What to do if you fall in love with the wrong person at the wrong time

Updated on tourism 2024-08-01
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Then you should treat her as a sister first---You know it's not right to talk about this at this time, so let it go first, because it's likely to hurt others and yourself. You said it was better to wait for her for 2 years. If you really like her and want to love her, why can't you wait 2 years?

    Sometimes it's also necessary to learn to let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    This should go with the flow, don't be too far-fetched in your feelings, and if you still like her now, then continue to be good.

    If you meet the right person, it will not be a problem for a lifetime.

    I liked one girl in the first year of junior high school, and I liked another girl in the third year of junior high school.

    I liked a girl in my first year of high school, and I liked another girl in my second year of high school.

    When I got to college, I fell in love twice, but I can't say for sure.

    You can only go with the flow and obey the destiny of heaven.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's naïve, and you yourself say that two years can change a lot of things, don't you? I used to have a similar experience as you, in the first year of high school, a boy liked me very much, and after I rejected it a few times, he said that he would wait for me to reach the third year of high school, but we really didn't even talk to the third year of high school, we studied media in the same place, in different classes in school, I also liked him, he was in the third year of high school, we all saw it, because they each had their own lives, I just felt that the idea was too naïve, don't ignore the change of time to us, you will also meet the right person at the right time, since you yourself say it's a mistake, So for yourself and for her, don't let this mistake sprout, although you will feel uncomfortable, try to do what you should do now, the right person will come without you facing these mistakes, come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You know what she thinks.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When you meet the right person, you must have the courage to grasp it. If you are currently studying or in the rising stage of your career, you can express your thoughts to him first, and don't miss him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Meeting the right person at the wrong time proves that you are just destined. In a person's life, in addition to love, there is also responsibility.

    If the time is not right, meet the right person, if you can change the time into a pair, you can be with the right person.

    If the time is not right, and you meet the right person, and there is no way to change the status quo, then you can only let go and let the right person find the right person at other times.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When we meet the right person at the wrong time, we have to rely on our own efforts to turn the wrong time into the right time. Because it's really not easy to meet the right person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love or not is up to you, this is a subjective experience, in fact, there is no way to think rationally.

    I always believe in love at first sight, maybe just because the crowd has a little more look, followed by a long thought, this feeling is often involuntary, so to say that falling in love with someone or not loving someone, this is not up to you, you have no way to make yourself fall in love with someone you don't love, and you have no way to forget a person you have fallen in love with. So don't ask if you love or not, just ask yourself if you're in love.

    You should also be brave enough to pursue love at the wrong time, and life is short and you can't afford to miss it.

    Life is very short, and you have to cherish fate

    A person's life is so short a few years, because there is no courage to give up a person, because the door is not right, give up a person, and then give up a person because the time is not right, in fact, there are too many reasons for you to give up, if you want to give up, any reason can make you give up, but your life can withstand a few times to give up, there is no turning back when you open the bow, life is bought a one-way ticket, it is impossible to start again, so you have to cherish the person in front of you, as long as you fall in love with it, then be brave once.

    Life is so short can not withstand the miss, I really don't understand, why some people are always timid, feel that the time is not right, the conditions are not right, so they can't get along with their hearts, how to twist the jaw how to come, in fact, it is difficult for such people to get happiness, you should be brave to face love, we should persevere in the pursuit, only in this way can we reach the other side of happiness.

    It is more important to have it once than to have it forever

    Even if you can't go to the end, but you should have a brave beginning, once have often more memorable than ever, as long as it is true love, you are not afraid of anything, what time is not time, I think you can ignore love here, that is, you should be reckless.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In the wrong time, when you meet the right person, there is no result, for example, your lover is ten years old, even if you meet, you can't love, because, only so big, so the right time is very important, or, your lover is not single, you have met, the same love can't be, so, love or not, there is no result, only at the right time!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I want to try to meet the right person at the wrong time, not every time I meet the right person, even if we can't be together in the end, at least I have experienced love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I meet the right person at the wrong time, I feel like I won't love. Because of this situation, it will be easy to have a difficult sadomasochistic relationship, which can be exhausting. Even if I succeed in the end, I feel very tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since it's the wrong time, I think it's best not to love, otherwise it may really hurt yourself and affect the lives of others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as the other party is not married, of course you have to love, and you must firmly grasp the right person when you finally meet it, otherwise you will miss it and regret it for a lifetime.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course love, when you meet someone you like in the vast sea of people, why not seize this opportunity, as long as you meet the right person, you must seize the opportunity and don't give up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's better not to, because this will hurt both yourself and the other party, which will only hurt others and yourself, so why bother. If there is really a fate, there will be opportunities in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's love to meet the right person at the wrong time, because it means that there is no fate, and the final result is not good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    From an objective standpoint:

    A person's whole life is spent in the contradiction between reality and ideals, desires and principles.

    The cruelty of reality and the many desires that make many fragile people give up their proper personality and morality, and from these words of yours, I have seen that you are not a strong person, and there is some self-pity.

    They said, "Poor people must have something to hate, but I don't want to say that about you."

    I want to tell you: if you think only about yourself and not about others all your life, then you will be doomed to more pain than happiness.

    People tend to have a ridiculous habit of forgiving themselves easily.

    Stand your ground:

    You said that you had only begun to understand him since you had met his wife... began to understand him, saying that he and his wife were not people of the same world, you said that you loved him and cared about his family, and never thought of hurting and threatening his family, and he said that he loved you and loved your future.

    But if he didn't have the money or the ability, would there still be these things between you?

    People will find too many high-sounding reasons for their actions under desire, but they don't know how to reflect on the shame.

    You've had an abortion and you're still making excuses for such a man, are you stupid?

    Advice for you: Pack up your earnings and exchange them for cash, and leave your city to cut ties with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Come out of this shadow as soon as possible and find your own happiness. Bless you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Brother stroked the dog's head on the first floor and smiled without ......saying a word

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, you have already chosen yourself, you understand that this should not be, you just think he is very good, and you also know that he hopes you will be good, then, you are really good when you quit, and love without results is a tragedy after all, let go, let him go, and let go of yourself. Have fun.

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