How does a day in the life of a left behind woman in a rural area be spent?

When I was a child, I saw a left-behind woman in my grandmother's house, I called her aunt, I got up every morning and saw her, her hair was draped, she should not have come and combed up, riding a bicycle quickly, with the children who went to school behind, the children were crying in the back, maybe they hadn't woken up yet, her mother was riding a bicycle and shouted at her child, crying again, don't go to school, the child was obedient and didn't dare to speak, so there was no trace of a smoke, leaving a trace of nervousness in the air. It's almost noon, grandma led me to this aunt's house to play, grandma told her to hear someone agree, I also wondered, what is the **? After a while, grandma saw her aunt in the pigsty, she was a woman, wearing a clip, wrapping herself tightly, around a flower turban, wearing rain pants, wearing rain boots on her feet, throwing the dung out one by one, sweating on her head, let's go down, grandma said distressedly, it's really hard for a woman to stay at home, and my aunt smiled bitterly and said that I was not used to it.

Such simple rural women, now that their lives are better, those men do a lot less work, that is, they go to the fields to take care of the house, cook and wash clothes every day, and take care of the elderly. There was time for a few women at home, gathered under the big locust tree in the east of the village to chat, what when did your family come back, what did you buy for me, whose man made a lot of money, they chattered and laughed, the birds in the tree were alarmed, and it was a picture of a better life.

Get up early to cook, call the baby to get up and wash, eat, send the baby to school, hurry up at noon to wash clothes, clean up the house, cook, pick up the baby, send the baby to school in the afternoon, come back to clean up the house, buy and buy daily necessities, pick up the baby.

Cook and eat at night, check homework, wash the children, sleep, the end of the day, the cycle repeats, every day is the same, almost the same, except holidays, weeks.

I am a new rural left-behind woman, because I want to give my children more company, now I resign to take the children, the children are on the line at seven o'clock in the morning, the weather is cold and need to quickly dress the children, fortunately, my mother-in-law has made breakfast, my mother-in-law has already eaten breakfast and waited for the two of us, because my nephew goes to school, they eat early, my mother-in-law helps me feed the children, watch the children, I wash my clothes after breakfast, it has been raining for several days, and I have saved clothes for a few days. Clean up the house again, it looks more comfortable, and no one can do it, so clean it up.

Rural left-behind women live in beautiful places, their lives are monotonous and full of hope for the future, in order to let their husbands work outside, they undertake a lot of men's work, such as raising circles, cutting pigweed, etc., taking care of the elderly, taking care of children going to school, every day is busy and fulfilling.

Get up in the morning to cook and send the children to school, then clean up the housework, pick up the children from school at noon, and also in the afternoon, anyway, all the time of the day is dominated by the children, and when the children are not at home, they do some farm work at home, and every day is very fulfilling.

I myself am a left-behind woman, serving the elderly and children at home every day, as well as farm work in the field, and miscellaneous work at home.

I work as a farmer, and my neighbor is a left-behind woman who goes to her house every other day.

In fact, the bigger problem is the relationship with my husband. Because of the long-term separation between the two places, it will definitely affect the relationship between the husband and wife, and it is very likely that they will face divorce.

Without the corresponding labor, you can't get the corresponding income, you can't take good care of your children, you don't have the corresponding funds, your life is very boring, and you don't have any work.

No ability to work, no work experience, no social integration, no labor force, no job opportunities, no income.

The daily life of the left-behind women is not easy, usually taking care of the children at home, but also serving the elderly, and it is very hard to cook on the fire every day.

Those left-behind women will be busy with the daily life of the family and take care of the children, so they are also very hard, and they have not been able to see their husbands for many years, and their husbands work outside the home all year round for the sake of the good life of the family.

Rural women have to take care of the elderly and children, do household hygiene, they have a very hard life, a woman has to take care of the children and do so much housework.