferiority complex, the more unable to tolerate the partner's correction and criticism, even if it is a very kind word, it may touch their fragile inferiority complex, thus becoming the fuse of the couple's quarrel.

Second, the level of education.

In numerology, Xingyao, who represents academics, plays a good role in the opponent's fate, and the two have similar educational levels. The thoughts of people are never the same, let alone unified, so the level of education cannot be too different. For example, one is highly educated, the other is a general education, the two brains will definitely be very different in their way of thinking, if one party is admitting death, then their union must be a daily quarrel and a meal.

3. Ideal goals.

People with the same God in the eight characters have the same ideals in life and a common goal, and husband and wife work together. If one party's ideal is to become a superior person, while the other party is to get by, have no goals, and do not want to pursue a better quality of life, such a couple is destined to have no common words, and the relationship will fade after a long time, and even quarrel because of different ideals.

Fourth, the mode of life.

The husband and wife in the eight characters have complementary attributes of yin and yang, have their own lifestyle, position themselves accurately, know what kind of life mode they want, and can understand and tolerate their spouses. Most of the people who can't complement each other are good-tempered before marriage, and they treat their other half in a way that is obedient and obedient, however, it is difficult to continue this kind of obedient temper after marriage.

Whether the husband and wife can hold hands for life, whether the relationship is strong, whether the relationship is close, whether the fate is deep, whether they can get along harmoniously for a long time, etc., depends on the fate of the husband and wife.

Marriage does not need to be maintained, and if it is maintained, then both parties will be very tired.

In married life, with the change of the environment we live in and the people we come into contact with, everyone's insight and cognition will change after a long time.

When we decided to marry this man at the age of 27, we fell in love with his talent, his appearance, his joy with you, and his .........dedication to youI feel that the men in the world are not as good as him in your eyes. After getting married, we will not only grow in age but also experience and insight, we will come into contact with men who are more talented, more handsome, more sweet-talking, and more attentive than him......And back then, the man who wanted to hold the hand of his son and grow old with his son, after entering the state of marriage, under various pressures, he lost his handsome face, no intentions, and no ...... freshnessThere will be boredom in the state of marriage, and more often we have to know that we don't forget our original intention, think about why we wanted to be with him without hesitation, and all problems will not be a problem.

I hope that in the days when you continue to work hard and improve, we can all meet people who are better than each other but still choose to be with each other.

In order to maintain a marriage, it means that both parties in married life are willing to make their own efforts for the family. Support and help each other.

It requires people on both sides to make continuous efforts, to be able to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, and at the same time, it is also necessary to prepare some surprises for the other party, maintain a sense of freshness, and understand the other party's efforts.

Because marriage is a matter for two people, so for a marriage for oneself, the husband and wife must respect each other, often think about each other, not be too selfish, and know how to feel sorry for others, so that the marriage can be maintained.

Husband and wife should tolerate each other, understand, trust, know how to respect each other, accommodate each other, should not be too self-conscious, should stand in each other's position to consider the problem, so as to effectively maintain a marriage.

The first thing we have to do is loyalty. Don't betray your marriage. The second is to continue to work hard to lay a good economic and material foundation for marriage, and finally to love yourself all the time. Wife or husband.