Behind the love that is not made public, is it all the sadness of the spare tire?

Not necessarily, most relationships that are not made public are due to many reasons, such as company regulations or various reasons such as being hurt in order to protect the other party, but it is generally agreed by the two people not to be disclosed, so there should be no sadness about the spare tire.

I think it's very sad, not public because I can't get the respect of my lover, I can't be recognized, I feel that I may not be important in the other party's heart, just a spare tire.

This kind of not being made public is either because you use yourself as a spare tire and have not thought about making it public, or you don't love yourself enough, you are afraid to introduce yourself to your family, and you don't fully accept yourself.

The best state of a relationship should be when two people are relaxed together. Do you understand, it's not about being happy or happy, it's relaxing, it's being carefree, it's never thinking about whether you're happy or not, it's not having those messy emotions to take care of, it's that we're honest with each other, and we have enough security to be sure that the other person won't leave.

Does falling in love have to be open in the circle of friends?

I think this is very necessary, to really love someone, as long as you decide that you want to be public, to be known by everyone, all those who are reluctant to make it public are just leaving opportunities for others. Only those who are open are called love, and those who are not public are called spare tires.

Once there has been a conflict, whether it is a misunderstanding or not, it is impossible to return to the relationship with or without a clear explanation in the end, sometimes it seems to be reconciled, but the next time there is a little inconspicuous friction, I will remember the dispute, and then very negative plans to give up the relationship. Later, I kept my distance from people who had an estrangement, tired and tired, but safety first. ​

I feel more and more that one of the signs of social success is not to have three or five thousand friends, but not to invest in ineffective social interactions, and to have the freedom to delete people I don't like at any time.

When I like you, I'm willing to go to the trouble for you, and I don't hesitate to do anything, it's true, but when my enthusiasm is frozen into ice, I'll never look at you again, and it's true.

It's not that it's not public, it's called a spare tire, the spare tire is the side that is being fished, and the angler will keep giving the fish bait but just don't catch it, which means that he won't admit that it has anything to do with it. But it's ambiguous with people.

Some people are reluctant to announce before the relationship is not stable, and some people are afraid of work or being affected, and they are not willing to disclose the spare tire, which means that he has a suitable choice, but he still maintains an ambiguous relationship with you, called a spare tire.

If it is not disclosed, it cannot be called a spare tire. After all, not disclosing your girlfriend may be that the time has not come, and you also want to protect the privacy of your other half.

Generally, public love is more formal, and both parties will care more, while non-public love is more casual, not so caring and important, and it is likely to be a spare tire.

Not necessarily. There are many people who are in love that is not public, but it is a formal act of falling in love, but what is public must be called falling in love.

Not really! You see what you're doing, right? Some people don't make it public at first because their family members oppose it, and they slowly make changes on their own, and finally ask for their parents' consent.

Not necessarily, the first possibility is a spare tire, and the second possibility is that you are more shy and don't want to make it public, after all, you don't want to be known if you are not married.

That can't be generalized, falling in love is generally from non-public to public, but it's not public after talking for a long time, so be careful that the other party uses you as a spare tire.

No, what is not public is called no future

Hello, I'm very happy to answer for you, what is it called falling in love if it is not public, it must be a spare tire, it must be public.

It's public, do you want to fall in love and spare the tire if it's not public? Yes, it's such a friend who is public, and it's indeed mating, so you're ready for it.

It's not necessarily all like this, hidden love, sometimes it's also very sincere and affectionate love. This may also be the agreement that the two sides have agreed on before. Of course, the current extramarital lover, the junior, the second wife or the love triangle, etc., can only be maintained until they are exposed.

The undisclosed one is called a crush! The hidden one is called a spare tire!

Yes, falling in love must be made public for any reason, and who is in love now is not public... If your boyfriend doesn't disclose you, you can imagine why.

Not necessarily, some people are introverted, and even if they fall in love, they may not choose to be public, but they will still be very happy.

Yes, it's immoral to do so, and it hurts another person.

The essence of love is heterosexual love, not publicly, but just the time between first love and passionate love.

The same cannot be said, and it is possible that it is not disclosed for various reasons.

The spare tire is a love object, and one is taken out to fall in love, and the foot pedal is supported, the real girlfriend has it, and the other is talking, and the second girlfriend is the spare tire? Falling in love openly is just the right and bright!

Not necessarily, maybe it's because I think there's nothing that can't be done.