The more you love a man, the more you must know where to refuse ?

I think the first thing is to refuse to have an improper relationship before marriage, and you must refuse the other party to spend your money, refuse to have financial entanglements with the other party, and refuse the other party to participate in your work; And be careful not to talk to men about privacy issues, not to discuss your family, and not to tell men about your weaknesses.

Refuse excessive physical contact, refuse to give everything you have, refuse to take the initiative to show love, refuse to have some intimate contact with men, refuse men to say that your family is not good, women must learn to enjoy, learn to let men pay.

When you borrow money, when you make unreasonable demands, when you are not allowed to go to work, when you are not allowed to take care of him, and when you are not allowed to go to normal socializing, you must refuse.

Refuse to get very close to other boys, and will refuse to spend money indiscriminately, will save him money, and will refuse to allow his boyfriend to be playful and unmotivated, will refuse to be the other party's vase, and refuse to accept the other party's care.

Don't get too close to other members of the opposite sex, don't let your boyfriend be too playful, don't let your boyfriend spend money indiscriminately, don't be a housewife, you must be independent, and you must know how to refuse in these places.

When you give up your career, you will be more willing to choose independence. Pinning the rest of one's life on a man is often the beginning of a woman's misfortune. When he is hot and cold to you, you will refuse to play such a love game with him.

In terms of money, being able to refuse a man to spend money for himself. In terms of living habits, it is possible to reject the habit of men not taking the initiative to meddle in themselves.

In terms of material life, when two people eat together, women have to pay, and they don't need men to pay for what they like.

Refuse the ambiguous relationship between a man and his ex, refuse the other party's deception, refuse to tolerate the other party unconditionally, refuse to give up his career for the other party to fall out with his parents and lose himself.

Refuse to spend a man's money all the time, refuse him to be close to the opposite sex, refuse to lose his bottom line, refuse to lose his life, and refuse to make too many sacrifices.

The first is to buy her a bouquet of flowers, the second is to buy her a small gift, the third is to accompany her shopping, the fourth is to travel with her, and the fifth is to eat with her.

If a man really loves you, he will not refuse many of your requests, for example, he will not refuse to give you gifts during the holidays, and he will not refuse your advice to him, but he will listen to your advice and constantly correct himself.

No matter how busy a man is, as long as you say that you want him to accompany you, he will not easily refuse you, and he will ask to be in charge of his finances and will not refuse the requests of his family and friends who want to see him.

Illegal things, because even if you love someone again, you can't do illegal things.

You can't associate with other men, even if you love your own man, you have to have your own social circle.

If you don't interact with the woman's parents, you must not do this.

I think that women must not take the initiative, and they must not do something to hurt themselves for the other party, and they must not pay for the other party, I think these things must be paid attention to, otherwise you will become very sad.

Refuse to compromise for him without a bottom line, refuse his casual invitation to stay, and refuse to forgive him for all his serious sorry behavior. Because I think a woman must have a principled bottom line, so that she can have a complete personality.

No matter how much this woman loves this man, you must refuse some things that may happen very ambiguously, don't let yourself be too casual, we must also love ourselves more, don't let yourself be too active, don't let the boy think that he just needs to say some sweet words to you, don't let him feel that we have no requirements for him.

Even if you like a man very much, you can't give up your dignity for the other party, let yourself become without any respect, you can't give up your dignity again and again for him, you still have to get better slowly.