What is in a man s heart when he marries an ugly wife

Male psychologists believe that in addition to being related to history, the psychology of men marrying ugly wives is often manifested as a scoundrel in reality.

Men's sense of security is at work.

This mentality of men is very common and can be attributed to their "ugly wife mentality". Generally speaking, young and beautiful girls are more attractive to men, which can be said to be an evolutionary inheritance. In addition, chasing a beautiful woman will have "face", and vanity also plays a lot of roles.

So, they spend a lot of time courting beautiful girls, complimenting them on their beauty, and even buying clothes and other things generously to please them. At this time, the man stands in the perspective of the connoisseur and feels that the woman is like a delicate work of art, pleasing to the eye, with incomparable attraction and charm.

However, once a man marries a beautiful girl and his vanity is satisfied, the sense of security rises to the top of the country, and only plainness is blissful. People say that "there are three treasures in the family, and the ugly wife Botian breaks the cotton jacket", and no one covets it, which is equivalent to having a sense of security. "A glass of wine can relieve worries, and an ugly woman can have a white head", these proverbs also illustrate the same truth.

Married men are more realistic.

After marriage, there will be subtle changes in the psychology of men who are keen on dressing up for their wives. Just as the advantages of pre-marriage have become disadvantages, it is not the behavior that changes, but the psychology.

But men are often afraid to admit their worries and vulnerabilities. When they don't feel safe, it's rare to communicate openly with their wives for reassurance. Instead, they will treat their wives with an attitude of neglect, resentment, and even blame, hoping that she will no longer attract attention.

"Beautiful wife" can also be white-headed.

However, it is important to know that a woman who keeps men without any pressure will only burn out men, and besides, the necessary grooming of women is also good for physical and mental health and self-confidence. Therefore, a woman should have a certain degree of judgment and autonomy, do not blindly confront or obey her husband's opinions, and can take the time to have a good talk with him to understand his real thoughts.

If you blindly obey your husband in order to avoid conflicts, it will not only damage your self-esteem, but also make the relationship between husband and wife superficial, lacking sincere understanding and communication.

And if husbands can bravely express their true thoughts and not hide their vulnerability, they will be rewarded more sincerely, and beautiful wives can still be "safe".

I believe that most men like to find a beautiful woman to be their wife, but there are always ugly women in this world, so there are always some men who want to marry ugly women. Maybe some men are very reluctant in their hearts, thinking that ugly women can't satisfy their need to appreciate beauty. However, the ugly girl is a little worse in appearance.

Why do women attract bees and butterflies?

1. The ugly girl's family background is better than that of the man.

2. I really can't marry a wife.

3. In the eyes of the lover, there is a shih hiff.

4. Men are afraid of marrying beautiful cuckolds.

5. The parents' baby relatives can't resist.

6. Only after seeing the true face can you not regret your marriage.

7. was taken by an ugly woman, and was abducted and deceived to obtain a license.

8. It is purely to pass on the family or deal with the family, and then it is convenient to come out.

9. Other reasons and other banquets.

Generally speaking, stupid ones definitely won't like it. But don't be too smart ...

Just imagine, who would like a stupid person with a croaking head. It's a headache just thinking about it.

When you're in love, you're a little stupid, and a man may still think it's cute. It's not good to really get along. It's because stupidity can make men annoyed to death.

It would be nice to be smart. A bit of a ripe taste.

Because smart people are more promising. Promising equals having a rich career, which means that there is a greater possibility of becoming a successful man, and capable people are always in demand. Everyone has their own side of the tribulation, and smart people are better at their aspects because the environment gives them opportunities.

So highlight their intelligence even more, I believe you are not bad, even if you are not usually top-notch, there is always a strong side of you. Good luck.

There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great! What man is willing to bear a crime!

If you can find out what your girlfriend needs, such as how to deal with you when she is in a bad mood and what to do when she is in a good mood, then you can become a smart person in her mind. If you think that it is difficult for you to improve this point at present, then you can make more money, as long as you have money, you will make money, then your daughter-in-law will think you are smart!

It is better to take the initiative to stop fighting, and then communicate with him after he has calmed down. There is no need to touch hard, it is better to overcome rigidity with softness.

A man who judges people by his appearance is called superficial.

The reason why handsome people marry ugly wives is because they pursue a sense of security and feel that ugly wives will live honestly.

In life, we will always see all kinds of couples, and in people's subconscious, if two people can be together, it must be a price match in all aspects. But this is not the case with the couples we meet in our lives, and there are some couples who don't feel very compatible at first glance. It can be seen everywhere in life, and many handsome men marry wives who are mediocre.

Because men feel safe, the stereotype is that if a man marries a wife who is very bleach and bright, the average family can't hold it, and men also have this idea. Women who find themselves too beautiful are very attractive to the opposite sex, and men feel that the latter is more self-conscious than women with mediocre appearances, because the opposite sex will not be easily attracted to the latter's appearance, thus reducing the chance of women making mistakes in marriage.

Live honestly

In marriage, if a very handsome man makes trouble and marries a wife who is mediocre, it means that the man believes that she lives honestly in marriage, and if she is a very beautiful woman, she may not be too honest, because a beautiful woman has a higher pursuit of life. Even if she is married, her heart is outside, and beautiful women don't want to be bound to the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, but this is not the case with mediocre-looking women.

Because she can take care of her family in marriage, instead of pretending to be a beautiful woman and pursuing an extraordinary life. Many women say that they are unwilling to live with their parents-in-law after getting married. Because there is a certain generation gap between the two generations, it is not easy to communicate at all.

But although men don't want to live with their families, they also want their wives and their parents to get along well. So he hopes that his girlfriend can be a filial woman.