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There are many reasons why it is difficult for poor families to have noble children, myself.
Here are a few reasons why I didn't become a noble son.
One. There are many brothers and sisters, I have 6 sisters in my family, I am the 6th, and when I study, my parents are older, and my brother will have to ask for a wife and children when he grows up. My parents and brother were powerless to take care of me.
Second. My parents only farmed the land, and did not find other jobs to earn money, and they had no money to pay for my tuition, so I dropped out of school at an early age.
Third. My parents were both born in the old society, they never studied, they couldn't read a word, and they couldn't inspire and educate our children when they were young. I think that as long as I can plant a good field and make a good land, I don't want our children to become nobles, we have good ideas but are opposed by our parents, for example, I want to be a writer, no one in our family supports me, and I am scolded for being a god muscle, lazy to eat, and not doing my job, and the yellow dog wants to eat swan meat ......
Fourth. The conditions for going to school are difficult, there are ten miles from primary school to school, and a six or seven-year-old child has to walk 20 miles a day to go to school. It's forty miles further to middle school. I walked by foot to school, and there was no road.
To sum up, the most important one is that my parents were poor and had no money to pay for tuition, and they cut off my path to success very early and at a very young age.
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I think it is difficult for children from poor families to have noble sons because children from poor families are generally more precocious and suffer more.
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Because children from poor families don't get better learning, but their children are generally hardworking, so they will. There are very good children.
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I think it is difficult for poor families to have noble children because they lack the cultivation of their children and do not have a good education.
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The children of poor families are in charge of the family early, but the acquired conditions are insufficient, the family conditions are insufficient, and the starting line is different.
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I think that it is difficult for children from poor families to have noble children, because of the children of poor families, they must work very hard.
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It is difficult for children from poor families to have noble children because they do not have enough family strength.
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Because of some of their objective conditions, it is difficult to compare with people in the city. Ideas are also limited by poverty.
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Socioeconomic status, which affects the educational attainment of the next generation. This is even more evident in countries where education is market-oriented.
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I think that in the past, there were a lot of noble children, but now there are very few noble children in poor families.
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Well, maybe I'm just too poor, and then all the knowledge hasn't grown, and it's hard to achieve the kind of success that I expected.
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Children from poor families have no background and backing, and they cannot integrate into the elite circle. Work and career are easy to fall into a bottleneck period, often with half the effort, and feel powerless in life.
Children from poor families sometimes have excessive low self-esteem, sometimes they are sensitive and self-respecting, and sometimes they have a single approach and do not know how to deal with each other. It can also be said that without the space and mentality to prepare and pay attention to this investment, there is a natural lack of life and social sophistication and education environment.
It's actually about livelihoods. I have to face such an objective reality, poverty makes people tired, and they try their best to barely make ends meet, how can they have the effort to learn and think about how to improve emotional intelligence to please others. At the same time, people have the tendency to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, because of their own poverty, not too many people look up to and love you, feel that they are indifferent to others with their enthusiasm, and they feel uncomfortable.
After all, those who are poor in rank and have uneven shoulders will never become true friends. Because friends, at the very least, are based on equal reciprocity.
Why did Lu Xun and Runtu play together when they were children, but when they met when they were older, they felt a thick sadness and a thick wall-like separation. Because social status and the values of the times are not transferred by people's will, the formation of etiquette and secularity makes adults choose to abide by the rules. Therefore, Lu Xun was very sad in his heart, which is also the reason why no one is sad anymore, and without exception, he pinned his hopes on a generation of newcomers, nephews and aquatic (Runtu sons).
"Ordinary World" Zhongtian Futang said to Sun Shaoan: "What position a person is is what position, no matter how much you can be a farmer!" "Sun Shaoan is undoubtedly an inspirational role model for poor children, although he seized the opportunity of the times and achieved prosperity, he also has limitations and is easy to reach the ceiling.
Such limitations are often innate, like the hunger gene, that will take generations to fade. Although Tian Futang is rigid, he is also the number one person in Shuangshui Village, and he has a unique way of looking at people and things.
To be a person and succeed, you need to have a foundation and a platform to Heng Ying, and poor children often rely on fighting alone, and they can go wherever they go. But without the care of family and in-laws, without the opportunity to meet nobles and receive their guidance and help, it is often difficult to go far. Because, the singleness of the ideological arsenal and the lack of logistical supplies will directly affect the scale of your battles and the results of your life.
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I often take the train between home and school during the holidays, and it is a hard seat, and some classmates often ask me what I am going to take home. What to do to school? I took the hard seat of the train, and they then asked how long it would take.
I said "33 hours" with a sense of pride and low self-esteem, and then my classmates looked at me with sympathy and surprise, and at such moments I often didn't know how to talk to them about it, so I had to choose another topic.
I often don't know why I often choose to sit in a hard seat for more than 30 hours, but for me, there are two main reasons: as a student from the countryside, I am strapped for money and cannot pay for the high high-speed rail ticket; Second: I thought to myself, more than 30 hours of hard seat will allow me to meet all kinds of passengers, and talking to them will not only not make my journey boring, but you will also let me know more anecdotes that I don't know.
I remember that once on the train home from winter vacation, an old lady said such a sentence: the poor raise the delicate, and the rich raise the talent. Roughly speaking, poor families are more doting on their children, resulting in children growing under big trees all the time, no matter how they grow, they never want their children to face one thing alone, resulting in children growing up to do nothing.
The children of rich and noble families strictly restrain their children from an early age, instill in their children good and bad, what should be done and what should not be done, and often let children go out alone to earn pocket money, so children will know a lot of things when they grow up.
For this old lady's words, I often think about this question alone, is it really difficult to produce a noble son from poverty? What is the sedan car? If you want a family background or not, if you want money or not, if you want a relationship, it doesn't matter if you want ......Most of the children born in this situation are raised by their parents to be delicate and do nothing, and few parents are aware of the problems of their children in the future.
For parents who are aware of this problem, most parents choose to give up raising their children, because they feel that it is too tiring and they can't see the return for a long time, so it is better to let their children work early to make money, get married and have children early. The rest are the parents who are aware of the problems their children will face in the future and who take action and money to nurture their children, which are very few of all parents from poor families.
Among these few parents, there are two parts, one is to only let them study hard, and they don't need their children to do anything; Another part is not only to let children study hard, but also to instill a lot of ideas in children to make money and do things, and let children take action to do things.
For these two groups of people, it is not difficult to imagine that most of the children in the latter part are more promising than the first group of children, because they not only have knowledge, but also the ability and experience to do things. The latter part of the children only have knowledge, and most of them cannot solve practical problems on their own, resulting in reading a lot of books or working for others.
It can be seen that poverty can also produce noble children, and most of them are only for families whose parents value their children's learning and their ability to do things.
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Anything is possible, and children from poor families generally have very good academic performance, and they will change their destiny through learning.
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A poor family may have a noble child, because if a family is always poor, then the child will work very hard to do something.
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I believe that poor families can have noble children, but this process is by no means easy, especially in the current situation, it is even more difficult.
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It is possible, but it is still a minority, because poor families also provide poor learning conditions for children, which will reduce the chances of children succeeding in school.
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Not necessarily poor families will be able to produce noble children, mainly depends on family education and children's personal comprehensive ability, in poor families should also provide children with basic educational opportunities, and then children should study their own, and in the future to the society must also strive to adapt to the society, and strive to improve themselves, in order to be able to get ahead.
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In fact, there are many children from poor families who work very hard and do some things very seriously and hard.
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I think that poor families can have noble children, it depends on what your concept of noble children is.
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It's possible, because everything is possible, although the probability may be relatively low.
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Of course, if people are poor, if they are poor, and if their families are poor, they must work hard to make a big career.
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