What is the reason why Aunt Xue did not marry the Wang family but married the Jia family?

It may be because the Jia family is very convenient in the capital all the year round, and it is also very close to the palace.

In contrast, the Jia family has greater interests in the Xue family; Baochai and Baoyu have a good relationship, compared with the Wang family, the Jia family has a more emotional foundation; The Wang family is thriving, and they may not be able to see Baochai.

The title of Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang in "Dream of Red Mansions" is the author's title for the two. The characters in the book don't call them by their first names.

In ancient times, women married their husbands from their husbands' surnames, so there would be differences in their titles. For example, Mrs. Wang should be Jia Wang, and Aunt Xue should be Xue Wang. But in order to distinguish between the two, the author used what others called her and called them by her surname.

Everyone in the Jia family calls the second lady of Xing Wang a lady or a wife. For example, the eldest lady, the second lady; The eldest wife, the second and second wife. But the reader cannot distinguish this way.

Therefore, Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang are accustomed to their own family names by the author as a distinction. Others such as You Shi, You Second Sister, You Third Sister and so on are the same. And Li Kun and Wang Xifeng are like this.

Originally, it should have been Jia Li's and Jia Wang's respectively. But it's hard to tell. So I just named them.

In the book, Mrs. Wang and Li Kun, Baoyu, Yingtanxi and the servants of the Jia family all call Mrs., but if they want to call Mrs. in front of outsiders, Mrs. is an honorific title, so Cao Xueqin calls her Mrs. Wang instead of Mrs. Wang. Only Jia's mother will say to Jia Baoyu, Mrs. Wang: Your mother....This is determined by Jia's mother's status as an elder.

Xue Baochai is called aunt, and Lin Daiyu is called aunt. Even for the sake of identity, Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue will call each other Mrs. Aunt in front of outsiders.

Aunt Xue's situation is similar. Because she is from the Xue family. Although his surname is Wang.

But to call her like You Shi, it's not good to call her Wang, it seems very ordinary. So I called her from Jia Baoyu and other juniors. Because she is Jia Baoyu's aunt and is from the Xue family, she is called Aunt Xue.

In the book, Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, Yingtanxi and others call her aunt and aunt. Mother Jia, Mrs. Xing, the Jia family calls her aunt and wife. Wang Xifeng called Aunt Xue an aunt in person according to her seniority, but when she told outsiders, she called her aunt's wife.

As for Aunt Xue, Mrs. Wang, the title between the two sisters. According to the ancient rites, there are few sisters who are commensurate, because they are all married and have children, so they are often called (his) aunt from the child, (his) aunt, which is the name of the child.

So it can be seen from the different names of the two that they are called differently on different occasions and different characters. However, the titles of Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang were given by the author, and as for the titles of Aunt and Auntie, or Mrs. Wang, they were the names of the two people on different occasions by the people of the Jia family.

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The two families are related, Xue Baochai's mother and Jia Baoyu's mother are sisters.

Aunt Xue, the sister of Wang Ziteng, the envoy of the Jingying Festival in "A Dream of Red Mansions", and Mrs. Wang are sisters born to the same mother. The Xue family is an imperial merchant with a million-dollar fortune, and the "talisman" is on the clouds, "Pearls are like earth, gold is like iron!" "Aunt Xue gave birth to a son Xue Pan and a daughter Xue Baochai.

Because of her husband's early death, she couldn't help but indulge and dote on her son, so Xue Pan lived a luxurious life, spoke arrogantly, and was the boss. She took a lot of trouble for Baochai's marriage, and said early, "You must choose a jade lock to match!" In the end, she and Mrs. Wang finally got Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai married, but after all, "the gold and jade are empty."

The relatives are certain, mainly Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang are sisters, and they are both daughters of the Wang family!

Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang are sisters.

Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu are cousins and brothers.

Aunt Xue and Jia Zheng's wife, Wang, are sisters born to the same mother.

It's not annoying to write so much nonsense on the first floor.

Mother Jia proposed to Aunt Xue for Baoyu, but Aunt Xue did not refuse. At that time, although it was a plan to transfer the contract, but Jia's mother proposed her own relatives, and seeing that Baoyu was sick like this, she didn't know how stupid she was, so she agreed, but she was wronged by Baochai.

When Aunt Xue politely refused Jia's mother's proposal for Baoqin, she said that Xue Baoqin had already made a marriage. Is it a real marriage, or is it a polite excuse to refuse? I don't know.

But when it comes to this question, I thought about it along the lines of thought today. I think Aunt Xue is a more honest and honest person, and she shouldn't be deceived by the truth.

There is only one time in my impression, when Aunt Xue chatted with Baochai, Daiyu and Zijuan, she said that she wanted to be a matchmaker in front of the old lady several times, and "matchmaker's words" for Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu's main marriage, saying that their appearance and talent are a natural pair. Zijuan, who has been worried about Daiyu for several years, heard that she immediately urged Aunt Xue why not to tell the old lady, and Aunt Xue replied to Zijuan: You are so anxious about the girl's marriage, are you waiting for your girl to come out of the cabinet, so you can find a boy?

In the past, single young people "find a good man and get married", which is equivalent to blocking Zijuan's "mouth" at once. Aunt Xue did not propose the marriage of Bao Dai and the two to Mother Jia later, but when Aunt Xue was chatting at the time, Aunt Xue said that, but did not say it officially, and Aunt Xue also explained it to Zijuan face to face.

Question, I got up early this morning and revisited the original book of "Dream of Red Mansions". It was in the ninety-sixth episode that Jia's mother mentioned to Aunt Xue, because at that time, Wang Ziteng had just died of an accident, Jia Zheng was about to go out of office, and Jia Baoyu was in a stupid state of "losing jade" in his illness. Jia's mother was worried about it, and before Jia Zheng took office, she agreed to arrange Baoyu's marriage, and she was also overjoyed.

Jia Zheng said that this matter would be handed over to Jia's mother, Mrs. Wang, and Wang Xifeng, and they would just agree, but the original book wrote that in fact, Jia Zheng was uncomfortable, although Jia Zheng had already expressed his abstention on Bao Dai's marriage in the seventy-fifth round, followed by Mrs. Wang's seventy-fourth inspection of the Grand View Garden, and when the real thing came, he felt uncomfortable.

But since ancient times, parents have not known their children's inner world and thoughts (now in the study of education, parents are more and more respectful of their children and enter their children's inner world). Including Jia's mother, they (they) didn't expect Baoyu to be emotional, and the reaction would be so strong, and as a result, they lost Baoyu's marriage, which was an opportunity for the Jiafu family that was already in decline, because Jia Zheng was still an official at that time, and if Baoyu's marriage went well, there was a chance to rebuild the home. The result of the marriage tragedy is the ending of the ninety-seventh episode of "Lin Daiyu burned the manuscript to break the infatuation, and Xue Baochai became a big gift", and there was no improvement, so it is not in this detail**.

Because Aunt Xue used to value the high position and power of Jiafu, but now that Jiafu has lost, she also needs the help of the Xue family, so Jia's mother proposed, but Aunt Xue was unwilling to help them.

This is just a prevarication, mainly to show respect for Jia's mother. But his heart was very happy, and he also agreed very much with this marriage.

In fact, Mother Jia is not a propose, she just showed a small sign. Aunt Xue didn't refuse, Mother Jia hadn't said it yet, she felt that "her heart was solid and satisfied", if it weren't for Baoqin's marriage contract, she couldn't ask for it, and Aunt Xue couldn't refuse, she couldn't refuse this pie that fell from the sky. You say that a person likes to win the jackpot every day, and suddenly this day really comes, and you say that she will turn away the winning ticket, which is not in line with conventional human nature, right?

How could it not be agreed?

Aunt Xue is an important character in "Dream of Red Mansions", and her relationship with Jiafu is very complicated. In **, Aunt Xue is a maiden relative of Jia Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang, and is also the righteous daughter of Jia's mother. She has a high status in Jiafu and has a profound influence on the rise and fall of the Jiafu family.

As a relative of Mrs. Wang, Aunt Xue has an irreplaceable role in Jiafu. She has the best trust and influence, and has an important say in the decision-making of Jia Zhihefu. Especially after the death of Jia's mother, Aunt Xue has become one of the pillars of Jiafu, and her strength has been more affirmatively recognized.

In the **Sen faction, Aunt Xue chose to stay in Jiafu instead of returning to her mother's home. This move shows her deep connection with Jiafu, as well as her full faith and loyalty to the Jiafu family. At the same time, she also brought her family into Jiafu, further narrowing the relationship between the two families.

The relationship between Aunt Xue and Jiafu is full of traditional blood kinship and eternal friendship, and her image in ** also has profound historical significance. Aunt Xue is not only a character, but also a witness and bearer of the inheritance and history of the Jiafu family. Her presence has an extremely important place in "Dream of Red Mansions".