The girl and the boy said this, and the boy ignored the girl, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    I think the boy may want to focus on his career, wait for himself to work hard, and then come back to the girl, so that it can be proved that she is willing to work hard for the girl.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The emotional world of young people nowadays is really complicated. Maybe the postgraduate entrance examination is really a big deal for him, he failed the postgraduate entrance examination, he is indeed angry, but as a normal man, he is unlikely to rely on others for this responsibility, after all, we have a saying in Guangdong called "is not hard to rely on". If he really depends on you, then he really has a problem, this kind of man is not worth loving.

    If he blames himself, is in a bad mood, and doesn't want to pay attention to you, then it's understandable, maybe he dislikes you for being verbose, he always mentions that incident, he always reveals other people's scars, people will think that you don't know how to be polite, since you don't know how to be polite, then why should I ignore you? I don't know if he reminded you not to talk about it, or if he has reminded you, but you didn't find out, but since you are so sincere, it is still very gratifying to say that the first month's salary belongs to him. Maybe he really doesn't know how to cherish it, so let him go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Have you ever been admitted to graduate school? She's not suitable for others to chat, and her own ability is like that, if she gets married, she will give you quiet, then you care about him so much, you should marry her, that's okay, meet his needs, he can be admitted, right?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Guys don't want to make girls feel guilty about it. What's more, there are many reasons why I was not admitted to graduate school. It doesn't have to be about chatting.

    The girl blamed herself so much because of this incident, which brought suppressed negative emotions to both parties, and also affected the boy's self-esteem, so it was better for both parties to calm down for a while.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You don't need to blame yourself so much, after all, it's not so easy to go to graduate school, and if you talk to him, he can refuse, the two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend, there is no need to be so clear, always mention this matter, he may get bored after a long time, try not to mention it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you should not be in a hurry to get married, if she doesn't love you, you will suffer after getting married, take your time to understand, if you really don't love you as she said, no one should be mistaken for anyone's time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Say less about that. You feel like you're more self-reproachful and want to make amends or something. But once or twice the boy thinks that you have him in your heart, maybe you can feel better.

    But too many times will annoy you. It might really feel like it's about you. You just need to be in touch with how you usually do.

    Just how you get in touch.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He doesn't reply to you, maybe he thinks that you have put too much pressure on himself recently, and always attributed this matter to his own fault, and then chose to ignore you, maybe he wants to let you calm down and think about it carefully, in fact, judging from what you said, the boy didn't talk about it, and the blame on you is not to say that you want to compensate him for anything, I just hope that the two of you can return well to the same as before.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This pick-up is not necessarily on the girl's body, but the boy also has his own relationship, and when she chats like this, he has a certain meaning to you, maybe he has a crush on you. Just marry him directly, don't say I'm wrong, I'm wrong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    One thing is endlessly entangled, and everyone is annoyed. It's annoying enough that he didn't pass the exam, and you still remind him every day that he broke down.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The first few times a girl said this, the boy laughed at it as a girl's love, and the n times he said that the boy would feel that the girl had any purpose, and he would feel annoyed, and the girl's fault was not her own fault, but her own fault, and said it repeatedly

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since there is no reason to continue, the chat between the two is voluntary, and it can't be said that it is the reason for the girl!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Generally speaking, the first time a boy confesses to a girl, it is basically on WeChat, because when he is not sure how the girl feels, the boy does not dare to easily hold some relatively large confession ceremonies. Boys will half-jokingly say to girls on WeChat, "I like you,."

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's all a little trick to get away with, and it's almost certain that you like you a lot.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe the boy is "actively preparing for the exam" and trying to surprise you after passing the exam! aqui te amo。

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Meet your aunt and uncle.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then don't do anything, don't message him or hit **. Do your own thing.

    If he really didn't reply to you that day because of something, then he will come back to you when he sees it later, and if he doesn't want to reply to you, then no matter how much you send it, it's useless. It will only make him disgusted with you.

    If he doesn't come back, then you have to face up to the relationship. Because in every relationship, there will be friction between the two parties, but if it has been stiff and there is no sign of softness, it means that the other party is going to give up the relationship. In fact, no matter what the contradiction, as long as you want to be together, there is a way, it just depends on who pays more.

    I just don't want to be together, so I don't want to suffer any grievances.

    No matter what a relationship ends up with, if you take it seriously, you won't regret it. No matter what the final outcome is, you can face it calmly. Many times when dealing with a relationship, it is often said that it is to go with the flow.

    It's not that you don't say anything, you just do what you have to do. It's that you try to do it, but you can be comfortable with the results. That's really going with the flow.

    You can try to meet with him, ask him clearly, and if there is a misunderstanding, you can clear it. If the other party really has no intention of continuing, act freely and calmly, and there is no need to be entangled. There are some things that are anxious when waiting, but once you know the result, you can be calm.

    No matter what, be good to yourself, because love can't take up all of life, not that you lose all of your life, you still have a lot of family, friends, don't give up on yourself because of unsatisfactory love. It doesn't make any sense to do that.

    In fact, when many people fall in love, the other party will ignore the information before they want to leave. I don't want to persuade people and make peace like the usual way. Because once you want to leave, that kind of retention is superfluous.

    It can only be a bad match. Sometimes, forcibly retaining will only make both sides more embarrassed. In fact, sometimes I know what the other party thinks, but that layer of paper is not pierced.

    Then keep that indifference. is not a good match's feelings, and letting go is also the best comfort for yourself.

    The person who cares about you will have time even if he is busy, and if he sends a lot of messages and does not reply to you, it can only mean that he doesn't care or doesn't love you anymore, and sometimes he takes it for granted if he is too proactive. feels that you should be good to him, and will not cherish you well. Try to snub him for a few days to see what kind of attitude he has, if this is still the case, then you can only give up the relationship, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on what the reason for the boy's anger is, if he is angry with his girlfriend, then he doesn't have to talk to him, otherwise the girls will go to the red boy in the future, if other people are angry, the girl should comfort him, at that time, the boy needs a girlfriend who understands him the most.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In the end, he missed his fate.

    Questions. I've been with him for almost a year, and lately he's suddenly become hot and cold and almost ignore me. Initially contacted me several times a day, but recently it suddenly changed, I was depressed and confronted him, he said that he was busy with work, and I was not sure if he was an excuse or really annoying me.

    I feel like he's annoying me a little, but I'm unwilling, I like him very much, I don't want to give up, what should I do?

    If you have been together for more than a year, then the relationship may have reached a bottleneck and passed the freshness period.

    Don't worry, my dear, you have been together for more than a year and have a certain emotional foundation. Can you tell me more about how you got along this year? How does the other person treat you?

    Questions. Now my mind is full of him, and if he doesn't reply to messages, I'm restless, in a bad mood, and I feel like I'm about to be depressed. We have been together for a little more than 10 months, and he greets me every day no matter how busy he is, and I can feel that he likes me, but the last 10 days have suddenly changed.

    Suddenly ignoring me, I really didn't fit in, questioned him, he always said that I was thinking too much, I wasn't sure if it was an excuse? I want to leave, but I am very reluctant and painful. I wanted to hold on but didn't get a response, I didn't know what I was going to do.

    Yes, you have been together for so long, and the other party must have liked you very much, otherwise it would be impossible to insist on greeting for 10 months every day, and you must like some of your advantages and be able to attract each other. Then something must have happened in the middle of this to make him have such a change.

    Listening to your description, you can feel that the other person cares about you, but all of a sudden, if you question him, he may not necessarily tell the truth.

    Questions. There was nothing going on between us and there was no misunderstanding, just his simple indifference and perfunctory, he became even more indifferent after ignoring me a few times, and in the last few days I ignored him, and he ignored me directly.

    You can tell the teacher that he has always been good to you, but what is your attitude towards him when you get along with him?

    Is it good for him too? Welcoming? Or is there some waywardness?

    Questions. I like him several times more than he likes me, I am very enthusiastic when we are together, and I cherish the time together, is he tired of the new and the old? Tired of me? What am I going to do.

    My dear, you have a relationship foundation for almost a year, but in fact, the relationship is still very deep, and it will not be so easy to separate. But if you don't find the problem in time, then there will indeed be a crisis in your relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why ignore you? Is it because of the little things that are his fault or are you at fault? If it's a trivial matter, and it's a mistake, he ignores you, you must not go to him, this kind of stinginess can't get used to him, and he's still in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, this is used to others, why should I go to talk to you, I am also a little princess at home, why should I be angry with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm not actually ignoring you, it's because what you did made me very angry, so you have to take care of my feelings when you do things in the future, and don't feel that you can do whatever you want, because I'm dating you after all.

    I have the right to refuse to continue to associate with you, and if you can take care of my emotions and be considerate of the circumstances I find myself in, I will gladly associate with you.

    Therefore, friendship also needs to be cultivated by two people, and it cannot be maintained by only one person. Mutual respect is the minimum requirement.

    Each of us is an individual and has the right to decide what we do, and if you can't take care of my feelings, I can't accommodate you, so please be conscious.

    Hopefully, we can all be considerate of each other and that others will be able to continue our friendship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Asking questions is boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.

    Asked because I ignored him.

    It's good to go after the click.

    It's good to understand.

    Don't get too tangled.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are two meanings for the boy to ignore me, one is that he is coquettish in front of girls, and wants girls to coax him, hoping that girls care about him, and can say to him, "Okay, don't be angry, why are you so cute!" The second is that the boy thinks that the girl is unreasonable, and he really doesn't want to pay attention to the girl, and the girl should say, "I'm sorry to disturb you, I'll pay attention next time."

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What I think as a man means speechless. Sometimes, when my girlfriend says something incomprehensible, I make an affair.

    - "Expressions are speechless. Anyway, what do you women want?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really don't want to ignore him, treat him as if you didn't see this message.,If not, you can send a cute ** past.。

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls are more sensitive in daily life, so every move of boys will affect girls. Today I will share with you how to deal with the other party's "ignore you".

    1. It's okay, you're busy.

    When people of the opposite sex get along, developing people share their moods and dynamics with each other every day. But most of them don't like a question, that is, chatting and chatting suddenly the other party has not replied or not spoke, then don't blindly ask, you can directly say a ruthless conclusion, and the lack of travel says that you are busy to relieve the embarrassing atmosphere. So the premise that you have other things to do, this kind of behavior also makes him feel very gratified.

    2. Directly block and delete.

    More often, from the details of the chat between the two people, you can tell whether the other party has you in their hearts. If you send him a lot of caring or considerate words, but he always doesn't reply, or simply a word to perfunctory disturb and shout at you, from the attitude aspect, it shows that the other party has no feelings for you, since this is the case, it is meaningless to retain such a glimmer of hope, it is better to block and delete it.

    3. Wait.

    When you read this sentence silently in your heart, it means that you are really attracted to the other party and like it very much. That's why you will patiently wait for the other party to reply to the message, even if you miss him very much, you will endure not to disturb his work, just tell yourself to wait, maybe he will reply to the message later. It can be seen that this is a girl who is willing to give everything for each other, so I hope that the boy who is lucky enough to get her should cherish it!

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