Is there really a need for white lies?

It is necessary to divide the class status between people by language. A lie is a fabricated fact, a white lie.

itself is part of a fabrication. And the ability to fabricate and understand fabrication divides people into three, six, nine and so on. Because human social communication mainly relies on language, the ability to fabricate and understand determines the efficiency and amount of information in human social collaboration.

You can easily draw a line with ordinary people without harming them. ‍‍

It is very necessary, after all, sometimes white lies can have a good effect.

No, the original meaning of the phrase "white lie" is "I deceived you but I had no malice, even for your own good". But this "for your good" object does not necessarily appreciate it. ‍‍

It is necessary, and I used to think that as long as I am honest, I can never lie for the rest of my life. Now I feel like there are too many trivial things in life. Sometimes, in order to save time and energy for themselves, they will prevaricate and lie.

I feel that the white lies that I think are good for the other party are corrected at the root of the reason that they are not asking for trouble for themselves. ‍‍

It is necessary, sometimes, the truth is very hurtful, and I think people can have some white lies at some special times. It's about protecting those we love. ‍‍

Yes, when I was in school in England that year, I came back to bring it to my grandmother. I thought it was for my dearest person in the world. Grandma asked me:

How much do these shoes cost? I told her: 200 RMB.

Although my grandmother smiled happily, she still complained about how I bought it so expensive. In the county, such a price is only sold for 70 yuan. That winter, she had a good experience, saying that the 200 was indeed better than the 70.

It's also more comfortable and warmer to wear, but it still feels a little expensive. After wearing too much, I am willing to wear UGG to the vegetable garden to take care of the vegetables I grow. The values of the elderly are different from ours.

Why bother to tell him the real price to add to her psychological burden.

When I was a child, I read a book, the story of the little daughter and Santa Claus. Mom, dad has been giving gifts to his daughter every Christmas since she was two years old. When I was young, my daughter was very happy to receive the gift, and I really thought it was from Santa Claus, and I wanted to see what Santa Claus looked like and how he got in.

When the girl was seven or eight years old, she was suspicious, but her parents never broke it, and insisted that it was given by Santa Claus. When the girl grows up and understands that Santa Claus does not exist, her parents have been lying to her, but she is still happy and still hopes to receive Christmas gifts every year. It is because of this white lie that the little girl has a happy childhood, many dreams have become reality, she has received a lot of love and surprises, she has learned to give carnations on her mother's birthday, and she has learned how to love others.

The growth of a little girl is inseparable from this white lie.

No. All lies that are called white are always a lie, and lies are the greatest malice that can be produced against people in this world. ‍‍

Lying is absolutely wrong, there is no doubt about that. But it is also wrong to ask a person to never lie. You think, the biggest revelation that the years have given you is not to teach you to distinguish between right and wrong, but to let you know that the world is not black and white.

Most of the time, what we experience is vague and moves through gray areas, sometimes more for better, sometimes closer to worse, not so absolute. After going through it, we will gradually establish our own set of rules, but we often still feel a dilemma. Because, people are weak, timid, and have a lot of compulsions, so we are always struggling.

Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only a lack of responsibility for oneself, but also a disrespect for others, and even a loss to others and the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is false, untrue, and deceitful.

If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, to his relatives who are already sick.

What about telling the truth? Is this an undermine to integrity?

In real life, we all know that honesty is the principle of many people's lives. But in some cases, we are forced to tell some white lies, in order to make others better, so is it right to lie with white intentions?

I think that when necessary, instead of telling the truth, it is better to use white lies to make the other person's heart feel good.

White lies can lead to positive results

Here are a few examples from my life. I have a very nice girlfriend who has a boyfriend. Then one day when I was on the street, I suddenly found that her boyfriend was holding hands with other girls, and they were very close together.

As a best friend, I was very angry at this time, and just a few days later my friend said that the boy had broken up with her.

In such a situation, although I can honestly tell my girlfriend that it was because this boy fell in love with other girls and stepped on two boats, so he broke up with you, but I think that saying this will make my girlfriend more angry, and it is better to make my good friend feel better than telling the truth.

Another example is to touch Wang Zhiru and said that when I was approaching the college entrance examination, in fact, there was a very big incident in my family, that is, my father had a car accident, his waist bent and went to the hospital, and he was also admitted to the intensive care unit. At that time, it was close to the time of the college entrance examination, I would call ** to my father every month, I suddenly found that my father's ** could not be through, only my mother answered, I vaguely felt that something was wrong and asked my mother, and then my mother said that my father had been very busy on a business trip recently.

But in fact, after I finished the college entrance examination, I found out that something happened to my father. If my mother told me the truth in that situation, it would definitely affect my mood at that time and affect my results in the college entrance examination.

Judge the situation and learn to turn

So many times, integrity is a basic principle for each of us. But in some special cases, when a white lie can really make the other party have a better life, I don't think it's necessary to die for that honest laughing principle. Integrity is a principle, but I also have to learn to turn.

We have to judge according to the situation at that time, for example, I gave two examples, during the college entrance examination, if I knew that my father had an accident, would I still be in such a good school? If a white lie can bring positive results and bring benefits to others, it is actually not contrary to the principle.