How do you know from the other person s chat that they don t want to talk to you?

When chatting, you talk a lot and you talk less. On the same topic, you talk endlessly, and they are cold. Do not make any judgment on your words, do not reflect your expressions.

He's obviously chatting in the group, and if you talk to him privately, he'll just reply to you. In fact, you can understand by looking at the chat history, whoever replies a lot means that they are tired of each other.

Full of joy and plucked up the courage to chat with him, and after chatting a few words, I found that someone was drowning in the bathroom, choking to death in the meal, busy at work, and there was no echo from everywhere when the signal was not very good, and you saw him posting on Moments and scrolling Weibo...

I feel that the other party doesn't want to talk to me and will say, I have something to do now, and I'll get back to you later. I'll eat now, and I'll get back to you later." I'm with my boyfriend now, and I'll get back to you later....Don't listen to that for a moment, she won't get back to you.

Go to bed early, I'm sleeping. Then he replied beautifully: Good night, you have a good rest. Then half an hour later, when I saw his comments and autographs for others, I understood everything in an instant, and I would never go to find something to say in the future.

Whenever you message him, he's busy, telling you he's busy, and then he doesn't take the initiative to chat with you when he's not.

When I sent a text crackling, someone else replied: Oh! Then I was a little embarrassed to say that there was a time to slip away beforehand, and the other party: Hmm!

I didn't reply to the message for a long time, but I finally replied, no matter how much you said, the other party would always be "um, oh, um, oh", or an expression reply.

It was during dinner, but after we finished talking about the main thing, I was suddenly told that it was time for me to go to dinner...I understood in an instant, even though I had already eaten and digested, I still said against my will: Okay.

A clockwork message came, and it was gone.

Summary. I won't talk to you when I chat, and there may be the following reasons: First, it may be that both of you are not good at chatting and use a way that can only close the topic.

To use an analogy: one party asks you if you have eaten? Fang said:

Well, ate it. The whole chat was closed like this. The whole other party stays on whether to eat or not.

Second, you have too few topics in common, and there is no freshness when you chat. You can dig into a lot of common topics, in fact, chatting is very simple and requires a lot of skill. Every bit of life can be shared, but it just depends on whether you are good at turning the bits and pieces of life into words to share with friends.

So why do you not talk much when you talk to me.

I won't talk to you when I chat, and there may be the following reasons: First, it may be that both of you are not good at chatting and use a way that can only close the topic. To use an analogy:

One party asked my brother and grandson, have you eaten? Fang said: Well, I ate it.

The whole chat was closed like this. The whole other party rents a dust stall and stays on whether to eat or not. Second, you have too few topics in common, and there is no freshness when you chat.

You can dig up the cheats and dig up more common topics, in fact, chatting is very simple and requires a lot of skills. Every bit of life can be shared, but it just depends on whether you are good at turning the bits and pieces of life into words to share with friends.

Dear, what is the specific situation, can you talk about it?

This requires you to do more homework, thoroughly understand his interests and hobbies, and then find something that interests him, such as sports, travel, cooking, etc., starting with the topics he likes will definitely not be dead.

I feel that chatting with him is really a very nerve-wracking thing, because no matter what you say, the number of words he replies to you is very small, I think you can simply engage in voice chat with him, you can talk about some more relaxed topics, such as telling jokes, talking about your life and work, funny things, this should drive the atmosphere!

If you chat with someone you like, he breaks up with you, and you can't find a topic, and he doesn't say I'm chatting with you, it seems that you like him, he doesn't necessarily like you, he doesn't like you, you talk to her, how do you talk and he doesn't want to say a word to you? If you take the initiative to talk to him, he won't talk much.

Eliminate the other party's defenses first. Of course, "**" is a smile and confidence.

Outsmart the core knowledge of communication.

1. What you get is what you give.

**Law: Do what you want others to do to you, you do to others first.

Platinum's Law: What do others want you to do to him! You just do to him.

He is his worst enemy, and he is his biggest nobleman.

The secret of all communication lies in adjusting the "frequency".

In general, when you are having a conversation, leaning forward is emotional, and leaning back is rational.

The core key to effective communication: 1 3 Ask questions 1 3 Listen 1 3 Persuade more than less, less than good words, and better ask questions than good words.

There are four types of personality traits:

Controller: likes to make decisions on his own, is highly subjective, and likes to command.

Social: likes to feel happy, likes to be affirmed, and likes to joke.

Analytical: Emphasis on logical analysis, slower decision-making, rationality over emotion.

Supportive: less assertive, easy to cater to the other person's feelings and decisions, and likes to be affirmed.

Hope it solves your problem.