The boy invites the girl to dinner for no reason, but does not take the initiative to chat

This passage is a declarative sentence rather than an interrogative sentence, what are you trying to ask?

There are two main scenarios.

One is that he really doesn't like you, because generally speaking, if you like the other person, you really want to talk to the other person, and you think about the other person all the time, and at that time, you will generally find something to say even if you don't have anything to say. Because it is such a pleasant thing to chat with the person you like in your heart, you want to take out your whole heart to show the other party, how to get tired of the other party is not enough, so if the other party is unwilling to chat, especially if you don't take the initiative to chat, ask a sentence and answer a sentence, even if you ask him impatiently, are unwilling, it is likely that the other party does not like you, at this time I have to think more about what to do, and I am not even willing to perfunctory, then there is no need for this relationship to continue, because it is difficult to last without a response to love. Love that goes both ways can last a long time.

Of course, there is also a possibility, that is, this boy is naturally more introverted, more shy, afraid to talk to girls, don't know how to chat with girls, or the kind of straight man in science and engineering, think why chat, have something to say, nothing to say, I believe that there should be a lot of such people, for such people, don't worry too much, just get used to it, they are generally more simple. If you are really not used to it, you can guide it slowly, boys also need to be taught, and if you teach it well, you can become a warm man.

Boys don't take the initiative to talk to girls, they just don't like it. If you like it, you won't be tempted. If there is no heartbeat, where will the action come from?

One. Girls all hope that their crushes will like them. Or the boyfriend who is on a blind date can really fall in love with him at first sight. Sometimes things are not as simple as we think.

Two. It's not that easy to get tempted by. It's not that you like her, she must have a crush on you. Let's face it. If a boy likes you, he doesn't need you to rush to him. He's more anxious than you and more positive than you.

Three. Because he is attracted to you, he will try his best to get close to you and please you. will not let you wait for his **, nor will you take the initiative to chat with him.

Because he will feel that he is not going to contact you right away, that he is not being positive. Maybe you just miss it, and you'll be snatched away by someone else. So he's in a more anxious hurry than you.

That's for sure. But if he doesn't have a heartbeat, he doesn't like it. His attitude was very negative.

You are dispensable. Do you understand this? You can also contact, we can be friends.

You don't contact me, and you don't have the urge to find you. That's not like. It is said that catching up is not a business.

So you didn't impress him, you don't think that he would change for you, for you will take the initiative. That's impossible. So it's up to you.

If you care, love it. It's what you love. Then you take the initiative.

Go and impress her. But I prefer to find one. Really love me.

Because I know if you really love me on this path. I'm going to have an easy walk, at least I don't have to have to work hard. Same as I thought, so be it!

No, the boy doesn't take the initiative to talk to the girl, it is likely that he is busy with work, or he is shy and inferior in front of the girl, and he doesn't know how to communicate with the girl.

If this happens, the girl might as well take the initiative and take the initiative to greet the boy. With the gradual equality of the status of men and women, it is not embarrassing for girls to take the initiative, and no one will say that girls are not reserved and self-respecting, and boys will not think so. On the contrary, they will also find such girls more lively and interesting.

So in this case, the girl can take the initiative to open up the topic with the boy. There are some boys who live a relatively simple life, have no entertainment projects, and have no female friends. Therefore, they are not good at communicating with girls, and they dare not or even have the awareness to take the initiative to chat with girls, but it does not mean that they do not like this girl.

There is another situation, which is that the girl does not give the boy a strong first impression, and does not give the other party a deep impression to make the other party like you, but this does not mean that the boy will not like you. He just isn't familiar enough with you. Two people slowly intersect, after getting along for a while, maybe the boy will find the shining point in your personality, start to like you, become more talkative in front of you, take the initiative to chat with you, and even rely on you very much, and want to stick to you all the time.

Boys don't take the initiative to chat with girls, not necessarily because they don't like it, but also because of personality reasons, or because of the influence of modern views on marriage and love.

Personality reasons. There are some boys who are more passive and boring. This kind of person is not only emotionally but also in life. For example, when encountering any problems, they will never take the initiative to ask others for help, but silently find a way by themselves, and give up if they can't solve it.

In the relationship, the reason why they don't take the initiative to chat with the girl they like is mainly because they are afraid of rejection and afraid that they won't even have to be friends with each other. So I'd rather stand by the girl's side as an ordinary friend.

Influenced by the modern concept of marriage and love.

If everyone thinks this way and is waiting for the other party to take the initiative, then who will be the one who takes the initiative? Then there is no way to develop.

Although the truth is such a truth, there are always people who like to follow the trend and like the meaningless emotional outlook of **. It is under this influence that more and more boys choose to wait and see and choose to be passive.

Should girls take the initiative to pursue boys?

In the matter of feelings, men and women are equal, and it is not said that the boy must take the initiative, nor does it mean that if you take the initiative, others will not cherish you. If the other party doesn't cherish you because you took the initiative to pursue you first, then he doesn't really love you either.

True love is respect and understanding, and only when both parties respect each other and support each other can this relationship go further and further. But only if you're together. So if you're lucky enough to meet someone you like, it's okay to take the initiative.

In fact, I don't think boys take the initiative to talk to girls, it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't like it. It is very likely that a boy does not take the initiative to talk to a girl because he is busy with work, or he is shy in front of a girl, or has low self-esteem and does not know how to communicate with a girl, and can not judge whether the boy likes this girl through only one or two communications. Boys will not think so, on the contrary, they will think that the girl is more lively, interesting and cheerful, so in this case, girls can take the initiative to open the topic with boys, then, there are some boys, life is relatively simple, there are no entertainment projects and no female friends, therefore, they are not good at communicating with girls, do not dare, or even do not take the initiative to chat with girls, meaning. But that doesn't mean they don't like this girl.

Of course, there is another situation that the girl gives the boy's first feeling, not so strong, not very impressed by the other party, so that the other party likes it, but this does not mean that the boy will not like you, he is just not familiar with you enough, the two people slowly have intersected and got along for a period of time, maybe the boy will, find the shining point in your character, start to like you, become more talkative in front of you, take the initiative to chat with you, and even rely on you to stick to you all the time.

It's not necessarily that you don't like it, have you ever thought that there is another possibility?

He wants to contact you, but he doesn't know what to contact at all, how many times he clicked on your chat window, but he didn't think about what to start saying for a long time.

How many people's circle of friends are now set to be visible for three days? You're set up like this, and it's pretty frustrating for the guys – they don't know what to talk to you about.

Don't say that if a person wants to contact you, there must be a way, you must know that many boys are very straightforward - if I want to contact someone, I must find a reasonable reason, otherwise I don't know what to say.

Therefore, if you want a person to take the initiative to chat with you, at least you have to give this person enough information, otherwise it will be difficult for a good woman to cook without rice.

Every time it comes to the circle of friends, there is a misunderstanding, thinking that it is to rely on the circle of friends to support themselves and increase their attractiveness, so they often have this doubt: I don't want to show off, I don't want to pretend to be 13, can't I catch up with each other?

No, no, no, you completely misunderstood what I meant, is it just to pretend to be 13 in the update of the circle of friends? In fact, you keep showing in the circle of friends, and the behavior of brushing your sense of existence is particularly low, and I won't let you force an embarrassing show in the circle of friends.

Even if your circle of friends doesn't post anything high, it's very good to just post some daily things - because through daily life, others can know what you're doing, what you like, and you're going to ** recently.

This is all information, and the most important thing in our conversation with people is to have enough information.

Only by doing this, can we better judge whether a guy likes you or not - when you have enough information in your circle of friends, you can try to find him again to see how he treats you.

If he starts to have a lot of good interactions with you at this time, and starts to be able to talk to you, then it means that he wants to chat with you in the first place, but there is just a lack of information in the past.

But if he is still cold to you and deals with you perfunctorily with a few words, then it means that this guy still has no feelings for you and doesn't want to deal with you.

Because boys and girls chat differently, it is difficult for boys to be like girls, even if they don't have enough information, they can chat for a long time by sharing a push, sharing their emotions or the stories of the people around them, and boys' chats must either have enough information or have enough things.

Therefore, if a guy doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, he can't directly tell if the person really doesn't like you.

Personally, I don't think it's necessarily like this, it's still a scoring situation. It is possible that the boy does not take the initiative to talk to the girl, it is likely that he is busy with work, or he is more shy in front of the girl, or he has low self-esteem and does not know how to communicate with the girl, and he can't judge whether the boy likes the girl through one or two communication one-sidedly. Boys will not think so, on the contrary, they will think that the girl is more lively, interesting and cheerful, so in this case, girls can take the initiative to open the topic with boys, then, there are some boys, life is relatively simple, there are no entertainment projects and no female friends, therefore, they are not good at communicating with girls, do not dare, or even do not take the initiative to chat with girls, meaning. But that doesn't mean they don't like this girl.

Of course, there is another situation that is the first feeling that the girl gives the boy, not so strong, not very impressed by the other party, so that the other party likes it, but this does not mean that the boy will not like you, he is just not familiar with you enough, the two people slowly have intersected and got along for a period of time, maybe the boy will, find the shining point in your character, start to like you, become more talkative in front of you, and take the initiative to chat with you. At first, if the girl doesn't show her heart to the other party, but the other party is still very cold, and he won't take the initiative to find you if he is lukewarm to you, then he must not like you, so in this case, you'd better not bother others anymore, so as not to hate you.

If a boy doesn't take the initiative, he definitely doesn't like this girl.

Like a person is to keep missing, really meet and will dodge the eyes, very shy, although some boys are more introverted, may not be very good at expression, but if you really meet a girl she likes very much, he will definitely work hard, after all, boys have an innate desire to conquer.

So, if the guy you like doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, don't fool yourself and find all kinds of reasons for him, for example, he may be busy, etc., and the reality is that you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, nor can you touch a person who doesn't love you.