After the divorce, can I still associate with the other party s relatives?

Updated on society 2024-08-13
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    This does not affect the relationship with the relatives of the other party, because the divorce is the difference in values between the two people, the subject is the two parties, and they have no relationship with other people, and do not involve other people.

    If you have been getting along well with your ex's family, I think you can still get along, after all, you have been together for more than ten years, although the marriage relationship has collapsed, but one night husband and wife for a hundred days, love is not in the family, and it is impossible to really get along with each other, not to mention that there are children in the middle.

    On the contrary, if the relationship has been bad, and there are often bumps and bumps in the process of getting along, and Mars hits the earth, then in this case, it is better not to get along, after all, they have been separated, and there is no reason and meaning to come and go.

    As for the past grievances and grievances, let it go with the wind, after all, live in hatred, you will not be happy, you must learn to let go, and you can reduce a lot of troubles if you don't come and go.

    Nowadays, there is a "cooling-off period" for divorce, the purpose is to avoid "impulsive divorce" between husband and wife, after all, this situation is not uncommon.

    If it is an impulsive divorce because of a trivial matter, both parties regret the act afterwards, the relationship has not broken down, and there are children, then in this case, it is necessary to continue to interact with the ex's family, because in the future may remarry and become a family again, which is also the result we are most willing to see, and it is also a great good thing for the children.

    If the other party betrays the family and causes significant harm to the other party, this situation should also be treated as appropriate, and if the other party's family has a deep relationship, you can choose to have sex, but you must break off with your ex cleanly, remember not to pull and pull again, you should start your own new life, and be responsible for your own life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It depends on the individual's actual situation.

    Although it is said that a relationship is over, it does not mean that all relationships are over. This doesn't mean that you have to deal with all the other person's relatives, you can have friends with those you think are friends!

    For example, if you and one of the other party's cousins became good friends during marriage, then of course you can continue to get along as friends after the divorce, and I believe the other party also understands you.

    Personally, I think that as long as people are sincere and have no special purpose, then it is okay to get along with each other, no matter what the circumstances. Even if you were relatives because of the marriage, then when the marriage is gone, there is nothing wrong with interacting with another body.

    Of course, it is understandable that there are also people who break off all relationships with each other after they get divorced, as if they want to completely break off everything in the past.

    Whether you don't go back and forth or not depends on what you think in your heart. If it were me, I would be able to be a friend as usual, and if I couldn't be a friend, I would just look at people with other eyes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    After the divorce, it is possible to associate with the relatives of the other party.

    Because, human feelings are not just onlyLove,And camaraderie, and friendship.

    After many years of marriage with the other party, he is closer to his family and relatives than outsiders, and even gets along very well, treating them as relatives.

    Who can be ruthless and raise a small animal and treat it as a part of the family, let alone people!

    Feel free to get along with them, but when getting along, you should pay attention to proportion, and don't give people a sense of frivolity and shallowness. Don't stick a cold fart on your hot face and give people the feeling of stuttering.

    In short, don't forget that you are no longer a family, and protect yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    First, divorced couples can maintain a friend relationship, which is an ideal state for divorced couples with children. The impact of divorce on the child can be reduced, and the child can feel that although the parents are divorced, he does not need to make a choice between the parents, and he can still get the love and relationship from both parents, and he can also reach an agreement on the education of the child. It will also be more beneficial and effective for the discipline of the child.

    Second, for divorced couples, in fact, for the couple's circle of friends, common property, and former emotional investment, this friendly way of getting along also has certain benefits. At least when faced with these problems, the two sides can negotiate and even agree to solve them. There is no need to go out of your way and hurt others, but also yourself.

    Many divorced couples have a lot of trouble, which eventually causes huge divorce trauma and makes it difficult to start happiness again.

    Third, there is a need to maintain certain boundaries. Divorced couples, each forming a new family, if they still get along like a family, and the new spouse has an opinion about this, causing disharmony in the new family, this requires efforts and adjustments. Avoid new suspicion and distrust, and at the same time, deal with the relationship between divorced couples, so as to facilitate the handling of some remaining problems of husband and wife, as well as the issue of child support.

    You can't ignore the feelings of your new spouse and insist on going your own way, and you can't decisively live together and hurt the original harmony. This requires divorced couples to maintain a clear boundary, not to be ambiguous, and to respect each other.

    Fourth, if the divorced couple still has feelings for each other, it is just some reason to get along in this way. Then both parties need to analyze these reasons and solve them, and if the conditions are ripe, they can consider remarriage. It should not be ambiguous, when the time comes, one party still thinks that there is a possibility of remarriage, and the other party goes to find someone else, resulting in a discordant relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, divorce is mainly a matter for couples.

    Is it necessary for couples to contact each other after divorce?

    A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together.

    In this life, it takes a deep fate to be able to become a husband and wife.

    When it comes to divorce, most of the time it is a last resort.

    Finally liberated and free again. "But who can guarantee that there will really be no contact for the rest of your life?

    Feelings are exhausted, and old age and death do not get along.

    Long pain is not as good as short pain, one-time breaking, on the surface it looks cruel, but once the wound is scabbed, never touch it again, but it is easier for people to forget.

    In this life, it seems that two lives have passed, and the things before the divorce are all from the previous life.

    There is nothing to say to each other, but because they have children, they will still be in touch.

    After the divorce, they went their separate ways and became passers-by again. But is reality really that easy? How many past events will become a hurdle in future life that cannot be bypassed, and no one can say clearly.

    After the divorce of the husband and wife, it doesn't matter if they are in contact or not.

    People who have truly loved, even if they are divorced, will still regard each other as their relatives and worry from time to time.

    If you still keep in touch, it will always give people a feeling of breaking the thread, if one party is unwilling, but the other party has already made up their minds, and the person who wants to continue the front edge will only add trouble to himself.

    Therefore, not bothering and not contacting is to let the other party live and give yourself a new starting point. Although it is not possible to achieve "happiness in all lives" in the short term, giving yourself a completely and thorough window period is also a kind of self-summary and self-reflection.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Most divorces are due to emotional disharmony, or economic impact, which will lead to the separation of husband and wife. Therefore, I personally think that whenever there is a divorce, the husband and wife will change from the pillow person to the most familiar stranger. If you have no regrets after a divorce, and you don't have the idea of remarrying, I don't think you have to deal with your ex-wife's family!

    After all, you are divorced and have had irreconcilable conflicts and contradictions.

    This must have hurt your ex-wife's family as well, and they may not hate you! After all, their daughter followed you and eventually divorced and became a second-married daughter, do you think that ex-wife's family will still treat you as before?! Of course, if your divorce was not initiated by you, and you gave all your property to your ex-wife after the divorce, and your actions made your ex-wife's family look up to you, then they may have intended to associate with you.

    In fact, when you ask this question, I personally think you should be realistic! I always feel that you are asking such a question, as if you have not figured out what divorce is?! It seems that I don't know that after the divorce, you will go your own way, you will take your sunny road, and your ex-wife will also take her own single-plank bridge, and from then on you will be like parallel lines, maybe there will be an intersection, but it is obviously not now.

    Divorce does have remarriage, but in my consciousness, since it can get to the step of divorce, after remarriage, we can't trust each other and love each other 100%.

    Therefore, you have to think about it, you have to think about it, and your words reveal that you want to remarry. So if you have this idea, you should go to the heart of your ex-wife's family as soon as possible, and go back to your ex-wife as soon as possible.

    Maybe you think that after the divorce, you have to deal with your ex-wife's family, but they may not think the same way as you, maybe they don't know how to face you, and even avoid you, how do you feel when the time comes?!

    After the divorce, you can still interact with your ex-wife's family, but it's a two-way street!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After a divorce, it is best not to associate with the other party's relatives. Because of how much rendezvous. The other party has some relationship. Tell me something about the past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can still get back and forth, because you are divorced, and the other party's relatives are familiar strangers with you, and the relationship is dissolved with the end of your marriage. If you feel like you can be friends, you don't have to treat them as strangers. Don't be nervous, relax.

    If you have any questions, you can also discuss them with your parents and relatives.

    After divorce, most of the in-laws are estranged with the breakdown of the family, so that the woman no longer has contact with the original in-laws, and the man and the original parents-in-law. Moreover, as the husband and wife part ways, the children are often estranged from one of the parties (or the mother, or the father), and some couples even infect the next generation with the incomprehensible "injustice" between them after the divorce, and do not hesitate to belittle or slander each other in front of the children.

    Since husband and wife can't get together, it's better to separate, and in the future, they can still treat the relationship after divorce like comrades and friends. In their view, as a result of the divorce, the subsequent kinship of the family was indeed legally dissolved, in whole or in part. However, the affection that has been cultivated between relatives over the years has not been severed by this.

    We believe that such an attitude is desirable. For example, there is a family that is good friends before their children get married.

    The children intermarried, and later divorced, and these complicated emotional changes between the children did not affect the two old men, and they are still friends. When they have the opportunity, they still visit, chat, and talk to each other as in the past, and the "son-in-law" respects the old "father-in-law" as always.

    This attitude is normal, reasonable, and has been praised by the people. It should also be noted that if the husband and wife already have children before the divorce, then it should be noted that the dissolution of the relationship between husband and wife does not mean the dissolution of the relationship between mother and child and father and son, and the relationship between mother and child and father and son between the children and the divorced parents still exists, and the relatives of both parents are still blood relatives.

    Therefore, neither party should restrict the child's association with the other or their relatives.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I personally think that for the husband and wife, if they choose to divorce, they can still communicate with each other's relatives, although the fate of the husband and wife has been exhausted and can no longer become lovers, but there is no need to become enemies, old and dead do not get along, especially with each other's relatives, there has been a certain amount of contact and interaction before, so there is no need to completely cut off contact with each other's previous relatives because of the breakdown of the marriage of two people, which is obviously an immature and unwise approach.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have always been kind to each other. It was good to get along with. That after the divorce. You can and each other. If you have not been very close to each other's relatives before, do not associate with each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Do relatives need to be courteous when living with their parents after a divorce?

    Dear, this may need to be based on your financial ability and the distance of your relatives.

    If your economic conditions are not very good, you can participate with your parents, which is equivalent to a family, and you can have a gift with your father. Of course, if your economic conditions are better, there is no need to talk about the hall of the hall.

    Also, when you get married, do the other party's relatives have a gift, if there is a gift, you can also buy some pure fruits, milk and the like, which is equivalent to paying tribute to relatives and elders in the state of birds. This also avoids being unsightly.

    Close relatives and elders, or give a certain sustenance from the etiquette, so that if you don't fight the rock, you will think you are stingy. If the other party is a divination shirt for someone in the family who is married or something, it is also possible to follow the parents with a ceremony.

    If you really feel that you are afraid of being ugly, it is also an option not to participate.

    These are all human contacts, come and go, don't get too entangled.

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