What aspects do men consider when choosing a wife?

The main consideration for a man when choosing a wife is the virtue of his wife, because in the eyes of many men, virtue is an important criterion for a good wife.

Because the wife is different from the couple, the couple only knows how to seek romance under the moon before the flower, and the wife needs to live at home, so in this kind of premise, if you marry a virtuous wife, she will keep your home in order, and life will be very comfortable, and special harmony, but if you marry a wife who is not virtuous and does not know how to be diligent and thrifty, it is possible that the two of you will quarrel all day because of the trivial matters in daily life. Therefore, a family needs two people to take care of it together, the man is responsible for making money outside, and the woman is responsible for raising her husband and children at home, taking care of everything in the family, so often under this premise, a virtuous woman is needed to be able to complete such a heavy task.

Therefore, many men will consider whether the other party is a virtuous woman, because a virtuous woman is the most important criterion for a good wife and mother, and if a woman does not have such qualities and character, then if she lives, the family will not seem too harmonious, nor will it appear to be very harmonious, so marriage and love are two different concepts, and the criteria for men to choose women in each period will be different.

A good wife is a career helper and a partner in life, while a bad woman is looking for trouble all day long, quarreling, asking for money, spending money and being selfish, and only knows herself.

A good wife knows to be considerate of her husband, while a bad wife is always busy with her own affairs and is always asking people to be considerate of him. You are good to him, he takes it for granted, never thinks about others. Good woman, you are good, he knows it.

If we want to have a happy marriage, we need a woman with a normal personality, moral quality, knowing that it is not easy to mix in society, and knowing that she is considerate of men, rather than a scumbag who only knows how to enjoy pleasure and only knows how to love herself.

When choosing a wife, you will pay attention to many factors, such as her family situation, as well as her character, if it is the character of a good wife and mother, if she can be very good to herself, she is willing to choose to be this woman as a wife.

Family factors, whether the conditions of the other party's family are the right for the man's family, and whether the people in the family get along well. The woman's own personality and conditions, whether the woman is virtuous and whether the three views are the same. Whether a woman's appearance is high or not, and how she looks is also one of the factors.

For men, when choosing a wife, they are actually very realistic, and they will also pay attention to the woman's family conditions. financial situation, and whether he can earn money to support his family.

In fact, the ultimate goal of a man choosing a wife is to start a family, including living with himself, taking care of each other and having children. The degree of caring for the family is a major factor that men need to consider when choosing a wife, the more women take care of the family, the more they feel that the woman is suitable for marriage, on the contrary, if the woman does not care about the family, no matter how good the woman is in other aspects, the man will also feel that the woman is not suitable for marrying him. It's not that men are machismo, but the purpose of their marriage is to have someone who takes care of and supports each other with themselves, and most men are more inclined to be female in and male in and out.

The wife is very virtuous, very respectful of the elders, very sensible, the two of them can communicate very well, and can understand the difficulties of the husband.

A wise man will never marry a woman as a wife in a daze, let alone marry impulsively. It's not a smart man who picks and chooses his wife. It's not that smart men are arrogant and feel arrogant.

Only, smart men figure it out more clearly that the role of a wife is not the same as that of a girlfriend. That's to spend the rest of your life with you. Once you make the wrong choice, it is not so easy to regret it, it is so simple.

Married life is related to the rise and fall of a person in the second half of his life. Whether it is a boy or a woman, as long as there is some brain, they will maintain a minimum of sobriety and sanity. In that way, in real life, for a smart man, what factors will be considered in choosing a wife?

There is a way that filial piety comes first, and if a woman even has her own parents, she is not "filial". In that way, no matter how beautiful and beautiful this woman looks, it is not easy to marry. To put it bluntly, such people are a bit ruthless and unrighteous.

The kindness of her parents is not remembered, and no matter how much you treat her, you may have to be with a "white-eyed wolf".

The performance of a woman's "unfilial piety" is often mastered from the attitude and way of getting along with a woman's parents. For example, whether parents are valued and whether the experience of parents is taken into account and considered in verbal communication. In fact, this is very important, because it is related to the question of whether or not the elderly are respected.

Similarly, it can be extended to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, whether women can pay attention to their parents.

A smart man, when it comes to choosing a wife, will pay great attention to a woman's emotional problems. Especially under the premise of suddenness, a woman's emotional change is not smooth. It is especially worth mentioning how women deal with and deal with difficult situations.

When some women encounter trouble, they will have a negative mentality, and even complain, be depressed, and be angry.

If the woman is emotionally unstable, even impulsive and irrational. A boy may not be the first choice for a wife. At the very least, it is very important for a woman to have a stable mood and an attitude towards life that is not arrogant or impatient. Otherwise, life after marriage may be particularly tiring and hard.

Smart men, when it comes to choosing a wife, will pay great attention to women's attitudes towards money. At the very least, don't go with other men because they are rich, just for money, only for material life. In addition, women are materially concerned about whether money is very important, which is also very concerned by men.

If one day you want to invest in your own project, set up a company, or start a business, can women spare no effort to support them? To put it more ugly, it is true that she is hospitalized, and whether women are willing to take out money to save themselves. For these, they all have a very big connection with a woman's view of money.

For men, if a woman is too picky, it is easy to lose the pattern, and she will be particularly undignified in doing things.

will consider whether the woman is gentle, whether she is motivated, whether her character is particularly good, whether she is particularly filial, whether she is particularly kind, and will consider these factors.

For a smart man, when choosing a wife, he will first consider whether it will be helpful to him.

Should you consider whether the other party has a certain economic foundation? Did the other party buy a house in some city?

The first look is the appearance.

And then there's temperament.

The ability to work is also quite important.

Lifestyle habits will also be valued.

If a woman has a good character, good temperament, filial piety, and virtuousness.

That's the election.

Many people are the first in appearance, and the other second.

On the one hand, it is character cultivation, which can not be very willful, very vexatious, and pampered to let you serve.

The second is that the father-in-law and mother-in-law should be reasonable, if the husband and wife quarrel, the reasonable parents will usually find the reason from the wife, and vice versa.

Then it's okay if the family conditions can be good, and it's better to look good, but that's secondary.

First look at the looks, and then look at the personality, every man looking for a wife wants to find a gentle and considerate, beautiful wife.

To each his own.

There are different turnips and greens.

Marrying a wife and seeking a virtuous lady, of course, appearance is also one thing.