True love is the love of two free souls

Each of us longs for perfect love and all longs to be loved. So no matter how noble the soul is, or how ugly the heart, it wants to meet true love.

It is blissful to love someone, and it is also blissful to be loved by someone. The feeling of happiness is that you suddenly burst into another life, without warning, and unexpectedly, strange and surprised, shy and frightened, flustered and surprised.

Only in love do you discover that loveless souls are so lonely. It is only in love that you discover how much a lonely soul needs another soul to guard and accompany you.

The vigor of love means that you can love the same person a thousand times and ten thousand times with all your life, instead of loving a thousand people and loving ten thousand people without control. This world, flooded, is desire, not love.

Crazy for love, it means that love is focused and profound, love is persistent and selfless, love is unhesitating and dies for a lifetime, I believe that great love must be desolate, just like this earthly world can be desolate. What is earthly life? Perhaps, where love stretches, it is called the world.

Your concern is there, your love is there, your heart is there, your love is there, no more, no less, no more, no less. Sometimes, you forget yourself, you forget the world, but in the bottom of your heart, there will be someone who is indomitable, and this person must be the person you love the most.

This world, no matter how big the heart, is selfish in love. The more you love, the more you care, and the more you care, the more you don't tolerate others. When an open heart has become the size of a needle's eye, then this heart must be immersed and bound in love, and turn a thousand times for it.

The best love, in the end, is actually the interdependence of the soul. May we all meet the one with whom we have the same heart!

Love is a legal violence".

Love is beautiful, but unfortunately, love is sometimes violent and has been given a legitimate name by us, especially in family affection and love.

In front of most parents, we want to choose our own future and make our own decisions, but we often have no choice because of our parents' thousands of words "I am for your good". Or after making a brave choice, they are frequently accused and blamed by their parents pretending to be victims.

Of course, I believe that the love of parents is selfless, but everyone is an individual, and I try to understand their selfish side.

Love has become a natural request from the other party, asking the other party to forget about themselves to make changes for you, to adapt to your living habits, to follow your thoughts, to give up the concept of self. Isn't that a form of violence?

True love shouldn't be like this.

True love is the love of two free souls.

As Kant said, "I respect any independent soul, and although I don't approve of some of them, I can understand them as much as I can." ”

What's more, that's the person you love.

If you love someone, then please be tolerant and respectful, respect past life experiences, respect different values, understand the hardships in life, and not treat the other person as your "caged bird".

As a bystander, you can't judge your relationship itself, but one problem is clear, and now it's not your feelings that are at fault, but the two of you're in the mood for love and freedom.

In any case, one thing is certain, love and freedom are not in conflict with each other, and even the two complement each other. If you lose your freedom, that kind of love is called simple possession, and there is only the so-called freedom, and love will definitely be bruised.

His problem is that he lacks a minimum of trust in you, which leads him to be very sensitive to the friends around you. However, from a man's point of view, his reaction is actually very normal, which just shows that he loves you very much, maybe you don't accept this method itself. Makes you feel like your freedom to make friends is restricted.

I think you should have a good talk with him and establish a minimum of trust between each other, only in this way can you derive the freedom you say, and love can coexist with freedom.

There is another point that you may feel uncomfortable with, but it is important to point it out of a responsible attitude. In fact, it is normal for your boyfriend to be disgusted with the boy who pursues you, just imagine, who wouldn't look down on a rival who is competing with him for love? Unless he doesn't care about getting or losing you at all, do you think a man who doesn't care about himself can be trusted with his love?

He's not doing it right, but isn't it because you're not clear enough about it, or you've been procrastinating and not dealing with it properly, that makes him feel like a victim? From this point of view, you should think about it.

And you should be a little woman who is loved by thousands of people, sometimes she will be coquettish, and occasionally willful, which is normal, but remember not to go out again, because the two of you will turn off or not return, the responsible man, that is, he does not love you, he will also worry about your safety, but you are too eager to be free, and you do not communicate well with him, which leads to disputes and misunderstandings between you.

Communicate well, love and freedom can be at the same time, but freedom is not laissez-faire freedom, freedom is responsible for love. Heart-to-heart love will also give you a beautiful free space.

Hope: Happiness.

This is her second time in love, she is very strict and serious, and at the same time she has great hopes, and even hinted at my idea of getting married in 2008.

If you can give her a lifetime of happiness, you can say that you are too irresponsible now, and if you can't give her happiness and be with her, it will be too irresponsible.

There is nothing rational to talk about in emotional matters, I am also more rational, and I also pursue perfection, I also think that being single is a great pleasure, and I plan not to get married before the age of thirty or even not to get married for the rest of my life, but I think it's not that I don't want to get married, but it's too difficult to meet someone who can marry me and won't divorce, I'm afraid of getting married, thinking that as long as I don't get married, I won't hurt myself, in fact, every time I hurt, and finally I understand that what I want to do is not to escape, but to take the initiative to find someone I am willing to love for the rest of my life, and then marry her, and stay with her until death.

I can correctly understand the impact of its existence on me about things, and it is absolutely not for me to know how to cherish when I lose." Can you understand the impact of your existence on your family, on yourself?

What are you living for? You don't really know yourself, you don't know the meaning of your life. Only when you know yourself will you know what you need to do, hurry up and set yourself a position, believe that reality determines the ideal and the ideal reacts to reality.

Good luck!!

Can you also go to Ningbo. It is also convenient for you to solve problems in the same city. Otherwise, it will be difficult to maintain such a different place. If you can't go to Ningbo, you also have to agree on how often you meet.

But she's already broken up with you? Then try to live without each other.

Try it first. Because she has broken up, consider respecting her opinion, this is the last love for her.

If you really love her, you have to believe in her.

Money is precious, love is more valuable, if it is free to care, the two can be thrown away!

It's better for her, don't give her too much restraint, give her freedom, care about her everywhere, but don't be too wordy. That's it.

It's impossible for her not to stop reading for you, and you can't control your suspicions. Therefore, it is good to go with the flow, have a clear conscience, and look at the opening point.

When your girlfriend went to Ningbo to study, I don't know where you are? Are you already in the society, or are you still in the student stage?!

If you have entered the society, do it for yourself.

If you are still in the student stage, I suggest that you use your existing network and the resources of your school to try your hand at starting a business and plan for yourself.

In the future, in three or five years, I will work hard to achieve my own happiness.

What you do during this period can become the cornerstone of your start, the conversation with your girlfriend, the cultivation and accumulation of self-confidence, and the transfer of energy to your girlfriend's excessive intervention and restraint. At the same time, let your girlfriend know that she is working hard for her. And don't put more pressure on her, trust that she will also see what you have done and re-examine you.

Finally, I hope you can think about it and do it wonderfully. Good bye!

Have your own framework, but don't break someone else's.

A lyric: Which one will be more difficult to let go of, freedom or love.

It sounds like you can only choose one, there is no freedom with love, and there is no more love with freedom.

Let's just say, is there a possibility, because of love, go further. Originally, when I was alone, the time and space I could go to and reach were also limited, and there were many things in this world that I couldn't reach, and I didn't see much freedom when there was no love. And one day, I fell in love with you, and I sat under the night sky and described the universe to you, and you listened to it with relish, nodded your head again and again, stood up and made up a few strokes for it, and the universe in the night suddenly became one and brighter.

If there is no love, is there a possibility, because of friendship, the person who stood up and made up a few strokes for me tweeted and became a girl, and the universe was also lit up by her hand, like a wind chime meeting the wind, courage poured down and flowed out of the outline of the ladder, far away and suddenly walked.

If there is no friendship, is it possible, because of the self, the position around me is empty, I pick up the pen on the ground and light up that universe. Without him and without her, but the universe is so beautiful that it makes me forget that I am still scribbled and simple, and the ladder is shining, making me forget that I still have nothing, and forget that I am not free.

So freedom.