What should I do if I don t confess when I meet someone I like?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I feel that if I don't confess all the time, I may not be good enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Then you will lose, and I am a lesson from the past.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    That's if you don't like him enough, then wait and see her with someone else, and then it's too late for you to regret it. Why don't you confess, you are brave, maybe she likes you too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hint that he will come and confess to me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't always have the courage to confess, then you can only go on alone. It's okay to be brave, and if you can't confess, you can still be friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    One should ask for help from others, learn about his hobbies, understand what kind of person he is, step by step.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Drink wine to strengthen your courage, wine to strengthen people's courage, and after drinking, go and confess to your beloved.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    can only quietly watch the other party go away, what else can I do, there is no chance at all if I don't confess.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can give yourself some confidence, such as thinking that it may not be possible if you succeed, and then be brave enough to say it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since I don't dare to confess, I can approach him and use my actual actions to make him feel that I like him. Let him like himself, so that he doesn't have to confess himself, and the two will be together over time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then like it silently, don't confess that it's not yet time, maybe not like it enough, and when the time is ripe, everything will be fine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it may be the cowardice in my heart, I have to force myself at this time, after all, if I don't confess in time, it may be too late.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you meet someone you don't like, what do you do to confess to yourself? I know that many people will be complacent and then drag it out, in fact, what I want to say is, if you don't like it, it's better to make it clear to her as soon as possible, this is your responsibility for yourself and for her earlier.

    Refuse directly, and if she continues, explain the situation to her and tell her why. If you find that she is unreasonable and has been pestering, ignore her. Once the situation escalates, it is necessary to resist in the strongest way.

    I don't think I can give you what you want.

    For a stranger, you really can't have feelings for him, and it is a feeling other than a friend, then you might as well tell him the truth directly, tell him that he is not the person you want, and that he can't give her happiness is a very appropriate approach, and at this time, white lies or silence are not appropriate responses.

    I like you, but I don't love you.

    This is the most direct and euphemistic sentence to refuse to confess, and the people who use it the most are also the most, so that you can take into account the other party's feelings, not make him too embarrassed, and clearly explain your point of view, let's still be friends, and you are my very important friend, so he will be happy to accept it.

    I feel like my personality doesn't match yours.

    Some people will present the confession as a surprise and accident, just like a movie, and then the two of them are happily together. However, in reality, if someone does this to you, I think most of them will feel helpless, panicked more than moved. If you don't like him like this, you just say it, I'm not such a high-profile person.

    Tell the other person that they have a boyfriend or girlfriend.

    Whether you have a boyfriend or not, tell him that you already have a boyfriend, invite him to dinner another day, etc., or use social software to tactfully tell him that you have always regarded him as an ordinary friend, and you must not reluctantly accept it because of soft-heartedness, because in the end it must be two or more people who are hurt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you meet someone you don't like to confess to yourself, you can tactfully tell him that you don't like him, let him stop going on, and let him know your thoughts, so that he won't confess to you again. Thank you, ......

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you encounter a confession from someone you don't like, please remember these 3 principles:

    1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.

    As the saying goes, "when the interruption continues, it is chaotic", when a person expresses his affection to you, if you don't like the other party, you should give the other party a clear attitude, don't grind to create the other party has a chance.

    You should refuse directly, never contact him again after refusing, and do not ask him for help again to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.

    Article **32, leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

    Many people dare not refuse in the face of other people's confessions, always afraid of hurting the other party's self-esteem and the weakest Shoukai's heart. Especially the sudden confession of a good friend for many years caught them off guard and didn't know what to do

    At this time, when rejecting this kind of friend's confession, you should know how to be tactful, give him some secret changes, and tell him what type you like and the future you imagine.

    Let him retreat, and they, as friends, will understand your refusal.

    This also preserves the face and dignity of the other party, and minimizes the degree of harm.

    Article**43, find the right time and quickly refuse.

    In a relationship, no person of the opposite sex will be nice to you for no reason, as long as the good is beyond the normal range of friends of the opposite sex, you should notice that something is wrong.

    At this time, you have to see the right time, before he speaks, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth that he is about to speak.

    Saying it this way will avoid embarrassment for both parties and leave enough room for the rest of the relationship.

    In short, reject some people to do, be resolute, do not hurt the other party's self-esteem, find the right time, and refuse quickly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Silk. When you face someone you don't like, you must learn to refuse tactfully when you confess to yourself, otherwise it is easy to hurt the other party.

    1. You can refuse through social software.

    When someone you don't like confesses to you, and you are embarrassed to refuse, and you don't know how to refuse. In private, you can refuse through WeChat or QQ social software. You can send him a message and tell him that you already have a boyfriend, or you can also say that you are friends with him, which can be regarded as a tactful refusal.

    Because if you say this, the other party must know your mind. You won't hurt each other, but you can also be friends.

    Second, you must firmly refuse the other party.

    Many people just make a little bit of a confession to themselves in the face of people they don't like. There are some people who will not firmly reject each other, but will be ambiguous with each other, give each other fantasies, and hang each other. This is not right.

    When confessing to yourself in the face of someone you don't like, you must firmly reject the other person. Be clear about your attitude and don't be ambiguous with the other person. Otherwise, the other person will mistakenly think that you are interested in him, and in this case, the last two will be hurt.

    The so-called firm rejection of the other party does not mean that it is too direct and rude, you must learn to refuse tactfully, pay attention to the tone and attitude. If the tone is too direct and rude, it is easy to hurt the other person's self-esteem.

    Three, I don't know you well enough.

    You can also say the same thing to the other person, and when the other person confesses to you, you say that you don't know him very well. In this case, the other party will generally be able to understand what you mean and will not continue to entangle. When confessing to yourself in the face of someone you don't like, you must learn to reject the other person, but pay attention to the way you refuse.

    The way of refusal must be tactful, not too direct and rude.

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