When was the most painful life you ve ever experienced?

The most painful time was when I graduated from college at the age of 27 and worked for four years to rent a dilapidated house for 100 yuan, but the salary was more than 400 yuan. Ride a second-hand bicycle to school every day. In April every year, I am both out of love and unemployed.

Then he was ridiculed and ostracized by his colleagues, and he began to think about how to commit suicide when he didn't want to live. As a result, I couldn't make up my mind even after trying everything. In the end, I took sleeping pills but was rescued.

Then he took sleeping pills and committed suicide with gas. In the end, he was rescued. Since I don't want to die anymore after two times.

But I'm in poor health right now. I couldn't stand it, I ended up living and being depressed every day, and now I'm having bipolar disorder.

The hardest life should be the period after giving birth after marriage, and I feel that I have a little postpartum depression because of giving birth! Because I suddenly became a mother at a young age, it wasn't a change in your role, the month after giving birth to a child and confinement, it was really easy to have an emotional breakdown, in a word, an expression can make me very sensitive, and I felt really bad during that time!

At the hardest time, I had no money and no job, I was sick and was dumped by someone, and I suddenly found that I was past the age of willfulness. So I posted my resume on the Internet, and all kinds of stones sank into the sea. I was so depressed that I couldn't see the kitchen knife, because as soon as I looked at it, I felt the urge to pick it up and cut my wrists.

Shortly after graduation, I broke away from the protection of my parents, rushed out of society at once, and felt the pressure from all sides, food, clothing, housing and transportation, which were carried by my parents for us in the past. In other words, we have a good life, and there will definitely be people who carry some responsibilities for us in the corners we don't know. When I first came out of society, there were many, many words, and my words and deeds felt out of place with my former self, but now I have to learn.

I still hate myself a little in my heart.

To be realistic, there is no money, no money, your family looks down on you, you can't raise your head outside, you are inferior to others in your hard work, you are counted down by your family at home, saying that you have no ability, no ability, you are looked down upon outside, your life is tight, you don't dare to buy anything, you have to look at the face of others, anyone who has money will come to slap you, you have status, dignity, your family will be centered on you, and what you say is wrong is right. No money, what you say is right and wrong, no one will listen to you.

I remember when I first went to work, my salary was small, and because my hometown was in the countryside, my family had no income. There are also two younger sisters in the family who go to school. Every month will be green!

Sometimes in order to save 1 yuan on the car, they will walk for 40 minutes. 1 yuan and 5 steamed buns will be eaten for two or three days. Although the days were tight, I look back on it now.

In life, the most painful thing is to lose a confidant, the most painful thing is not to do a career, if there is a time back, I will take a good grasp of it, to prevent misunderstandings, to prevent people with ulterior motives from obstructing it, to continue the good friendship and friendship, until the eternity, the career is also to seize the opportunity, do not miss the opportunity, make the career bigger, stronger.

I went out to work during the summer vacation, but I was pressed by my boss and was not allowed to leave. In the end, it took a long time to get a part of the salary. After deducting the cost of travel and living expenses, there is basically no money left.

Not to mention the hardships involved in asking for wages from the boss, personnel and finance have been playing ball, and finally crying poor with the boss reluctantly asked for some of it back.

The most difficult time is not to be poor, but to be poor when I don't know where the way out is, the biggest gap between people and people is not the amount of money, but the length of knowledge, this is from the mouth of Wu Jun, I think it makes too much sense.

The family urged marriage, forced to go on a blind date, and was arranged to go. Even if you like other people's appearance, you won't lose yourself, because if you get married, you will get married, and if you want to get married, you will need money, but ......

When you live like this every day, you get used to it.

Summary. The hardest experience is the painful experience of life. It can be caused by the loss of a loved one, an unsatisfactory event, a depressed mood or excessive stress, and the pain is indescribable, and the key to surviving it is not to give up.

The best way to solve pain is to take effective coping measures, regulate psychological emotions, cultivate correct adaptability, and find appropriate shortcuts to alleviate: first, respect yourself, know how to be self-tolerant, and allow yourself to have moments of low mood; the second is to control emotions, learn to control your emotions, and identify the content of this part; The third is to regulate daily life, such as maintaining healthy eating habits and arranging regular rest and activities every day; Fourth, take the initiative to seek support and help, find and choose safe people to confide in; Fifth, actively participate in hobbies and careers, actively participate in exercise, focus on meaningful things, change their thinking routes, and obtain spiritual satisfaction; Sixth, adhere to integrity, constantly think about their own values and values, and let themselves have the tolerance of the earth; Seventh, pay attention to protecting yourself, choose the appropriate anti-stress method according to your own situation, actively face challenges, and put yourself in a safe space to protect yourself. Through these methods, learn to better cope with the pain in life, learn the principles of acceptance and tolerance, resist the pain effectively, survive the hardest moments, regain hope, and realize your dreams and ideals.

The hardest experience is the painful experience of life. It can be due to the loss of a loved one, an unsatisfactory event, a depressed mood or excessive stress, etc., the pain is indescribable, and the key to surviving it is not to give up. The best way to deal with pain is to take effective coping measures, regulate psychological emotions, develop the right ability to adapt, and find appropriate shortcuts to relief:

One is to respect yourself, know how to be self-tolerant, and allow yourself to have moments of low mood; the second is to control emotions, learn to control your emotions, and identify the content of this part; The third is to regulate daily life, such as maintaining healthy eating habits and arranging regular rest and activities every day; Fourth, take the initiative to seek support and help, find and choose safe people to confide in; Fifth, actively participate in hobbies and careers, actively participate in exercises, instruct my brother to focus on meaningful things, change his thinking route, and obtain spiritual satisfaction; Sixth, adhere to integrity, constantly think about their own values and values, and let themselves have the tolerance of the earth; Seventh, pay attention to protecting yourself, choose the appropriate anti-stress method according to your own situation, actively face challenges, and put yourself in a safe space to protect yourself. Through these methods, students will learn to better cope with the pain in life, learn the principles of acceptance and tolerance, effectively resist the pain, survive the hardest moments, regain hope, and realize their dreams and ideals.

In fact, when you really come out, you will find that there is actually nothing that cannot be imitated, these exercises make us also learn a lot of things, see a lot of people and things, and hope that we can face all the <> positively

What awaits us in the sky will be a beautiful day<>

Hello, people will inevitably have frustrations, and if you want to survive the hardest days of your life, you rely on the faith and strong perseverance in your heart. In fact, many of us are poor people, they have tried their best for life, and it is inevitable that they will encounter a low point in life, such as career setbacks or unsatisfactory life, etc., everyone will encounter their most uncomfortable and helpless time, at this time, they can only rely on themselves to be able to come out, don't think about meeting noble people like TV series, in fact, the chance of us ordinary people meeting noble people is too small, so in the most difficult time in life, we must have the heart to persist in struggle and strong perseverance, That's the only way we can get out. Therefore, when people are inevitably disappointed, in the most difficult days of life, if you want to survive, you rely on your perseverance.

When I first graduated, my family was urging me to go back, but I wanted to stay in the big city and develop, but as an only child, I couldn't be too far away from my parents.

Wandering between sticking to my dream and going back to accompany my parents, watching others settle down on their own work, only I was still confused, often waking up in the middle of the night, and I began to have insomnia every day more than a month before graduation.

The days when I filled in the volunteer after the college entrance examination.

For fear of making a wrong step, for fear of losing the election, I feel that all the trembling in the first 19 years was spent in this time.

Insomnia all day long, no one came to ask me, no one cared about me, there was a feeling of being abandoned by the world.

I think it was when I graduated from a university campus and had to face the society on my own. When I was a student, all I saw was kind and beautiful, but the years were not quiet, but there were parents who were carrying the weight for you. When you come into contact with society, you will find that adults have to face too much pressure, and they will have to pay monthly rent, living expenses, and sophistication expenses.

The hardest time is when you just graduate and have no savings, but you have to face a lot of expenses.

The hardest thing in my life is the death of my mother-in-law, my father-in-law is in a mess every day, and my husband? I can't accept this fact at all, he is the kind of mother level, we still have children, I feel that the whole family is about to be paralyzed, and it took a whole year for my husband to go out to work.

I think the hardest days should be those times when we broke up, because two people love each other and have experienced some good things. A relationship is not something that can be let go, it often takes a lot of time to forget about someone. You have to get used to it slowly, what life is like without this person, habits, without his company, without his comfort, without everything from him.

will endure the pain of a breakup and the grief of lovesickness.

At that time, I had just stepped out of the school gate, and everything was so difficult for me when I first stepped out of the school gate. At that time, I still had foreign debts, and I was desperate to find a job every day for more than a month. Because I didn't want to rely on my parents, I checked the recruitment information on the Internet every day, and at that time, my parents asked me if I still had money to eat, and I said I didn't have to worry.

Actually, at that time, I just ate one meal a day.

At that time, the landlord chased me for rent every day, and I felt that my life was meaningless, and I was a complete failure. I cheer myself up every day and motivate myself with one sentence: If you don't die, you will come out in the end!

Therefore, the difficult days will pass, and I believe that I can.

I've been sick for a long time, but I can't see it if it's just a minor illness! When you find that no one can help you, doctors only make money! Finally getting more and more serious!

I thought something was wrong! See a doctor often! In the end, it went back and forth, like I just had a stomach bug!

At first it was just stomach acid! It's just that the village can't come up! Sour for a month!

It's often just taking medicine! I found that the gods couldn't save me!

The hardest days in life are the days when waiting for fate to be pronounced, maybe the result is not so difficult to accept, but the waiting process is really difficult.

For example, if you are waiting for the last train that will take you home, but you have been waiting there for a long time and not coming, the taste of waiting is the hardest, this kind of waiting will stretch out for a long second, and there is a feeling of living like a year.

I'll talk about one of the things that used to be the most difficult for me, this has to start with me riding my beloved small motorcycle that day, the weather is sunny and I want to go out for a turn, so I rode my beloved small motorcycle on the road, there was no traffic jam along the way, when I was about to get out of the community, I didn't wait and see the road conditions and rushed out all of a sudden, and the result was a close contact with a silver van going straight ahead, electric donkey's vs Changhe bread, the result can be imagined, I lost, and lost very badly.

At that time, I only heard a crisp click, my small electric car was killed on the spot, and I relied on my young physical fitness, flew out seven or eight meters away and lay motionless in the grass, only to feel that the world was spinning, my head was confused, when I gradually woke up, I found that my right leg seemed to be unable to move, originally I thought that God was going to take me away, let me roll in the ghost gate, and even fantasized about whether I would go through the things I experienced in my life like a slideshow in my head, but it didn't, As I continued to wake up, I felt a sharp pain in my legs.

Later, 120 came as scheduled, I lay in the hospital for a long time, the diagnosis came out, my leg was broken, there are two **schemes, one is conservative**, the other is surgery**, but both have certain risks, there is a possibility of sequelae, walking is not very neat, at that time I heard that this is going to be lame, because I am afraid of going to the operating table, so I chose to be conservative**, this ** is half a year, you don't know how I live like a year in this half a year, I wait for a result, I was looking forward to the day when I would be able to walk like a normal person, and it was a long and painful wait.

Are you waiting for the ending?

I got better, I could trot and jump.