What will it be like for a child who has been in the nest and cowardly outside since he was a chil

When I grow up, I will become me, and this kind of child will be more timid and introverted. They often feel inferior because they can't express themselves. Sometimes I feel sad that I don't get appreciated by others.

When the children in the nest grow up, they will only be in the nest, and they will not become a big deal, and if they have a temper, they will only send to those close to them, such people are generally temperamental and have no ability to do things.

There are generally two development outcomes, continued cowardice and an extremely hard-line attitude. Getting home is the ultimate performance, after all, without help, the psychology and external factors will not change, and they will continue to be coaxed. And when an extremely tough attitude occurs, it is a good improvement after showing resistance, and after making people feel happy physically and mentally, and no longer exert pressure on the child, then the child's thinking will change and will no longer be cowardly.

When you grow up, you will often hit a wall in society. Because of the doting family since childhood, I don't understand the world when I grow up, and I will definitely be frustrated in society.

When you grow up, you have poor interpersonal communication, no one wants to be with people who are selfish and don't consider other people's feelings, and then it's easy to suffer, your family is used to you at home, and no one is used to your bad problems outside.

When such children grow up, they are reluctant to go outside, they will not get along well with others, they will be derailed from society, they will be incompatible, and they will feel great at home and complain about their families.

Low self-esteem, bad temper, poor popularity. Fear of external setbacks, resulting in a lack of self-confidence; The pressure from the outside causes you to have no good attitude and a bad temper; I can't communicate with people, so it's hard to make close friends.

Children who have been "in the nest and cowardly" since childhood can't escape these two endings when they grow up, first, poor interpersonal relationships; Second, it is easy to lose.

I think that when I grow up, I may lack courage and courage, or I will often vent my emotions to my family, and I may have a fragile and fragile heart, or I may not have much self-confidence.

Interpersonal communication will be very poor, do not know how to communicate with others, work enthusiasm is not good, hard work is not willing to do, easy to develop a lazy personality.

Poor interpersonal communication. Since childhood"The nest is horizontal and the outside is cowardly"children, such children, under the doting of their parents, not only develop a selfish character, but also lack the opportunity to communicate with their friends.

It's easy to lose. Since childhood"The nest is horizontal and the outside is cowardly"Child, he is used to being domineering at home, and everyone at home thinks that he is central to spoil him and get used to him. No one outside was as accustomed to him as the rest of the family, and he didn't know how to get along with others.

In a familiar environment, no matter who behaves more confidently and indulgently, it is human nature that being in an unfamiliar environment requires a certain amount of adaptation. However, if the child shows excessive sensitivity, nervousness and resistance to the new environment, the home and the outside are completely different styles, and the child, who usually seems to us to be very quiet and shy, is completely different at home. Some children behave arrogantly at home, have a very short temper, say whatever they want, do whatever they want, and shout when they are not satisfied, like a "little bully".

But when outside, others rarely let the children go, and not only that, but they will strictly enforce the norms and rules of the game. As a result, the child will feel very "uncomfortable" and "stressed". On the one hand, you need to suppress your emotions, and on the other hand, you want to integrate into social life.

Usually at home, he is like a little bully, no one dares to mess with him, and his grandparents still don't care, and they say that their grandson is to be infinitely favored. But even though he looks like the boss at home, he is bullied by other children outside and doesn't even dare to speak, so what is the reason?

If the child is in the nest, parents can let the child do what he can, such as sweeping the floor, washing socks, and try to let the child do something challenging on this basis, such as buying a ticket on the bus, swiping the card by himself, etc. By being exposed to different people and things, children can hone their independence. Every child will go through the stage of self-re-germination, in which the child will constantly test the bottom line of his parents for his independence.

For example, a child who is not allowed to eat candy is not allowed to eat candy in order to show that he is strong enough to resist the majesty of his parents. In order to eat sugar, crying and fussing, <>

Children in the nest are basically spoiled by their parents or families, and the family is overprotective, resulting in children in the nest. For this kind of child, the character of the nest is developed, and the child is prone to two situations in the process of interpersonal communication, either playing tricks in front of others, or acting cowardly in front of others.

It may be that the timidity is too small, and such a child is more troublesome. Therefore, parents should be more understanding of their children.

Because although the child is small, they are very smart and know that the family will tolerate him, so they dare to indulge themselves at home; And outside, on the one hand, because strangers dare not show their naughty side, and on the other hand, they also want to show their good side in front of others, so they dare not indulge themselves.

Some children have this situation because of their father, who has a father who dotes on him excessively and has an irresponsible father who will let the child be like this.

Children can learn by emulating their parents, if in daily life, parents are very strong, encounter difficulties, no one wants to compromise, in order to be able to quarrel for many years in a little thing, children in such a family atmosphere, will also learn to train their parents' personality, speech and behavior, plus some parents so-called strong only on the surface, can only be strong to the family, go outside, meet a stronger person will be cowardly, the child will also learn to train the appearance of parents, arrogant to the family, open to the outside people will admit it. In addition, if one of the members of the family is still relatively strong, for example, if the mother is relatively strong and has been oppressing the father, the child will also oppress the father when he hears and sees it, and he will look at the father very vigorously, and he will worry about the mother.

Children appear very weak outside, afraid of strangers, indicating that children's interpersonal skills are relatively poor, one of the reasons for poor social skills is that children lack leisure activities, always like to stay at home, and at home, every day to meet parents, communication with parents is a part of life, no matter what to say, parents will be tolerant, accept them, and parents communicate without pressure, sometimes children will make sex. Children are reluctant to socialize** and prefer to stay at home, which is related to the default of parents, parents are usually too lazy to go out, or usually worry that their children will cause trouble outside, and children are not allowed to go out.

When the child is born, the focus of the family is on taking care of the child, it is inevitable that there will be a situation of spoiling the child, parents and their children's grandparents, grandparents will come to take care of the child, around the child, if there is no bottom line to follow the child, to achieve the child's impulse, is excessive pampering, will cause the child to become more and more self-centered, self-centered, once the family does not satisfy the man, or reject themselves, will cry and make trouble, arrogant and unreasonable. Outside, there are passers-by, and everyone will not be as accustomed to children as their families, so children will be more restrained and more worried about communicating with others.

It may be related to the child's parents, sometimes the parents are very doting on the child, the child is insecure, and the excessive pampering of the child will lead to such a result.

The child's nest is horizontal, and the outside cowardice may be related to the child's personality and family. Parents should always pay attention to their children's personality and daily behavior and speech.

It is related to the child's personality and the guidance of the parents, and sometimes the parents blindly tolerate the child or spoil the child excessively, which will lead to such a result.

The child has a father who is "horizontal in the nest and cowardly outside", and the child has a father who spoils the baby too much, and when the child's requirements are always met unconditionally, the child will naturally feel that he is the "boss" of the family.