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There are a lot of things that you don't want to know just without knowing.
If you already know, how can you say you don't know?
If such a thing exists, it will be known sooner or later.
What we should do now is not to wander around knowing or not knowing.
Instead, talk to the other person frankly.
Let him tell you what to think, and you tell him what to think, so that the two of them will find a solution instead of going on like this.
Everything needs to be communicated.
Maybe some things are better off not knowing.
But one day it's all going to be faced.
And why run away.
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Dear Friend:
Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life
What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.
Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.
Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.
You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!
I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.
So, isn't it all a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?
For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.
Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?
So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!
In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?
In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.
Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~
Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.
There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^
So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.
Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!
May you shine every day! * Happy and healthy :)
I hope to encourage you together.
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Life is short, if you can be happy, be happy. Let all your troubles be gone. Some things don't need to be solved.
But it must be solved when it is struck, don't hesitate. Happy people are a lifetime. Annoying people is a lifetime.
Everything is your choice. Be kind to yourself.
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Love is to believe and trust the other person, some things should be left a space for him, and it is better not to know than to know.
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In life, there are many things, and it is better to know than to know. It is often said that curiosity kills a cat. It is true that we should remain curious about the world, but there should be a "degree" to this curiosity.
We live in this world, and we must first believe in ourselves. Because, the only thing each of us can rely on is, in fact, only ourselves. This world is complicated, and people's hearts are difficult to guess.
However, when we come to the world, what we learn from it should not be to be suspicious of each other and to fight against each other. What we learn is to live in harmony, to grow, and to look at the world with the right attitude. We all know that in this world, everything is good and bad.
Therefore, we should learn to see the good side of things, rather than just dwelling on the bad side of things. We need to see the truth of this world, and we need to understand the rules of this world. Although this world seems beautiful, there will also be fierce competition.
Where there's competition, there's harm. Therefore, each of us should learn to constantly hone ourselves and make ourselves strong inside. Only when your heart is strong enough can you be fearless in this world.
A bird standing on a tree is never afraid of a branch breaking, because it does not believe in the branch, but in its own wings. On the road to success, only struggle can give you the greatest sense of security and answers. Therefore, it is not easy for each of us to come to this world.
We should all water the flower of success with struggle and sweat, so as to live up to this trip. We have to believe in ourselves, we have to believe in the future. There are some things we don't need to know; There are some things that we will know naturally.
Therefore, between knowing and not knowing, we should go with the flow and follow the trend in order to cast the glory of our own stupid life!
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People are selfish, it's just that many people don't want to admit it.
So there is always only one answer, and it is better not to know many things than to know.
Because you know that there will always be a pimple in your heart, but if you still know it unintentionally, it depends on how you choose.
I love a story :
There was a man, he was not rich, he grew up in poverty. But he falls in love with an aristocratic woman, and for the first time the man takes the woman he loves on a date, for the first time he goes to coffee.
At that time, he didn't know that coffee was bitter, because he had a strong taste, so he told the waiter to add salt. The woman said, you are really strange, do you like coffee with salt? Why is coffee salted?
The man took a sip of coffee with salt and said, yes, coffee with salt is my favorite, my hometown is a poor place, and the bitter coffee with salt makes me miss my hometown more, so that I can better appreciate the sweetness of life now. The woman felt that the man was a person who did not forget his roots, and finally chose to marry the man. But it wasn't until the man died that he told the woman that in fact, in this life, what he hated the most was coffee and salt, which was really hard to drink, but he deceived the woman and asked the woman to forgive him.
It is because every time a woman helps a man make coffee, she carefully adds salt to the man, so the man can drink that cup of coffee happily. After the man died, the woman didn't say anything, just waited quietly beside the corpse and wept ......
In this life, women are happy, and in a sense, men are also happy. Because men do ...... responsible for what women say
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As long as both of them are happy, there's no need to know too much. There is also a part of secrecy between husband and wife, and concealment between husband and wife is not necessarily a bad thing, but some are concealment in good faith.
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Don't say what should be said and what shouldn't be said, who doesn't have a secret now!
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If you're happy right now, don't forget about some things.
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Well, if you know it makes you unhappy, you might as well not know.
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Be a foolish person who understands ...
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I like to get to the bottom of things, I like to figure out a lot of things, and I can always figure out a lot of things, which gives me the illusion that I'm smart, and I loved that illusion at the time.
When did it start to change, I can't say, but it's changed, and I'm not chasing the word "reason", so how can I get rid of Lu Youcha if I know it? It's just a secret whisper in my heart, oh, I see, that's it. Just like you, I used to frantically gather all the information about you, trying to find an answer, to find a solution to this problem.
Xu is too timid, only 100 meters away from you, the answer is at my fingertips, but I retreated, and even your ** didn't dare to fight. Early pi haha.
I also suddenly understood the truth, a lot of things, I know, what can I do? I don't have the ability to predict the future, nor do I have the ability to see through people's hearts, if things don't happen, I won't know that I am wrong, or that I didn't do well. And then the result will always come, probably it's my fault, after all, I don't understand you, since I don't understand, then I don't understand, after all, what can I do if I understand now?
You won't come back, and I won't be able to go back to the past, so be it! ‘
A lot of things, what can I do? What can be changed? It is the ancients Zeng Yun: knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is also knowing. See! The ancestors of thousands of years ago saw it very clearly. Hahahahaha.
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