I should get a divorce, I m really sad in my heart, and I gave it all

Marriage is always a siege of love.

I married him because I loved him.

But we can't choose to leave because we don't love anymore.

Marriage requires two people to manage it well, and it hurts. Crying. It's love!

Regretted it. Confused. It's marriage.

If it's not good, then take it slowly.

Sometimes, it's romantic when it's windy and rainy!

Listen to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", after watching 40 episodes, you will definitely not regret making a decision.

I think that if your husband makes a mistake in principle, it will not be bad for you, don't think too much.

Another: It is advisable to find a job so that you will not have so much time to think about it.

Since he can't give you a happy life, then why are you still with him, the two of you are together just to be happy, and even if you are not happy, then you can leave.

It's time for you to talk to your LG and see what he thinks, whether he wants you to work or something else. As for his own plans, if he has to be in Beijing all the time, many things are questions. You can't live apart for the rest of your life.

Talk about your own thoughts as well. Finally, see if you can agree on the general direction. You are married to your husband, you want to live with your husband for the rest of your life, and you are not married to your parents-in-law, so the most important thing about this question is the thoughts of you and your husband, if you can agree and have confidence in the future, then part; If not, then leave.

I think you should get divorced, you want to find a happiness and rely on when you get married, and now you don't feel like a family at all, and staying in that home will only make you more and more miserable. It's just the beginning, and I'm afraid that my own children will slowly alienate you in the future.

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Divorce won't solve the problem, try to find a job to do, and then live independently with your parents. If you just want to be a housewife and can't marry a rich man, then these grievances must be suffered.

Because I can't be independent, I will be angry with my in-laws, since I don't like to look at other people's faces, since I feel helpless without money, why do I have to be in the head of the family, women are not independent.

Only financially independent people can be self-reliant, you should find a job, self-reliance to get self-esteem, why do you have to be supported by a husband?

Self-reliance can lead to self-improvement, and self-improvement can have self-esteem ......

Be sure to leave. It's so unusual.

Summary. Hello, thank you very much for your patience, if the divorce is not sad at all, it means that the two people have no feelings for a long time, so the divorce is a relief for you, so you will not feel sad, the words of the two people before, are also for the children, or for some reason, have been insisting, but there is no emotion for a long time, so now there is a divorce, it is very normal, I hope it will help you, and you can also consult if you have any questions in the future.

It's not sad at all to get divorced.

Hello, thank you very much for your patience, if the divorce is not sad at all, it means that the two people have no feelings for a long time, so the divorce is a relief for you, so you will not feel sad, the words of the two people before, are also for the children, or for some reason, have been insisting, but there is no emotion for a long time, so now there is a divorce, it is very normal, I hope it will help you, and you can also consult if you have any questions in the future.

Because she worked in Haidilao, I went on a business trip for 4 months, and when I came back, she didn't let me touch it, and the place of work was far away from home, so he lived in the Haidilao dormitory, and refused to come out every time I asked her. I really can't stand the angry talk of divorce. The first time she didn't agree, and in the end, she quarreled and fought for two months, and she filed for divorce, and no matter how much I tried to redeem it, it was useless.

Hello, thank you very much for your patience, if this is the case, it means that there is a gap between the two people, but there is no principled problem, it should not be directly like this, is there a situation on the other side.

You analyze whether there is someone outside her.

Hello, thank you very much for your patience in waiting for this situation, it can feel like there is someone outside, but now that the two people have divorced, it is not recommended, and then continue to tangle this kind of problem can give the other party a period of time, and then start again to see if the other party can accept it.

If there is someone outside her, even if she is willing to turn back, I can't accept it.

So you observe now, because now that the two of you are divorced, if there is someone outside him, it will definitely appear, so you can observe it.

1. When you feel uncomfortable, you should cry out loud.

Crying is a great way to temporarily relieve emotional stress. Crying out loud when you feel upset is a natural reaction to grief and a very natural and necessary first step in repairing your mind, don't ignore or skip it.

2. When you feel uncomfortable, don't carry it alone.

When you feel bad, tell your loved ones how you feel and find a warm embrace or a strong arm. Or find a close friend and pour out your inner troubles. Even if you choke up and can't speak, it is comforting to let him or her be by your side quietly.

In the process of telling, you will also get a kind of catharsis.

3. You can choose to divert your attention when you are psychologically uncomfortable.

If something gets sadter the more you think about it, then try not to think about it, keep yourself busy, and let yourself have no time to think about it. You focus your attention on everyday things like swimming, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. You can also choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, and undisturbed, take a position where you feel more comfortable, stand, sit or lie down, and imagine something quiet and beautiful.

Or move some of the body's big joints and muscles and do some simple exercises.

Fourth, the ultimate way to deal with psychological discomfort: peek into the depths of your heart.

There is a saying: there must be a reason for everything. Psychological discomfort may be caused by certain events in life, or after an emotional problem has been hit, negative emotions such as sadness, loneliness, and emptiness linger in the heart.

To fundamentally solve the problem of psychological discomfort, we must start with its causes. Peek deep inside and see what is swaying your heart. Try to use rational thinking to analyze the cause of your discomfort and change it completely in response to the event.

5. What to do if you are psychologically uncomfortable: look at the world with another eye.

Rational emotion** says: The cause of the discomfort in the heart is not the event itself, but the person's thoughts. So even after you look for life events that trigger discomfort in our hearts, we can free our minds by changing our perceptions.

Not everyone in this world is going well, just look at how you solve it, and be optimistic about anything you encounter and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second, life will inevitably fall and wait to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

Life is indeed not easy, and there are still many people in this society who are similar to you, but they are all living happily. As long as you work hard to take everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is, I believe that no matter how uncomfortable your heart is, you can get through it well.

It's not easy to let go, it's hard to let go of the bits and pieces of so many years, and people who have no heart and no lungs can forget it in minutes It's really too painful and uncomfortable.

That's for sure. Hurry up and adjust yourself, there is still a long way to go.

Just start one more paragraph. It's true.

When you have a new life, it won't be uncomfortable.

You need some time to heal ...

Looking at your divorce is indeed a problem for both parties, not just one person.

Even if there is a mistake to apologize, it is only for you to apologize, and it has nothing to do with your parents.

This woman has a strong personality, is easily excited, does not value the family, does not have a strong sense of responsibility for the family, regards divorce as child's play, reckless, does not attach much importance to the family, cannot tolerate some family conflicts, and cannot properly consider each other.

I say this, not to say that he is not good, but to tell you, of course, you are also a little lacking in consideration, many people impulsively go to court for divorce. If you still have love for him, then you shouldn't agree to the divorce so decisively, but you should give her a step, apologize, and go home.

After all, a husband and wife for a hundred days, you care about her, which means that you are affectionate and righteous, and you value feelings.

I think he will also reflect on himself, divorce is also a very important event in a woman's life. Will she find someone better than you in the future? Will anyone be found who can tolerate these behaviors of hers? She is sure that when she is alone, she will think calmly.

You can contact him appropriately, such as through network text messages, you have to contact her generously, such as holiday greetings, if she is still in love, then you still have a chance to reunite.

Seeing that you are still so attached, it is recommended that you try it, it really doesn't work, and you don't have to regret it, the man's initiative is not lowly, it is an excellent performance of the man who takes the initiative to go in, just like when he is in love, a man should take the initiative, and it is the success of an excellent man to take the initiative to win the heart of his beloved.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read! Marriage needs to be inclusive and need to understand each other. There is no absolute right and wrong!

Be sympathetic to what you're going through. Whoever is right and who is wrong, the outcome is the loss of both sides and the responsibility of both parties. The abuse itself does not seem to be singular, and the reason for the result is not only this one, it may be related to your past bickering, and it will accumulate over time to have today's results.

You can be regarded as a flash marriage, which is a characteristic of modern marriage. If you don't have children, if you have the opportunity, ask her friend or your best friend to intervene indirectly to see if the other party has a good impression of you, and then find a chance to contact to see if there is a possibility of remarriage.

Be cautious about marriage, don't choose divorce until you have to, think twice, if you still love her, continue to work hard to get in touch, don't personally mention your property with him, and let the third party use these as a sign that you love her through chatting.