What does it take to maintain a long lasting marriage?

The secret to a successful marriage: Respect each other's differences. Be considerate, understanding, and tolerant of each other.

Men and women are from different planets, men are rational and women are emotional.

It is ridiculous to wish that two people have the same thoughts, the same opinions, and the same desires, and this kind of thing is impossible and unpopular. To adapt, not to transform your spouse.

Many romantic dreams were shattered! More than 50 are unhappy in marriage. One reason: useless, yet heartbreaking criticism. To maintain a happy family life, remember: don't criticize.

Communication between couples is important! Find a communication style that works for both of you; Communicate openly and straightforwardly; Remember, if emotions arise, stop and avoid harm.

The most important thing to get along with your spouse, children, friends or colleagues is to learn to listen, which requires a lot of maturity. Listening means patience, openness, and sincerity in wanting to understand the other person, which are mature personalities. On the other hand, it is much easier to talk to oneself and disrespect others.

And mutual loyalty and trust are at the very least.

Satisfaction to score. Don't ask if you're not satisfied.

Love! The God who instituted marriage.

It's going to be two people working together.

1.Respect each other: In a marriage, remember to respect each other, maintain a respectful attitude when together, listen to each other's feelings, and respect each other's views to create a good atmosphere.

2.Diligent care: take care of each other more, treat him as a good friend, care more, be more considerate, and express more love, so that both parties can be more compatible.

4.Communicate frequently: Be diligent in communicating and regularly agree to watch movies, cook food, or other activities together, which can make you closer to each other and allow you to communicate more with each other.

Marriage is a compulsory course in life, and now the divorce rate is high, many young people are afraid of getting married, afraid of being hurt emotionally, and more and more people are cautious about the choice of marriage. Do you know why there are fewer couples who are happily married? From a metaphysical point of view, it is caused by the incompatibility of the husband and wife.

So, how can you keep your marriage stable and long-lasting? In fact, when choosing a spouse, marriage through numerology can avoid marital unhappiness at the source.

The eight characters of the husband and wife have the following characteristics:

First, the door is right.

In numerology, the two parties have similar eight-character patterns, and the family background of the husband and wife is similar when they are in love, which is what we call "the right match". Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as one party's family conditions are too superior, the other party will definitely have an inferiority complex, the stronger the inferiority complex, the more unable to tolerate the partner's correction and criticism, even if it is a very kind word, it may touch their fragile inferiority complex, thus becoming the fuse of the couple's quarrel.

Second, the level of education.

In numerology, Xingyao, who represents academics, plays a good role in the opponent's fate, and the two have similar educational levels. The thoughts of people are never the same, let alone unified, so the level of education cannot be too different. For example, one is highly educated, the other is a general education, the two brains will definitely be very different in their way of thinking, if one party is admitting death, then their union must be a daily quarrel and a meal.

3. Ideal goals.

People with the same God in the eight characters have the same ideals in life and a common goal, and husband and wife work together. If one party's ideal is to become a superior person, while the other party is to get by, have no goals, and do not want to pursue a better quality of life, such a couple is destined to have no common words, and the relationship will fade after a long time, and even quarrel because of different ideals.

Fourth, the mode of life.

The husband and wife in the eight characters have complementary attributes of yin and yang, have their own lifestyle, position themselves accurately, know what kind of life mode they want, and can understand and tolerate their spouses. Most of the people who can't complement each other are good-tempered before marriage, and they treat their other half in a way that is obedient and obedient, however, it is difficult to continue this kind of obedient temper after marriage.

Whether the husband and wife can hold hands for life, whether the relationship is strong, whether the relationship is close, whether the fate is deep, whether they can get along harmoniously for a long time, etc., depends on the fate of the husband and wife.

Marriage does not need to be maintained, and if it is maintained, then both parties will be very tired.

In married life, with the change of the environment we live in and the people we come into contact with, everyone's insight and cognition will change after a long time.

When we decided to marry this man at the age of 27, we fell in love with his talent, his appearance, his joy with you, and his .........dedication to youI feel that the men in the world are not as good as him in your eyes. After getting married, we will not only grow in age but also experience and insight, we will come into contact with men who are more talented, more handsome, more sweet-talking, and more attentive than him......And back then, the man who wanted to hold the hand of his son and grow old with his son, after entering the state of marriage, under various pressures, he lost his handsome face, no intentions, and no ...... freshnessThere will be boredom in the state of marriage, and more often we have to know that we don't forget our original intention, think about why we wanted to be with him without hesitation, and all problems will not be a problem.

I hope that in the days when you continue to work hard and improve, we can all meet people who are better than each other but still choose to be with each other.

To maintain a happy marriage, you need to pay attention to the following aspects:

1.Mutual attention and support. Both parties should pay attention to each other's inner feelings, communicate in a timely manner, and give positive support and encouragement to build an emotional foundation of mutual trust, understanding and support.

2.Learn to be tolerant of change and tolerance. It is inevitable that there will be various differences and contradictions in marriage, so both parties should learn to be tolerant and tolerant, understand and be considerate of each other, and share each other's experiences and lessons to reduce conflicts and frictions in marriage and create a harmonious and harmonious family atmosphere.

3.Maintain healthy communication. Good communication is the key to a successful marriage.

Both parties should communicate frequently, discuss their expectations and needs, make family plans and decisions together, and explore each other's common interests and values to maintain a good communication channel in the marriage.

4.Economic independence and equality. Both parties in a marriage should be treated equally, share family responsibilities and obligations, and should remain financially independent.

This can reduce financial pressure and possible conflicts, and at the same time, it can also allow both parties to build a happy marriage on the basis of self-realization and growth.

5.Adjust your mindset and expectations in a timely manner. There will inevitably be ups and downs and changes in marriage, and both parties should learn to adjust their mindset and expectations in a timely manner, maintain a positive attitude and be optimistic about themselves and others, so as to achieve long-term stability and happiness in the marriage.

Tips and solutions include:

1.Appointments are held frequently. Holding frequent dates can increase the interaction and emotional exchange between the two parties, create a romantic atmosphere in the family, and enhance the relationship between the couple.

2.Express love often. Expressing love and affection for your partner through words and actions can increase the intimacy and emotional connection between the two partners and enhance the stability of the marriage.

3.Learn communication skills. Learning effective communication skills and expressions can avoid conflicts and contradictions caused by poor communication.

4.Participate in household chores together. Both parties should be involved in household chores, share family responsibilities, and make each other feel respected and valued.

5.Learn to respect each other's personalities and hobbies. Respecting each other's personality and hobbies, and giving each other enough freedom and opportunities for personal development, can enhance understanding and respect between both parties and create a harmonious family atmosphere.

Two people have been together for a long time, feel that they understand each other, and slowly reduce the time they spend on each other, many times, they feel that it is a trivial matter, not to, but life is composed of some small things, which determines the direction of your emotional life in the future. Maybe the other person will love you more because of remorse. Some people will say that these are flashy things, they are all formalism, and they are not interesting, but it is undeniable that it is these formalisms that will enrich life, and your love will not become rough in the ordinary.

The significance of ritual for life is that it can arouse our inner respect for life, so to respect life, love life, ritual sense in love can not be missing, this is not only a strong preservative of love, but also the secret of long-term love, some people ask what is the sense of ritual, that is, you invest in the daily feelings of the mind, spirit and positive embodiment of the shape of the number of things, some things in life that are easy to forget, the sense of ritual will help us remember.

Give each other a hug before going out every day, and encourage each other, although the outside world is difficult and unkind, but two people warm each other, it is extraordinarily warm, and prepare a gift for each other on your birthday, it does not need to be too expensive, but this is your expression of emotion to each other, it is a deep love. Cook a dinner together, enjoy it, hug each other and sit down to watch a movie after the meal, the sense of ritual needed in life is precisely the little things that we inadvertently ignore can be reflected.

A delicate breakfast can evoke the spirit of the day, love, is the sense of ritual in the plain, coarse tea and light rice also have people to create surprises for you, instead of forgetting love in the ups and downs of life. The so-called sense of ritual in ordinary life, even if you are busy, you have to do something solemnly, even if you just eat a spicy hot, you have to use a delicate bowl, and after eating, you have to look at each other with a satisfied smile.

Yes, in addition to forbearance and change, He Zao has many things to do.

The way of getting along with husband and wife is something that both men and women must learn, so as to make their marriage longer, and learn more skills for husband and wife, these skills can make husband and wife get along more happily and make the relationship between husband and wife longer.

So, how can couples get along to make their marriage last longer?

1. Husband and wife should communicate more.

If both husband and wife want to be long-term, it is important to communicate more, many couples quarrel because of poor communication, and communication causes less communication. As long as couples communicate more, there will be no unnecessary misunderstandings. Family matters should be decided after discussion, whether it's breakfast or bedtime at night, it's a good time to talk about things.

Don't keep the problem in your heart, and speak up for your own benefit and your family.

2. Husband and wife tolerate and trust each other.

Learn to tolerate and trust the other person, not because the other person came home late, and don't doubt because the other person didn't show you your phone. Whether or not you accept the other person's trust, the other person will decide the time of marriage, maybe the other person has some bad habits that you can't stand, but you should help each other to correct them, don't always blame.

3. Pay attention to the way you speak.

When many people are talking or arguing, when they are excited, they often don't know that they will cause harm to each other, so there is a lot of dissatisfaction between two people, even if the couple is very close, but pay attention when talking, don't be excited for a moment, and say something to attack and hurt each other.

Fourth, actively correct mistakes.

One of the things that couples need to know when they get along with each other is to correct their mistakes in time, because the other person is their own family, and there is no shame in admitting their mistakes in front of their family. Don't stick to it after knowing your mistakes, which is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, the other person should not pursue it after apologizing to himself, knowing that appropriate forgiveness will deepen the relationship.

5. Remember some important anniversaries.

Women will remember memorable days, while men may forget, which can be noted down in mobile phone memos. Prepare a small gift for each other every anniversary, don't be too valuable, just be attentive.

6. Cultivate common hobbies between husband and wife.

If couples have common hobbies, there is an opportunity to discuss them with each other. Couples should not always talk about some big topics, such as houses and children, etc., but discover some common points and have a little common hobbies, which can bring each other closer.

7. Give each other independent space Everyone has their own friends, although they are husband and wife, there is no need to completely occupy each other's lives, give each other some personal space, which is more conducive to improving the relationship between husband and wife.

Keep the freshness of the two people, communicate more in case of trouble, when one party is frank and angry, the other party avoids it first, and then communicates well afterwards.

To maintain a long-lasting marriage, two people need to work hard for each other, respect each other, be willing to give everything they are careful with, and get the other party's recognition to ensure the continuation of the relationship.