We say that a person is unreasonable, does anyone know the origin of the word reason 10

The word "truth" evolved from "Taoism" and "science" in the Song Dynasty.

Reasonable people will discuss relevant matters in a gentle manner, they can analyze the matter from multiple angles, and make reasonable choices according to different situations. Unreasonable people are different, they tend to deal with the problem of inconsistency with a tough attitude, they are not willing to consider the opinions of others, and they are not willing to analyze the ins and outs of the matter, it is just a road of orange argument, a path that they think is right, and they will take a tough attitude to achieve their own goals, and even vexatious situations will occur.

The most vexatious person I've ever seen is someone who once attended a business meeting. At the meeting, even though everyone else had reached an agreement, he still insisted on his own ideas, refused to give in no matter how others persuaded him, and even expressed many doubts, which made the atmosphere of the meeting very awkward. In addition, he repeatedly quoted what everyone said to prove his point, which made everyone impatient, but he still refused to budge.

In the end, everyone couldn't stand his vexatious troubles and had to leave the conference room, and his behavior also made everyone lose confidence in him.

In life, we always think that people are reasonable, so we always like to be reasonable when solving problems. It turns out that you are reasonable, but the person you are dealing with is not necessarily a reasonable person. No matter how much you tell unreasonable people, it is useless for them to not listen, but their thinking is also different from that of normal people.

Their cognition is not at the same level and level as yours, so reasoning with them is like playing the harp to a cow, and the more you talk about it, it will only be a waste of time, and it will not help the problem you are trying to solve.

If you talk too much, it is the reasonable person who is tired. In the eyes of unreasonable people, you become unreasonable people, this is a person who stands on his own position to speak, and it is a waste of words to speak. If this is the case, if it is not really necessary, you should not even explain the truth to them in the first place, let alone tell them one after another in order to reach some kind of consensus.

In fact, most of us always feel that through our own efforts, the other party will definitely change, because we are reasonable, but the truth is the opposite.

After really understanding this truth from the heart, don't entangle with unreasonable people at the beginning, the so-called road leads to the sky and go to one side, otherwise the most consumed in the end can only be yourself.

Some people are unreasonable but justified, perhaps because they are emotionally agitated or overconfident, they feel that they are right, and there may be people who are naturally strong and not good at accepting other people's opinions and suggestions.

The most vexatious person may exhibit the following characteristics:

1.It is even contrary to common sense and morality to insist on asking others to do certain acts without reason or unreasonable reason.

2.Constantly raising one's own voice, being aggressive, and even making personal attacks on others.

3.Ignoring the feelings of others, only considering their own interests, and even using intimidation, blackmail and other means to achieve their own goals.

4.Lack of rational response to criticism and refutation of others, and reluctance to listen to the opinions and suggestions of others.

To deal with such people, we may need to adopt the following strategies:

1.Stay calm and rational, don't be as excited as the other party, avoid emotional conversations, and communicate rationally.

2.Stick to your position and principles, but don't go-for-tat, respond with facts and logic, and don't get into arguments with the other party.

3.Try to find the common ground of the other party, ease the other person's emotions, and communicate and communicate more in order to better solve the problem.

4.If the situation is no longer manageable, you can opt out of the conversation and find another way to resolve the issue.

In short, dealing with unreasonable people requires us to remain calm and rational, and adopt the appropriate strategy to better solve problems and protect our own rights and interests.